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writes: Ok i been with my bf 4 a year and a half. Tonight i bumped into a old highschool friend who was also a highschool flame. I went the homecoming in eleventh grade with him and then it went great but we stop talkin til the nite of graduation which was a year ago. Anyway i bumped into him and we hangout all nite. We got really close and we kissed. He told me that hes been thinkin of me ever since we last talked and has never gotten over me. I have liked him ever since eleventh but i dont kno what 2 do. Plz gave me advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2006): From time to time everyone in relationships get tempted by other people. The question is: Do you go with the temptation, or stick to the commitment of the relationship.
If everyone always chose the temptation, there would never be any monogamous relationships, there would be no commitment, no family units, society would be a complete mess.
Before this old flame came back in to your life, were you happy with your relationship? Or were their problems? If you were happy with your relationship you should see this temptation for what it is, and not act on it. If your relationship was troubled any way, perhaps this is a good situation to call the relationship off. Please, respect your boyfriend and your current relationship and not further cheat or abuse your boyfriends trust. Treat others as you would like to be treated. End it if you wish to pursue something with someone else.
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reader, miss nade +, writes (23 June 2006):
 If you are considering the possibility of a new relationship then you mustn’t be in love with your current man. If not then this relationship is not for you have fun!
Or alternatively it could just be a passing whim.
I have a mate who I love dearly, he was my boss for ages I was his money penny he my 007 and as with that relationship I had a mad crush on him there was extreme chemistry between the two of us.
After 8 years we did have a fling and while the sex was really amazing, I had built him up in my mind to be a totally different person I was in love with the idea of what he could be in a relationship with me as opposed to he really was….
Why did you stop speaking to your old flame in the first place?
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