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writes: well.. I am sort of in a relationship with a guy, however it's not an actuel relationship, we just have deap feeling for each other and act as if we are in this relationship. (i know, kind of confusing huh!) anyway.. i met this other guy at a concert last week and met up with him earlier on this weak aswel, he said he really likes me and i feel the same about him. we are hoping to meet up again very soon! I told the other guy about how i feel with the concert guy and he obviously was a little upset, but he still said he loved me and always will. I dont have to worry about loosing him as i know he will love me no matter what i do. However im not quite sure waether being with this other guy is the right thing to do. I am pretty sure that it wont last, its just a bit of fun. do you think i should keep on seing the concert guy?! or finish it with him now and just work things with the 1st guy?thankyou for any relpys to this questionxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2006): Who really gets your heart all in a flutter eh? Who can you not have a day go by without thinking about them? And who do ya wanna kiss...
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reader, Smiler +, writes (1 June 2006):
 Hey there
Well sweetie you certainly do sound very confused, my honest advise to you is just be good friends with the concert guy and concentrate your full attenetions to the 1st guy cause to be honest sweet that sounds to me that this is actually what your heart is telling you to do you obviously have deep feelings for the first guy as you kinda dismissed the concert guy as just a bit of fun you knew wouldn't last so if you listen to your heart honey you have actually already made the decision without even realising it...
Good luck, i hope my advise has been a little helpful to you if you ever want to chat or just more advise or moral support i'm always here for you sweetie ok
You Take Care X
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reader, miss nade +, writes (1 June 2006):
 Dear Anonymous,If 1st guy really loves you, a pure love that connects your souls then he will always have a place in your life. You should ask him if he wants a relationship with you or if he is happy to have your friendship. Remember just because you are in a relationship with one lad does not mean that you can’t have a friendship with another, I think that it is really important that we as humans have friendships from both sexs.I find that it is magical beginning a new relationship, making an effort for each other and learning about the other person and seeing yourself from their perspective. Life is about learning lessons, having experiences so if concert guy and you spend time hanging out together nothing lost if you decide that the two of you are not meant to be.with love Miss Nade.
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reader, camille  +, writes (1 June 2006):
 Why can't you just be friends with both? Do you have to have a relationship with either? You have feelings but maybe it's too soon to know whether you have a crush or deep feelings or just a strong connection/bond with one or both. Maybe make a list?
What you like about them? Why you like them? What was it that first made you attracted to them? What you have in common? How dod they make you feel? Who makes your tummy flip? Who would you miss? Why is 'concert guy' a bit of fun? Don't you have fun with the other guy? No-one can make this decision for you, but please either choose one or neither as it wouldn't be fair to keep them both hanging on.
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