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writes:When I was with my ex Andrew he wanted me to try differant positions.....I said no. Then today my current boyfriend asked me if he could do a differant position but I am too afraid I'll do it wrong...What should I do? Is there a wrong way to have sex?
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reader, camille  +, writes (13 July 2006):
 You don't say how old you are and it may be irrelevant, but if you are underage, that would make any sex wrong! Other than that, any consensual sex isn't wrong, but you need to research more about sexual positions. There's plenty different ways to have sex and you may find some you enjoy more than your current position. Don't worry about 'doing it wrong', there are no rules. Just do what feels right. Everyone has a first time and you'll find as with everything, practice makes perfect ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2006): Of course there isnt a wrong way, but some are easier and more pleasurable than others. If both of you are enjoying it, does it really matter?Explain to him how you feel, relax and if you feel ready and comfortable then yeah why not try different positions.If the guy is inexperienced as well, you can discover the positions that you both like together, if he is more experienced, then ask him to guide you and to take it slow. Hopefully you have trust with him, and if you ask him to stop at any time he will. It might feel a bit uncomfortable at first, but it does get better, and soon you will be enjoying it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2006): If you're up for different positions (It sounds like he has some ideas in mind that he wants to try out) let him guide you and show you how he wants you. If you don't like it you can stop. Don't be afraid, let him be your guide :) Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2006): If your unsure, go out and buy yourself a book, there are some good ones out there that will tell you what to do in the different positions. Trust me I've got one, and it's great fun trying them out. Some will make you laugh, others will really spice things up. Go on give it a go!
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reader, miss nade +, writes (13 July 2006):
 Sex should be about having fun with someone you love. As long as neither of you cause the other pain, there is no right or wrong way to make love......
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