How do I live the rest of my life married to someone I don't love and I can't marry again?
Q. Dear Cupid I am 30+ years old Indian (Asian) women with a great career. Married but not living with my husband (no kids, he is impotent), it was arranged marriage we never got along well. Trying for divorce, but my husband wants to give this ano...
A. 20 January 2013: I do not think that it is an an issue, there are steps that you need to take, First, get the divorce and have your own freedom and life it will also save you the misery of seeing your husband every day and also for him to move on
Second once you... (read in full...)
Already spent 1000 dollars to help the man I love to come to visit me and now he's asking me to take a big loan for him
Q. Hello to all, When I went to china recently for a training course, I met a guy. I thought that our relationship would be only brief but he told me that he wants me to know that it was not only about getting some fun for him but he has feelings...
A. 5 November 2012: Just to give you another point of view, i got in touch with an old girlfriend a while ago, it has been 23 years we had not spoken with her, there was a desire to meet, she did not have a job then so we decied to meet halfway and I paid for the ... (read in full...)
Virginity is a huge deal in the Indian culture and I've lost mine to an ex so how do I face my future husband now?
Q. I am an Indian girl in our culture virginity matters a lot in marriage.i lost my virginity to my ex,i thought one day we will get married but he was so abusive so i broke up with him, now i am really scared ...i strongly believe that without honesty ...
A. 2 November 2012: I live in Delhi and its best that you inform who ever you are marring that you have been involved, if he cannot accept that then you are better off not marring such people, I agree with one comment here that "do not inform after you get married" ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's family disapproves of our relationship and is forcing him to marry someone else
Q. This probably an unusual question. I am an English girl living in Spain, For the past 18 months I have been in a relationship with a Hindu man from Delhi. We had planned to marry in November, obviously completely against the wishes of his family. ...
A. 28 September 2012: I wish you the best and all i can say that if he cant be man enough to be with you, let him go, no one can stop an adult unless he has something more to loose.
Once can always get another passport and no one can be with some one 24 hrs a day, may... (read in full...)
My good friend told me this morning he has fallen for me but I don't feel the same way. How do I handle this?
Q. Hi,I am from India and i am friends with guy 3 years older than me.Until today morning,everything was just great.We used to hang out and have a great time talking and being goofy with each other and today morning he told me that he is falling for ...
A. 3 September 2012: Tell him how u feel....period... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's family disapproves of our relationship and is forcing him to marry someone else
Q. This probably an unusual question. I am an English girl living in Spain, For the past 18 months I have been in a relationship with a Hindu man from Delhi. We had planned to marry in November, obviously completely against the wishes of his family. ...
A. 3 September 2012: Hi I am an Indian and from New Delhi and also a Hindu, just a few questions fro you, if he has been working in Spain he must be independent and can make his own decisions, also once can go to a public booth and call you, one can get a phone for less ... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to hook up with someone from 21 years ago?
Q. Tell me is it a good idea to hook up with some one you cared about 21 years ago? Not an ex no break up but some one you had a great week with in 19991. How come the care is still there? am i seeking something, do not need any thing additional, ...
A. 8 December 2011: she is not seeking a relationship and she is not our of a relationship recently, nor is she in one, we just got together due to face book and are curious? ... (read in full...)
He doesn't know how to break off with his 19 year old g/f to be with me!
Q. First,let me start with my mistake. I started an affair before I decided for sure to leave my husband of 9 years. Husband is a good man, but we married at 19 and my feelings have changed. I love him, but no longer in love or desire him. We have a 6 ...
A. 21 March 2011: you got what you are giving your husband....... (read in full...)
My bf is angry at me because I took drugs as part of my religious ceremony!!
Q. Okay basically me and my boyfriend have been together about 8 months. its a long distance relationship. he is 20 and i am 16. we are both different religions. in my religion about once a year on a festival they make a special drink which contains ...
A. 3 March 2011: Tennisstar, you got that right, Its a Hindu thing we do on Holi (20th March 2011)and we drink it to get high and its not a religious thing at all. A lot of people drink it only on that day and its just fine....Not illeagel here..though smoking it ... (read in full...)
I've been putty in my parents' hands
Q. Hi Agony Aunts, How can I make my Parents respect me? I feel They aren't taking me or my words seriously and are trying to make my decisions for me. They get emotional when I tell Them to not meddle in my decisions. How can I not hurt Them and ...
A. 28 January 2011: MOve out of home, live alone for a bit join a club, meet people go on online dating, ask your friends to introduce you to women.
Parents are always tough and moving out is the only option, also if you are staying alone then restrict conversa... (read in full...)
Which one should I marry?
Q. I have two marriage proposals. one girl with average beauty and professionaly just good another is very ugly but professionaly very good my confusion is whom to marry? I have no thoughts at all regarding my future plans...
A. 3 December 2010: if you can not decide who to marry then you are not mature to marry, wait a few years more... (read in full...)
Should I leave my husband and kids for this unemployed guy?
Q. Iam married and I have two kids. I've been married to Paul for 7 years. I was never really sexualy attracted to him and he never made me feel good when we had sex! I married him because in our religion if the girl doesn't get married young then ...
A. 3 December 2010: you have got yourself in a fine mess, its best you stay away from Josh, I am surprised that your husband has not thrown you out of his house.
If you follw josh then you are walking a path to hell from which you will not be able to come back.
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Girlfriend's male friend invited her to his Basketball game.
Q. Okay, so my girlfriend got back in touch with one of her male friends that she knew when she was like 15. They started catching up and everything and the guy has a gf and a kid and he is like 22 (my gf is 21). Anyway he plays basketball and is ...
A. 3 December 2010: I think that you GF is trying to tell you that she has to go because her mother in going, infact i feel that since she wishes to go she is telling you that her mother wishes to go? Comprande?... (read in full...)
Is this simply a case of him wanting the best of both worlds?
Q. Ok so if I was to explain the story in full, you'd be reading for a loooong time, so i'l try to keep it brief! basically, me and my ex were together for 3 and a half years and, to my knowledge, everything was great, we had talked about spending the ...
A. 3 December 2010: he is using your emotions to make you hi9s fuck buddy and you are towing the line, no good will come out of this and you shall end up being more hurt. Stay awway from him...... (read in full...)
After all that's happened how could I still love him?
Q. Ok so I'm with this guy for 2 1/2 yrs, we live together, we have roommates, dogs, the whole nine...anyway, we do fight a lot but I can honestly say I was too uptight. But also about other things like him cheating and then me cheating on him just to ...
A. 3 December 2010: well you had had trouble and now you are going out of your way to seek more trouble, deep down i do not think that you love him but the idea of love, also the relationship over the time cannot go away overnight, so you still get the pages and do not ... (read in full...)
My Mom doesn't want me to go to college!
Q. Hey I need advice real bad. Ok I want to start school in Jan and I really really want to start. I've been trying to my GED for 2 years and I finally got it. I was soooo happy. But before I found out I passed the test, I got a job working with my ...
A. 3 December 2010: Please attend College, you have all your life to work, it shall get you better jobs and better pay and with time you shall rise in your profission. Two/three years today will be a game changer for the rest of your life......... (read in full...)
Crush on my lecturer....what happens next?
Q. Can I like my Lecturer? What happens to him?...
A. 1 December 2010: Find relationship somewhere else....Lecturer and students should not have any liason, will cause harm to both....... (read in full...)
Should I have sex?
Q. I am not sure if I should have sex or not and I was hoping for some input based on the following 1. I REALLY want to have sex 2. I trust my partner and have been with him for three years. 3. I feel at 25 I should be having sex or at least ...
A. 1 December 2010: If you have a good relationship and feel comfertable with the relationship, go ahead, dont think too much about it... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to sleep with someone on the first night?
Q. Is it a mistake to sleep with someone on the first night? Even if you've been friends for years? We had sex on the first night, and I really like him. He's still here even though we had sex. He tells me he misses throughout the day, and that he ...
A. 1 December 2010: you will have to wait and watch as to how things develop and see if there is a relationship there. NOrmally its best avoided sleeping on the First night... (read in full...)
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