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writes:Is it a mistake to sleep with someone on the first night? Even if you've been friends for years? We had sex on the first night, and I really like him. He's still here even though we had sex. He tells me he misses throughout the day, and that he really likes me, which kinda worried me because he did say he didn't realize how much he likes me. He said that we can make this work. I'm excited for this new relationship, but I'm just scared I may have hurt it by sleeping with him right away. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): What's wrong with sleeping with someone on the first date? It's your choice and what you want to as long as your not forced and no what your getting yourself into. The fact is that he has said he still wants to be with even after sleeping together this shows that your lucky because he is still intrested afterwards when most men arent so I think you should grasp it with both hands, be happy and look foward to your realtionship together
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reader, Mig29  +, writes (1 December 2010):
you will have to wait and watch as to how things develop and see if there is a relationship there. NOrmally its best avoided sleeping on the First night
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 You were lucky. He is not leaving after sex, in fact, it seems as though his behavior has changed for the better if he is willing to tell you how much he likes you. This does not happen a whole lot. Most guys will ignore a girl after they have sex too soon.
If you are both looking for a relationship, just see how this one goes. I doubt sex would have hurt it much, unless it is all he talks about or what his actions revolve around. But it does not sound like it. Best wishes.
I hope that helps.
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