We have been together 5 years and he hardly shows any affection, what should I do?
Q. Hi everyone, a fabulous new year to you all. I sincerely need your advice on this one. I and my Boyfriend have been dating for 5years now. We are in love, and we've gotten so fond of each other. But i find it disturbing that he barely shows ...
A. 10 January 2012: Hey, Five years is quite a length to be dating and a lot of people find that as throughtout the first year passion is strong and constant tht by the 3rd year its started to die down. There are a number of ways to get his attention.We don... (read in full...)
Should I ask her on a date? and how?
Q. There is woman about my age working in my local cafè I really like her and I think she is giving me signs smiles and waves when i come in and asks how I am and when in the Q she is not like that to the other customers the thing is though there is ...
A. 10 January 2012: Hey,
I would say to test a water, drop a sublte hint, make her know that your interested because if its not returned you've boosted her confidence anyway so its win win kind of.! To be honest Although there are other staff there make a point of... (read in full...)
I'm thinking I'm holding onto this girl in the hopes that when she loses weight, I'll already be the one dating her...is this a bad thought?
Q. so ive been talking to this girl over msn and we have connected straight away. we like all the same stuff and we have been talking to each other basically all day everyday since we started talking vis texting and msn. we both like each other and w...
A. 2 January 2012: Hello my lovely,
To be honest it is technically 'morally' wrong to say these things. However, you’re a teenager its part of it all, it’s part of the growing up and in today’s society it’s all about competition about who’s the best looking etc. I un... (read in full...)
I've never been in a relationship, and I'm worried that I'm too small. Can I get someone's opinion?
Q. This is a question to all the gay guys (straight women as well) out there. What do you consider a "short dick?" A penis that is too small to give pleasure during penetration. I'm a 16 year old closeted gay guy and I've never been in a ...
A. 8 July 2011: Hi Im a girl so im not sure about how gay men would react to size but often women take the view that size does not count its technique that matters. Its probably nothing honestly with age you become more experienced. 6 inches can give a lot of p... (read in full...)
Any advice for talking/dancing with girls?
Q. I've recently turned 18 so I've been going out clubbing and to pubs more often. I'm single, and I see a lot of girls there that I am far too shy to talk to! I have REALLY low confidence and I think I'm too ugly for anyone to notice me. Plus, the ...
A. 1 July 2011: Hiya, I've recently turned 18 and probably have quite an average confidence level. But i know what you mean the best thing you can do is have a luagh girls like guys who can make them laugh. On a night out there are guys who come over and start ... (read in full...)
Sex hurts so much! How do I make b/f understand?
Q. My boyfriend always wants sex. But recently im really sore that last time we did it I nearly cried. I don't know why im sore its not like I'm allergic to him. He's always going on at me about not having sex but I just can't go through with it. What ...
A. 30 June 2011: He should understand. Even if you make it into a game and engage in foreplay and tell him he has to wait until hes 'earned' sex and make it into a sexual game therefore you arent in pain and he will still be aroused. I hope this helps :)... (read in full...)
Found out my friends are a little two faced - what now?
Q. My bestfriend who i have known for around 4 years now had started turning a bit cold recently and its been bugging me. We still go out and have parties and talk about everything, but i was on her social network account tonight she left unattended at ...
A. 30 June 2011: The best advice i can give you is to play them at their own game. Don't tell them you know and just don't be as friendly if you can. Its a hard thing to have trust broken in a bestfriend relationship but honestly youll be stronger for it. The ... (read in full...)
Looks or personality?
Q. Hello, would you say looks is more important than personality? I have had this boy who has been asking me out for the last week or so, i didnt no what to say because to me he is not very good looking at all, and looks realy matters to me! But his ...
A. 30 June 2011: first things first. Before you actually know someone the first thing that has to be there is attraction. I once went with a boy who was the sweetest person i have met but the attractioin was lacking and it meant that kissing was not enjoyable as i ... (read in full...)
How do I stop from being so obvious when I am checking out girls?
Q. Hello, I am 17 and I'm gay. :) I love everything about girls. Their body, the way they move and laugh and smile. Literally everything. And that's..... becoming a slight problem to me. The problem is: I don't know why but sometimes, I find myself...
A. 30 June 2011: Question... are you defo a lesbian ... its just often we fantacise about the same sex and wonder what they would be like sexually as women are more glamorous than men. I know what you mean though sometimes you may see someone who looks stunning or ... (read in full...)
Are they my friends if they ignore me? I feel they push me away. But they make a fuss over this other girl.
Q. Today wasn't exactly wonderful for me. My birthday is coming up this week, I'm so excited, and my one friend's birthday is the day after mine, so our friends said that they were going to throw a party for both of us, which was great because I have...
A. 8 June 2011: Can i point out the best possible thing for you to do is to rise above it. Honestly. I was bullied by a few girls at one point in my life it would have been small things like running away or not talking to me for no reason. One day i cried and was ... (read in full...)
Are they my friends if they ignore me? I feel they push me away. But they make a fuss over this other girl.
Q. Today wasn't exactly wonderful for me. My birthday is coming up this week, I'm so excited, and my one friend's birthday is the day after mine, so our friends said that they were going to throw a party for both of us, which was great because I have...
A. 6 June 2011: To be honest thet really don't sound like true freinds. Put yourself in an onlookers shoes ... if you seen this happen what would you tell the other girl. To be honest i would ask yourslef how much do you value their friendship if alot then say to ... (read in full...)
I want to break up easily
Q. Hey guys I really need advice on how to break up with my girlfriend, I'm going to try and ease her down but I need help on exactly what to do. I need tips on everything Where What to say Should I tell her and leave Should I tell her and walk her...
A. 6 June 2011: Not an easy thing to do my friend but more respect to you for actually seeking advice to try and ease the hurt. The easiest way for you to break up is to MOST CERTINALLY say it to her face, she'll respect you more for it. Believe me girls talk ... (read in full...)
FWB gone wrong, what should I do now?
Q. I've been in a "friends with benefits" situation for the past 6 months with a good acquaintance of mine that I've known for several years. I've been okay with it - I knew that he was still scoping out other girls, and I've been open to dating others ...
A. 2 June 2011: Hi. I think we all expereience this at one part or another. We all want to try something out and know that if we don't like it or don't want to continue we can end it. in a sense we want almost like a physical non commitment relationship. However, ... (read in full...)
Wife Said Top Fantasy Is Another Woman
Q. My wife and I were sharing fantasies. I thought mine were fairly normal and things we could do together. However, My wife's number 1 fantasy is sex with another woman. I was shocked! I am actually not part of any of her fantasies she listed. I ...
A. 2 June 2011: Hi. To be honest your not overreacting im sure any first reaction to this answer would be "well whats wrong with me?" However a lot of women fantasise about what another woman would be like for different reasons some becuase they are curious others ... (read in full...)
Weed cost me my girl, what should I do now?
Q. Hello guys I'm in a bit of a dilemma here. I have met this girl at my local youth group and she's lovely and extremely beautiful and I found out she liked me and things went from there like flirting but not bf and gf then just recently I got caught ...
A. 2 June 2011: Hey. More power to you for accepting that it is potenially your fault however it can still be fixed. I know dope seems like a fun thing to do and to smoke but to be honest is it worth loosing potential relationships over. I would say to approach ... (read in full...)
Teenagers and sex--the stress is almost unbearable!
Q. I have some thoughts I’d like to share with you guys about the sexual pressure young people are under. I appreciate that I’m only speaking for myself, and most of my points will be drawn from my personal experience, but any opinions and feedback ...
A. 1 June 2011: Exactly! I know exactly where your coming from. i am in a relationship with my boyfriend of 5 months and from the outset we said we would be open and disscuss worries or concerns with one another. We both expressed that sex was just not on either ... (read in full...)
If you want to wait, then wait...
Q. ok i've been reading some questions that put some people in very tricky situations. There was one about a girl who couldn't decide if she wanted to "go all the way" so if your having the same problem here's a tip. Sex isn't everything. if your ...
A. 1 June 2011: I would totally agree with this. I have been in a relationship for around 5 months now with someone i feel so secure with. Sex has been discussed from the outset. We decided that it would be best if we waited around a year before even contimpl... (read in full...)
My girlfriend stayed out for the night and told me she had to share a bed with another man! This is unacceptable to me. What does everyone else think?
Q. My partner went on a night out with her work mates and missed the late train back. See was with two females and 1 male - so they got a family room at a hotel. When she got back the next morning she told me she had to share a bed with the male...
A. 1 June 2011: To be honest i can see where you're coming from. It's all about trust. You need to ask yourself how much do you trust your Girlfriend, as you've been in a relationship for 6 months. i would conclude you have quite a trusting relationship. My boyf... (read in full...)
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