What is wrong? I feel I'm closing myself off from others. I can not understand why this is happening.
Q. I just don't know what's wrong with me.For a while now,I've felt so down,tired and so very,very sad.There's no reason for it,nothing's happened to me.I'm just so sad. I feel like closing myself off to everyone and just disappearing into my own worl...
A. 26 November 2011: Taking care of yourself should help to fix this emotions you're feeling. Get a new up do, go shopping for some new clothes, work out and get together with some friends for a night our and look your BEST! Treat yourself like you would treat your best ... (read in full...)
What if I break up with my boyfriend and regret it and I'm not happy with the other guy? Or what if I don't and I end up completely happy? How do I decide?
Q. So, I have been dating my boyfriend for over two and a half years. We broke up after about 6 months because we were both in different places, but got back together afterwards. Since then, things have been great and our relationship turned around so ...
A. 14 July 2011: well, we don't know what's going to happen in the future, we only have our present... so if you are happy at this moment with your boyfriend, why would you even consider break up with him?... or am I missing something?... If you love your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
Are these signs that are telling me that he will remain in my life?
Q. What can be consider signs?.... Ok so I'm in the process of moving on from my last love, I'm seeing someone (not working) doing my own thing, etc... Anyways, I had this thing before during the time him and I were on/off relationship, it's gonna ...
A. 7 June 2011: Haha you are totally right... I guess one day things that happen like that won't call my attention anymore as it does now... Thank you for the advice ;)... (read in full...)
I've been in love with this woman for the last 8 years of my life while she's been trying to figure out what she wants...
Q. Alright. I feel that the more details I provide, the better my situation will be understood. So, this will probably be quite lengthy and I thank in advance anyone who takes the time to read it. So, I met this girl when I was 19 and we s...
A. 5 June 2011: Wow you are really in love... And only our hearts know how we feel when we love someone huh.... Maybe the distance has played a big role in this story, I would say give it time... Maybe when you come back for good you can see what's up there, you ... (read in full...)
We met on line. But he's inconsistent. Is it him or is it me? I'm baffled by his attitudes.
Q. I'm seeing this guy, it's been a month, we like each other and like to spend time together. we met online and on our first date he invited me to a work event and introduced me to his co-workers and boss, etc. So we agreed to take things slow and ...
A. 5 June 2011: Thank you guys, well I think I might just be looking for excuses to break up w him, I think he's nice and a good guy for sure, and trust me I'm not controlling nor clingy, but in the past I've been stringing along for long time, so I kind of have ... (read in full...)
We met on line. But he's inconsistent. Is it him or is it me? I'm baffled by his attitudes.
Q. I'm seeing this guy, it's been a month, we like each other and like to spend time together. we met online and on our first date he invited me to a work event and introduced me to his co-workers and boss, etc. So we agreed to take things slow and ...
A. 5 June 2011: Thank you guys, well I think I might just be looking for excuses to break up w him, I think he's nice and a good guy for sure, and trust me I'm not controlling nor clingy, but in the past I've been stringing along for long time, so I kind of have ... (read in full...)
He treated me bad when we were together so why can't I move on?
Q. It's been so long, over a year and his image still in my memory and my heart... Is this love? He's with someone else now, if you read my old posts you know how the story goes... I'm seeing someone new now too, and he's a great guy but gosh! ... I ...
A. 2 June 2011: You guys are right... I'll try to enroll in those classes, salsa sounds fun! Ha ... He wasn't all bad... He was crazy about me at the beginning and I broke up with him twice out of impulse... It wasn't mayor things but it just got me mad enough to ... (read in full...)
If I am going to break up with my husband what things do I need to consider?
Q. If I am going to break up with my husband. What things do I need to consider? I think I have enough reasons to do it. Do I have to go to a councillor before I can see a divorce lawyer? I am not sure how this works. Why do I think I have enough r...
A. 27 May 2011: I would suggest you ask him to leave for some time... I'm divorce too, and there are a couple of facts you need to take in consideration, do you have kids? if you do, try not to make it hard on them, if you don't, well it's much better. You are ... (read in full...)
How can I get over my paranoid fear that my bf might be talking to this other girl? Should I take one last look at his phone?
Q. Due to past relationships, it took me around 10 months to trust my boyfriend fully. I was on his phone the other day, I was using the internet to check my bank account when I found myself on his facebook. I'm not usually one to snoop, but after a ...
A. 24 May 2011: Ugh... I hate when this happen.... Girl just tell him what you found out, and see his reaction, I think you should definately give him a break to sort things out, he's trying to be an smart ass and play the field, you don't need that. So, talk to ... (read in full...)
Should I try to contact her one last time or just say bon voyage?
Q. Hi everyone! So here's the deal, my ''ex'', and I met over an internet game, at first we really didn't care for each other - I thought she was a terrible player, in turn she thought I was an asshole. But then as time went by we kind of grew on ...
A. 24 May 2011: This is like a real love story :)... I had that happened to me, and I acted just like your girl... when I find someone perfect for me who makes me happy I don't wanna let him go for nothing, but if the I know that the distance is something I can't ... (read in full...)
Was it wrong to ask my boyfriend what he thought of me?
Q. hi good people please help me here. I've got a boyfriend that i am going out with for seven months now. he does not tell me he loves me not even when i ask him. he is always busy that i only see him twice or once a month. when im with him he is ...
A. 19 May 2011: Uh oh... I don't really see anything good on this :( I'm sorry... you should not have to feel shame to ask this questions, you have a life and he needs to respect your time, if he is looking to just hangout he should be able to be uo front and tell ... (read in full...)
Should I accept my bf's faults or move on?
Q. Hi, Are these reasons to end a relationship? *we only get to sleep together about 4 nights in every 2 months due to work commitments, even though we live 5 miles apart! His excuse is that i wake up far too early as he's a late sleeper and i fidge...
A. 19 May 2011: I think you know inside your heart what's going on here, don't you? listen to your gut! If he wants to spend time with you, he would drive 30miles every day if he has to, that's how love make us act. He should treat you like a princess and no matter ... (read in full...)
Said he wants to marry me, but he also said he had the perfect girl and he lost her. I need some advice about this relationship
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and we have both fallen for each other "in love". Currently I notice that all of the women in his previous relationships have started to pop up. Giving him phone calls questioning our relation...
A. 19 May 2011: I can totally relate to this... I've been in the position of your bf, and I think anyone could relate to this actually. I have being so in love in the past but he wasn't feeling the same so I let them go, so to be able to move on you spend time ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that sex on the first date was a deal-breaker. Should I ask him where this is going?
Q. I recently went out with friends a few weeks ago and met a guy. We exchanged numbers. Got to know a bit about each other and made plans to get together. So we finally get together and end up sleeping together. I don't make it a habit of sleeping ...
A. 19 May 2011: Well if he's still talking to you often and making sure you know he's interested, it shouldn't be that hard to find out where this is going. You should ask him, if he's a good guys for you, he would understand you want to know where you guys stand ... (read in full...)
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