Sexless marriage driving me crazy !
Q. Dear Cupid, I love my wife very much but I am going insane. We have sex once in three months. I feel a physical disconnect even though I try to cuddle kiss and initiate love making. I believe that in life if you do not want something to hap...
A. 13 June 2013: Seriously CindyCares? It's OK for once every 3 months because they have four kids? Good sex takes, what, 30 minutes? Give me a break.... (read in full...)
Does everyone fantasize during sex
Q. I have a question about masturbation and fantasies. I'm 33 and have been with my bf for a year. Last night we were having sex and after it was over we were lying in bed and the subject of masturbation came up. I made the mistake of asking what he ...
A. 23 July 2012: I don't think it's abnormal to fantasize but it would be best if he were to think of you when he does it. Every time you climax you tell your brain that whatever you're thinking of or seeing is erotic. So, it would probably improve your relationship ... (read in full...)
Do guys get turned off by stretch marks during sex?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little over a year and a half. he is nice funny, sweet, and loves me so much but i'm really insecure about my body, i dont' wear shorts around him or tanktops ,I use capris, any shirt with any kind of ...
A. 14 June 2012: After being with someone for so long you want to be able to open up as much as you can - I wouldn't make a big deal about it. My wife has some stretch marks after bearing two kids on her 5'3 person and it is what it is, you love someone and you love ... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend to finger me without me having to ask!
Q. I'm just wondering how to get my boyfriend to finger me before sex without me flat out saying it, like any sexy ways. Thanks!...
A. 22 April 2012: Just drag his hand there, he should get the picture!... (read in full...)
Blow job with a condom?
Q. I want to give this guy a blow job but I can not stand semen! People tell me to spit it out but even the thought of having it in my mouth makes me wanna throw up. What should I do? Is it OK to give a blow job with a condom so that the semen doesn't ...
A. 31 March 2012: They make something called a dental dam. Usually flavited, looks like a square of cloth. I have never used one but it might work for you? ... (read in full...)
How do I control my sexual urges? I've gone from a highly sexual relationship to one where there's no sex yet
Q. I was in a long term relationship where I was having sex about 5 times a week, now I'm no longer in that relationship I'm finding that I'm having problems adjusting to having no sex life, I'm with another guy now but he's a virgin and we haven't ...
A. 31 March 2012: Can you try easing into things with some intense dry humping? Wear leggings and a tight shirt, he should be into that and it will make it pleasurable for all. You should be able to ease him into things with that strategy if he's open to sex in the ... (read in full...)
He wants a threesome! Isn't a twosome enough?
Q. So my boyfriend keeps telling me about a fantasy he has of having a threesome. It'd be something like he would have sex with me and I fool around with the other dude at the same time. But that just seems so odd to me, I wonder why he wants to bring ...
A. 18 February 2012: Agree with the other posters so far. OK so that's his fantasy but it's not your job to indulge his every fantasy. You need to make it clear that this will never happen. It's not like this is a harmless little fetish here like begging you to dress ... (read in full...)
Not enough sex in this marriage
Q. I love my wife. We have a great relationship, but no were near enough sex. I personally am up for it anytime anyplace. She also complains about not enough sex, but never initiates it. How can I change these things? ...
A. 28 January 2012: My wife has very rarely initiated, from dating through marriage. Just be glad she is looking for more sex and start intiating until you are satisfied with the amount, hopefully she won't be complaining that you are having too much sex!... (read in full...)
Spicing up sex for that extra "wow"
Q. Hi. I'm looking for simple ways to spice up sex with my boyfriend. We have a wonderful sex life, but I'd like to put some extra 'wow' into it as he has been so amazing to me lately when I've been very stressed. We've been together nearly 2 years. ...
A. 12 February 2011: You should run to Victoria's Secret and pick up something new and different to wear. Try jumping him at some random time, have something nice on underneath your regular clothes. When you start show him what's going on underneath but don't let him ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend used his sex toy to masturbate AFTER having sex with me!
Q. The other day my bf woke me to have sex. We did it and it was very good and after we both took a nap. When we woke I needed to run to the store for a few things. When I came back I noticed the bed comforter was pushed all the way to my side. He ...
A. 12 February 2011: I think it is a good sign that he answered you truthfully. He probably just assumed from past experience perhaps, that you wouldn't be interested in doing it again. If you would have been you should tell him so that he can ask you next time. But ... (read in full...)
She wants to take a "Mommy Break". Would getting her a weekend by herself for V-Day be unromantic?
Q. Would it be horribly un-romantic for me to book a beachfront room for my wife to take a 2-day getaway by herself, as a Valentines Day gift? She has been talking about wanting to take a "mommy break" as in, get away for a couple days to relax, read, ...
A. 12 February 2011: Hmm, LoveGirl that is an interesting thought. I think though that since this is what she has told me she really needs/wants, I will present it as I am thinking. Next time we can do a trip for the two of us but this time I think this is what she ... (read in full...)
Questions on sex and frequency of masturbation
Q. Ok, i have a few questions and need some general help as i dont really have anyone to ask for help with these questions. When your with your girlfriend and you get aroused and hard...does your hardness stay till you edjaculate or cum? Or does you...
A. 12 February 2011: When you masturbate are you very aroused? From personal experience if I masturbate twice in a day, the second time rarely has any ejaculate. And yeah a third time definitely nothing or very little. If I masturbate or have sex one day, the next ... (read in full...)
She wants to take a "Mommy Break". Would getting her a weekend by herself for V-Day be unromantic?
Q. Would it be horribly un-romantic for me to book a beachfront room for my wife to take a 2-day getaway by herself, as a Valentines Day gift? She has been talking about wanting to take a "mommy break" as in, get away for a couple days to relax, read, ...
A. 8 February 2011: Thanks everyone for the great response and support! I'm not going to book it for the 14th, she wants to go to the beach and I think doing a combined vday birthday gift and tentatively booking it for late mar/early april would be best. Still really ... (read in full...)
Sharing my wife... playing with fire?
Q. I want to know if anyone has ever played around with this – I am a 41 year old man… recently married a beautiful 27 year old woman. We are very much in love…trying to have a child together. We have a great sex life…but we are both on the adven...
A. 21 September 2010: Hmm, you said the only way she'd be into it is if it's another guy. Well then, you certainly warmed up to the idea so maybe she would warm up to the idea of a threesome with another girl. I mean what's fair is fair right? Of course that's the ... (read in full...)
How can I get my girlfriend to perform oral sex?
Q. Hi. I really want my girlfriend to suck me off. She used to do it a few times when she was drunk but now she won't do it at all. I am the soul pleasure giver and go out of my way to please her every time, sometimes spending hours at a time ...
A. 12 September 2010: What happens if you tell her that you won't give if you don't receive?... (read in full...)
It takes SO long for him in the bedroom
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been with each otehr over a year, and we're having trouble when it comes to sex. This isn't your usual... it only takes him three minutes! This is.. oh god, it takes him nearly three hours. We've tried to work each other up ...
A. 31 August 2010: Something tells me there is more to this story. A few possibilities that you need to explore are -
- Has he had this issue in the past with other women?
- Is he trying to be tantric?
- Is he wearing a latex condom? Might want to explore ... (read in full...)
Does the 600 calorie diet work?
Q. hey, was just wnddering whether i would lose weight if i went on a 600 cal diet? I mean eat 1000, burn 400? then once a week eat 2000 for a break? how much weight would i lose and how fast? i want to lose around 3 and a half stone overall, tyxx...
A. 26 August 2010: Weight gain and loss is more than calories in / calories out. If it was, everyone would be able to lose weight by cutting calories and exerciing more but it just doesn't work that well! You end up getting too hungry and over compensating wtih more ... (read in full...)
Any tips to lose some weight?
Q. im a male in my early fifties my wife is in her late fifties we have been married for 32 years almost 33 im 6ft 1 shes a tiny 5ft2 she weighes about 125 pounds and all of it still in all the right places she could pass for 35 or 40 she takes care of ...
A. 21 August 2010: Low carb diets work really well for men with a pot belly! Just cutting out all wheat products (bread, pasta, flour) can go a long way. heartscanblog.blogspot.com, www.marksdailyapple have helped a lot of folks in this situation.... (read in full...)
31 and never been kissed!
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a big problem. I'm 31 years old and male and have never had a girlfriend. I never even been on a date with a girl. I really like girls but am very unlucky not to have met someone. I haven't even ever kissed a girl before. ...
A. 21 August 2010: I was in your shoes at one point. The best thing to do is just get over the milestone. I didn't have my first kiss until I was 27, but even though I only dated that girl for a couple of months it really helped my confidence. So at this point ... (read in full...)
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