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writes:I'm just wondering how to get my boyfriend to finger me before sex without me flat out saying it, like any sexy ways. Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, Monkey man  +, writes (22 April 2012):
Move your hand up his leg to his crouch ,so u can get him excited and horny he will soon get the message
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2012): Starlights is right, next time you're intimate undo your pants and guide his hand down there gently.
If he starts to do it and stops just smile and whisper "don't stop" in his ear.
OP Young Old Lady is right, you can communicate your needs in a sexy way. Don't be afraid to whisper instructions into his ear in a smiling playful way and praise him when he's doing the right thing. Whispering things like "right there" "up a bit" "softer" "faster" etc. can all be done without ruining the mood. Just don't criticize him and he'll be glad to do it, he'll quickly get the hang of how you like done and will do it automatically once he knows.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (22 April 2012):
 Guide his finger there, that way your not saying it aloud.
More like guiding.
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reader, mb129 +, writes (22 April 2012):
Just drag his hand there, he should get the picture!
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reader, Young Old Lady +, writes (22 April 2012):
 Laughing to myself the first word that comes to mind is communication. Both you guys have to tell each what you like and dont like when it comes to sex. If you tell him thats what you like for him to without asking and he still doesnt,maybe thats something he doesnt like.
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reader, wingedlocket7 +, writes (22 April 2012):
Have you tried during foreplay to guide his hand down there? You have to remember most guys cant read minds so a little subtle guidence may be needed. if he still dont get the hint maybe you should both sit down and talk about what you would like to try or do for each other in the bedroom its always helped me.
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