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What do I do now after massive fall out?

Q.   I've just had a huge falling out with a close friend who's female, basically we argued because she wanted me to admit my true feelings for her and yeah I do like her, but she has a boyfriend. Now we ain't talking and she doesn't want any contact ...

A.   26 January 2009: Yea continue being her friend. It wouldn't be worth giving up friendship.... (read in full...)

What do I do now after massive fall out?

Q.   I've just had a huge falling out with a close friend who's female, basically we argued because she wanted me to admit my true feelings for her and yeah I do like her, but she has a boyfriend. Now we ain't talking and she doesn't want any contact ...

A.   24 January 2009: Oh wow. I knew it! Awwww I feel a happy ending coming soon too!! Hopefully she will get her mind together. She just needs time to think about the decisions that she's making. Just wait and see. I think you two will end up together. =]... (read in full...)

What do I do now after massive fall out?

Q.   I've just had a huge falling out with a close friend who's female, basically we argued because she wanted me to admit my true feelings for her and yeah I do like her, but she has a boyfriend. Now we ain't talking and she doesn't want any contact ...

A.   23 January 2009:  Well when she starts to get like that, just let her fuss and don't say anything. You two arguing will only cause the both of you to get annoyed with each other and soon will dislike each other's company. It's only a waste that will get you two ... (read in full...)

Are these signs that he doesn't want me anymore?

Q.   me n ma bf have been getting along fine but this last week he has been himself. I met him on Sundaii he ifngered n i pleasured him but then on Mondaii he promised me to wotch a film with me he dint so he sed tuesdaii he dint he sed thursdaii he dint ...

A.   23 January 2009:  Ok ew his attitude is a complete mess, he has no reason to be acting like that. And look whatever I say can mean nothing to you or it can mean something, but take it however you want to take it. That boy has possibly found interest in someone ... (read in full...)

I'm suffering from depression-can anyone please give some advice?

Q.   Can anyone help. I suffer from depression. Have been bullied at work, reported it to my bosses, nothing happened, reported it to HR and still nothing happened. I collapsed with stress on 31.10.08 and been off work ever since. Not a card from work, ...

A.   23 January 2009: Hmmm, I don't possibly know what exactly to say to help you. However, I do hope whatever I say helps you. You are a grown woman and sometimes I think depression is nothing but a phase. I think it also goes along with you letting certain things, ... (read in full...)

I want to get married next year but I know he isn't ready

Q.   i've been in a relationship with a guy for 5 years now and we love each order but the problem is that he is 23years old while am 26. This has been bothering me for a long time now cos i want to get married by next year and looking at him he is not ...

A.   23 January 2009:  Sit him down and have a conversation about it, yea it may be something that you want to do but you have to consider him into the situation too. You don't want to rush into a marriage and then have problems and you two actually sit down and think ... (read in full...)

Shes angry because I told a friend I love her

Q.   I told my friend that i love her and she became angry with me,what should i do because i dont want to break up with her. ...

A.   23 January 2009: I'm confused by your question but as I read it, it sounds like you're saying you told "a friend" that you love her and your "girlfriend" became angry. If that's the case let your gf know that you would never do anything to hurt her or offend her and ... (read in full...)

What do I do now after massive fall out?

Q.   I've just had a huge falling out with a close friend who's female, basically we argued because she wanted me to admit my true feelings for her and yeah I do like her, but she has a boyfriend. Now we ain't talking and she doesn't want any contact ...

A.   23 January 2009: Ok sure she might have a boyfriend but you're her friend, her close friend at that. And you should be able to express to her without any doubt in your mind that she will act differently towards you. You shouldn't leave it alone for too long because ... (read in full...)

Do people lie about their age?

Q.   do people lie about their age? If so, why?...

A.   23 January 2009: Yes! Some people do it and some people don't. Like PeterPan said [lOl] it could be for any reason. Ok like scenario 1: 15 year old girl..18 year old guy. Ok now she may look 16 or 17 but in a conversation they could have been having he might mention ... (read in full...)

Why is she lying about knowing him, he's on her facebook!

Q.   Ok, so I have this dilemma that is just eating at me. Im with this girl, she says we're more then friends and she "thinks" of me like a b/f. Well i was messaging her through MSN one night... and she wouldn't answer, then after awhile... Some guy...

A.   23 January 2009: lOl. This was funny, but all jokes aside I don't know if you should tell her because putting myself in the situation I would be pretty pissed that my male b/f read my messages too. Although I wouldn't be too mad because it's a bestfriend and ... (read in full...)

Now that he's not on probation, he wants little to do with me.

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over a year. After the first month I met him, he was arrested, I stayed with him through that. Then, six months later, he went to court for what he was charged for and put on six months probation. ...

A.   23 January 2009: Awww you're a sweetheart. But anyway to the point, I don't think you're being too needy at all. It's normal for a female to want and crave attention from the one she loves, but I mean think about it. You two have been with each other Everyday for a ... (read in full...)

He has a g/f but gives off signals he's interested

Q.   Hi! :) I hope you lot can help me with this... There is a guy in my class who I really liked, (but never spoke to for a whole year) but upon hearing he had a girlfriend, I decided to forget about him. Lately (for about the past 4 months) I'...

A.   23 January 2009:  No you weren't imagining things at all, he seems interested. I would say if it was me in the situation...not trying to seem petty but I wouldn't care about his girlfriend. I would still stay distance away from him because you wouldn't want to ... (read in full...)

He's confusing me so much! I don't know what to do anymore!

Q.   *He stares at me all the time with a small smile on his face. *When I catch him staring, he keeps on staring till I look away. *Walks across me sometimes for no reason. *Walks by me so close that our shoulders touch. *Shows-off sometimes. *H...

A.   23 January 2009: Oh yea I do remember these days when I was 13-15. By what you're saying yea there could be a sign that he is interested in you. But maybe he just doesn't see himself with you. Ok now don't get all worked up yet because you never know, I say you just ... (read in full...)

What causes menstrual cramps?

Q.   What does it mean when you cramp a lot during your period? but is not just a cramp that comes and goes it stays the whole day and it hurts bad. What is it?...

A.   23 January 2009: It's caused by prostaglandin[the chemical in your body that makes the smooth muscles in your uterus contract]. The muscles that do this are alson involuntary so that's why you can't control them. I recommend 2 aleves or just an 800 pill, eat ... (read in full...)

My husband won't put me above beer and doesn't want to have sex EVER.

Q.   Well basically my husband is an alcoholic which I didnt know when I met him and didnt know for a while after we started dating. Anyways, I fell in love with him, and eventually relized he drinks a lot (everyday). I told him that i didnt want to be ...

A.   23 January 2009:  Awww well ok first thing I have to say is, this is not the way you should be feeling [duh] ok enough of stating the obvious. I say that you should try to put in more ours at work, save some money, save some "me money" which is money you put down ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure I will ever fit into my boyfriend's life.

Q.   I'm not sure I will ever fit into my BF's life. We have been together for 7 months now, he is recently divorced and his family and friends invite his ex-wife to everything. He has never brought me and I know its because he knows I'll be ...

A.   23 January 2009:  Wow that's a situation, well I think that you should wait awhile because these kinds of things take time. You did say he recently just got out of a marriage so his family might not be ready for a new face yet, it would seem like he rushed to find ... (read in full...)

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