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writes:*He stares at me all the time with a small smile on his face.*When I catch him staring, he keeps on staring till I look away.*Walks across me sometimes for no reason.*Walks by me so close that our shoulders touch.*Shows-off sometimes.*Hugs me for no reason.*Touches my arm when we talk, holds my hand or put his arm around my shoulders.*Calls me by a singer's name since this singer and me have the same name.*There are days when he just ignores me and stares.*Always the one to initiate conversation.*Teases me and tickles me.*Makes funny jokes and watch me as I crack up laughing.It kinda sounds like he likes me but there are days where he just ignores me and when I tried getting him alone while he was with his friends, he blew me off and didn't apologize for it until my friend made a deal with him (he willingly agreed). And he still has pictures of this girl he courted in his phone (but the girl doesn't like him). I'm really confused. Please help? And some advice please?*This girl and him never got together. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): Hmm, I am confused by the first answer, so I will go it alone.
From all the signs he is flirting with you and he likes you. I would just continue being his friend and talking to him alot....I wouldn't blurt out how you feel about him, but you might say something back when he calls you that singer's name like "I like you too"....that will call him out on his flirting, but is still non threatening if you say this in a semi sarcastic manner or kind of flippant or funny...you get my drift...
Guys need a little encouragement, give it to him but let him make all the moves.....you are very young, just enjoy being his flirty friend....be flattered that he is giving you the attention, he likes you and thinks you are cute!
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reader, MartiniBaby  +, writes (23 January 2009):
Oh yea I do remember these days when I was 13-15. By what you're saying yea there could be a sign that he is interested in you. But maybe he just doesn't see himself with you. Ok now don't get all worked up yet because you never know, I say you just swallow your pride and one day when he puts his arm around you and you two are walking. Tell him you have to ask him a question, then tell him that you want an honest answer and them tell him how you feel about him but don't go on and on about nothing be straight to the point and let him know that point blank you like him and want to work something out. Yea it might seem scary to do but it's better than just sitting on your backside at home and daydreaming that leads to fantasizing that will eventually lead you to wondering and then hoping and wishing certain things between you two will happen. NO. Don't waste time because it's not worth it, just approach him but get your words together first and ask him the multi million dollar question "how do you really feel about me"? And I say to do this, not to put you in a trap for embarassment but to save you the time in worrying yourself. You have to have a whatever happens just will have to happen attitude though. And boys sometimes around this age like to play games, when they know you like them or find out from someone. They get head pumped, and will fu*k with your head because they're curious to know how far they can take you on this emotional roller coaster. If the story ends bad and he doesn't like you well....oh well, deal with it becuase there will always be other cute guys in the world who will blow your mind, it's not like there's only 3 cute boys per country. And plus these kinds of guys always end up liking you in the long run when they've seen how much you "grown up".
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