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writes:Hi! :) I hope you lot can help me with this...There is a guy in my class who I really liked, (but never spoke to for a whole year) but upon hearing he had a girlfriend, I decided to forget about him.Lately (for about the past 4 months) I've caught him...looking at me, quite a lot. (Y'know the type....when you look up, they look away, etc, etc.)Also.... he throws bits of paper at me whilst we're in class, but then looks away when I look to see who it was. I don't know if the rules still apply when you're 18, but I remember when you were about 7, this was a good sign. (Yeah, not quite sure why I like him either... haha)We often get the bus together, and on the days that we wait at the bus stop, he often... (it's difficult to explain) kinda, edges towards me. (Still doing the whole looking away thing)About a week ago, he came very close to me... about half a foot away, almost facing me. I'm pretty shy, so I didn't say anything, and neither did he.He er... then put his foot out directly in the puddle where I was staring at. So then I decided I HAD to look up, but when he did that, he bolted. (Well, not exactly, but he looked really scared and walked away to the other side of the bus stop.) When we got on the bus, he continued to turn around and look at me. (But when I looked at him, again... he looked away. I swear this happened like....20 times)So I started to get my hopes up, thinking that maybe he's single but shy. So I checked out his facebook and he still has a girlfriend. (TRUST me. It's been updated frequently, and he mentions his girlfriend a LOT...)So.... I'm really confused now.Was I imagining things when I thought he liked me?What does this guy want?What should I do? I really don't want to get involved with him if he's taken, or cause anything that will make him break up with the other girl. That wouldn't be fair on his girlfriend, and I wouldn't want to do that.Any help would be great!
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reader, MartiniBaby  +, writes (23 January 2009):
No you weren't imagining things at all, he seems interested. I would say if it was me in the situation...not trying to seem petty but I wouldn't care about his girlfriend. I would still stay distance away from him because you wouldn't want to break up a "happy home".But then maybe he just wants to be friends with you so I say you move on that and try to become cool with him. That's when you really find out if he likes you or not because, you get to know him better and certain things about him won't be a blurr anymore. Say something to make conversation with him or get playful, tap him on on the back of his head when you walk by and keep walking.lOl.[yea might seem kind of childish] but who said being childish wasn't fun sometimes (but only sometimes). Or he might like you but won't make a move because he's faithful, you don't want to ruin that so I just say you work on the "being friends" stage and hey if he breaks up with his girlfriend, make your move but not too soon. That's if you haven't found someone else by then...
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