Am I wrong for asking what my girlfriend will be doing?
Q. Hello. Here's the story, My girlfriend told me that she wouldn't be seeing my the next night after I get off from work. I asked her why and she said she'd be busy. I merely asked what she was going to be doing and she gets mad and tells me that it ...
A. 15 November 2006: definitely not! all you wanted to know was what she was doing, it is not a crime to be interested in what your girlfriend does. if she isnt able to tell you what shes doing then maybe she has something to hide! your in a relationship and should be ... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and he's 26. My friends at uni know about us, but I haven't told people back at home! I don't think they'd approve. Advice?
Q. Im a 18yr olg girl n im goin out with a 26yr old man, weve been 2gether for 4months now n were very happy n very much in love with each otha. Im at uni n he works full time so we only see each other at the weekends, which we are both ok with for the ...
A. 15 November 2006: my fiance is 7 years older than me and my entire family and friends are fine with it. i was 20 when we met and he was 27. just explain to your family that this is your boyfriend and he makes you happy and that the age difference is just a number! ... (read in full...)
I might be pregnant but I am a heavy drinker and regularly do drugs! I don't know what to do!!
Q. Im 17 and I usually only have my period for 5 days but for over two weeks now I have had it. This time I got my period 2 months late. But it is barely there and i only have spotting when i use the washroom or a little through out the day. However I ...
A. 14 November 2006: first things first, get down to your doctor and get a test done. if you are pregnant you must stop smoking,drinking and taking drugs. these will harm your baby not to mention what effect they have on your body. once the doctor has confirmed whether ... (read in full...)
I think my ex is the one for me, but he just wants to be friends. Would this be a mistake?
Q. is it ok to be friends with your ex bf? especially when you know that he is the one for you? We had the perfect relationship nothing never went wrong. One day out of the blue he said that he didnt love me and that he didnt want a relationship at ...
A. 14 November 2006: you can never be friends with an ex especially one you still love! thats a recipe for disaster. you will only end up gettin hurt. you will hope that the more he spends time with you he might change his mind and want to get back with you and if he ... (read in full...)
Do guys with perfect relationships still look at and comment about other women?
Q. Is it normal for guys to eye and comment other woman with there buddies when they have girlfriends and there relationship is perfect? ...
A. 14 November 2006: everyone window shops, its harmless. can you say you have never looked at another person like that? aslong as they look but dont touch it should not be a problem. aslong as they go home to their girlfriends at the end of the night then its fine. ... (read in full...)
I'm in a good relationship, but I keep thinking of my ex who treated me like dirt! What's going on?
Q. I've been in a happy relationship for over a year now but someone from my past has recently come back onto my mind. This happened with my last partner: I just randomly started thinking about this person and realised I was not really over him. ...
A. 14 November 2006: i think you should forget about your ex he sounds like a lowlife dirtbag, concentrate on your boyfriend now. he treats you like you always wanted. if your bored with him try spicing it up a bit, work on your relationship, dont give up on it. i think ... (read in full...)
We broke up, I moved on, she came back a changed person and now I can't decide who I like! They both know about each other.
Q. I met and fell for a young lady at my place of work, we remained really close but didn't quite take-off on the relationship. When she resigned and changed place of work i thought things will get more serious, but it didn't instead it died. She told ...
A. 14 November 2006: only you can decide what to do. your heart will tell you which woman is right for you. the younger woman obviously didnt realise her feelings for you until you were with someone else and by then it was to late. you are now with someone who you say ... (read in full...)
I was prepared to change my entire life for her. We had a fight and now I'm not sure. Should I try again at this?
Q. Dear cupid I have just split from a long distance relationship of 3 years now. My girl friend is 6 years older than me with a 6 year old son. I have no children and am not sure if i want any myself but she is coming up to an age where it would b...
A. 14 November 2006: you sound like you are not sure you want this relationship. maybe because you were willing to change your entire life and she wasnt making any changes. long distance relationships are tricky, you are scared to change your life to be with her and ... (read in full...)
He has stopped talking to me for weeks! I don't know where this is going - please help!
Q. hi, i dont know if i can call him my bf or my ex, okay this is how it goes, my bf and i we have been seeing each other for 3 months now, but more than a month ago my bf started distanting himself from me, before i knew he told me how devastat...
A. 14 November 2006: this guy obviously needs to deal with his mothers death before he is ready to deal with a relationship. leave him alone for a while, let him do his thing, you do yours. if you are meant to be together you will be but you must give him time to decide ... (read in full...)
I want my ex back even though he cheated on me - should I follow my head or my heart?
Q. I know I should stay away from my ex, but he's single again now and I know I have a chance. He always treated me well, but cheated on me a week before we broke up, and cheated on his girlfriend with me a few weeks back. I know this is really bad ...
A. 14 November 2006: i always say once a cheater always a cheater but this is not always the case. if you love him and he loves you then give it another chance. tell him he must earn your trust though. he cheated on you and you shouldnt let him away with that but he ... (read in full...)
Do guys with girlfriends still look at and comment about other women?
Q. Is it normal for guys to look at other womean even if they have a gf? Or is it just a guy thing when they are with there buddies? Im just asking cuz one of his buddies told me that he was looking and commenting on other woman but i dont know if i ...
A. 14 November 2006: everyone window shops, it does not mean they will cheat. it is normal to wonder what it would be like to be with someone else or to fancy someone else. not just for men but women also. the chances are his friend told you that to panic you because he ... (read in full...)
I took my ex back, now I've found sexual texts on his phone between him and his ex!!
Q. Where to start? My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years and are currently in the process of buying a house together. He has a son from his last relationship and his ex-girlfriend is still texting him all the time and clearly still has ...
A. 14 November 2006: trust is a hard thing to have in any relationship. especially in your case as your partner has a child. he will always be in contact with her and that may prove hard for you to accept. ofcourse you will worry that he might go back to her. ask him ... (read in full...)
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