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writes: I met and fell for a young lady at my place of work, we remained really close but didn't quite take-off on the relationship. When she resigned and changed place of work i thought things will get more serious, but it didn't instead it died. She told me she was feeling "Choked" and wanted some space. We broke up and 4months later i moved on.I met someone else, a little closer to my age range, livelier and more fun to be around. Now the former lady is staging a come back and am caught in a web. i told both of them about each other but they've never met. they both asked me to take my time and make up my mind who i want to be with.The first lady came back a changed person, i'm convinced she's really sorry for what she did, but at the same time i feel scared letting go and dropping my guard when am around her. Whats the best way to handle such situations? and if you ask me who i like the most, the one person i prefer; my answer is "i don't know!"
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reader, Lillypod +, writes (14 November 2006):
If you ask me a lepard never changes its stops it just looses afew. Your new lady must be very understanding to give you space to think over who you really want. Just ask your self if the tables were turned would the first lady be so supportive and understanding ???
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reader, lovestough +, writes (14 November 2006):
only you can decide what to do. your heart will tell you which woman is right for you. the younger woman obviously didnt realise her feelings for you until you were with someone else and by then it was to late. you are now with someone who you say you enjoyed being with and then your ex came back on the scene and has confused you. i cant tell you who to choose but maybe you should take time away from both women and think about the one you like more.
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reader, ellapu +, writes (14 November 2006):
 stick with the new lady in your life, the old one will not have changed too much. she may be sorry but in my experience it is probably because you have a new love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): Wow!! Lucky you!! Two women who want you. You must feel like a dog with two C*cks!!! Any how lucky having two women who know about each other and say that you can take your time before you decide which one of them you are going to go out with. What a time you are having.But to be fair this is probably early days for all three of you. You can't keep these two lovely girls strung along for very long can you. Be fair. The first one blew it and wants to come back. She changed her mind once and could do it again. If i was you i would stick with the second and give her all of your attention.
I hope you have a brilliant future.
Take care
xx
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