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writes: is it ok to be friends with your ex bf? especially when you know that he is the one for you? We had the perfect relationship nothing never went wrong. One day out of the blue he said that he didnt love me and that he didnt want a relationship at this moment. I told him that friends wouldnt work but 3 wks later i talked to him and said that i thought it would be great if we stayed friends for now. Am i making a big mistake or should i cont. to follow my heart?
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (14 November 2006):
 no, it's a good start
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reader, lovestough +, writes (14 November 2006):
you can never be friends with an ex especially one you still love! thats a recipe for disaster. you will only end up gettin hurt. you will hope that the more he spends time with you he might change his mind and want to get back with you and if he doesnt you will get hurt. when a relationship ends your best to walk away and not look back.
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reader, msel2304 +, writes (14 November 2006):
 Unfortunately you cant force him to have feelings for you. I understand the type of situation you are in but you have to understand that its truly not meant to be if hes not feeling the same way about you. Normally i would say follow your heart but this situation calls for you just backing off. If you cant be his friend because of how you feel about him then it is best if your two just don't talk anymore. You don't need to get any more hurt then im sure you are right now. Good luck! :)
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