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writes: Is it normal for guys to look at other womean even if they have a gf? Or is it just a guy thing when they are with there buddies? Im just asking cuz one of his buddies told me that he was looking and commenting on other woman but i dont know if i should belive him cuz his friend likes me. Reply to this Question
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (14 November 2006):
 if he does his macho bastard comment in front of you them comment on a guay in front of him
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): It all depends on his age and his level of respect and love for you. You've heard of the term, "young, dumb and full of cum"....younger men have more difficulty being faithful with so many 'beautiful' prospects in front of them. They want them all! They'd probably never admit that to you, but they do. As a man matures, he will probably learn to value his mate more and notice other women less and less...or at least, they learn the art of being subtle so you don't have to feel threatened by every wandering glance. P.S. Woman look too. The best thing to do is to tell him how it makes you feel when he behaves like that. If he loves and respects you, he'll reel it in and consider your feelings. I mean, how would he feel if you acted like that around other guys? Sometimes a dose of of their medicine is all you need to get the point across. Be patient, all men need training. The younger the guy, the more work you have ahead of you. But eventually, they do become something wonderful. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): everyone looks men look women look and both male and female comment 2 their friends when they see someone that catches there eye. i think its only healthy at the end of the day if he still comes home 2 u have nothing 2 worry about. if me and my husband are walking along and see someone we like we'll say 2 each other. our relationship is the best i've evey had.
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reader, ellapu +, writes (14 November 2006):
 It is perfectly natural for men to look at women and vice versa. It becomes a problem when they use their heart and not their eyes.
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reader, drahcir +, writes (14 November 2006):
Guys with girlfriends get to look at and comment on other girls, when they are with their buddies or not. but the truth is most times it doesnt go any further than that. They just look, talk and thats it! especially when they are in a fulfilling relationship.
Only the unserious one's will take it a step further; thats when it gets ugly bcos someone is definitely going to end up hurt!
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reader, lovestough +, writes (14 November 2006):
everyone window shops, it does not mean they will cheat. it is normal to wonder what it would be like to be with someone else or to fancy someone else. not just for men but women also. the chances are his friend told you that to panic you because he likes you and maybe thinks he will split you two up and then he,ll have a chance with you. you should not worry aslong as he only looks and doesnt touch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): I hate it but yes guys do look and comment on other women. Mine was a pain when i first met him but now i have him tamed he is ok. He does look, if the girl is gorgeous he will say. I cope with it by telling him i'm in love with Robbie Coltraine. You can't expect them not to look but if they stare then that is ogling and not to be tolerated. Comments should be kept to a minimum. I think when lads get out together then it is a different matter.
Take care
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