Complicated and confused, I like her but not sure what's going on.
Q. This is probably just your average middle school story of not love, but infatuation. For your sake, I'll use mostly correct punctuation, and decent grammar. Normally, I'm just like any other teenager, not using any punctuation whatsoever, and ...
A. 12 June 2010: Dear Anon,
you seem to be taking the whole world and its problems on to your shoulders. You need to take a step back and realise you are both so very young still, your experiencing new things and hopefully this will be together. However if she base... (read in full...)
I really liked this guy , but I made a pass at his friend and now he won't talk to me...
Q. Ok right so the thing is I am in love. I met the guy about 5 years ago, it was a proper bolt out of the blue when i first saw him (never felt before or since) I worked for him and there was always this kind of hot chemistry thing going on (for both ...
A. 11 June 2010: I would definately go with the icebreaker, if hes interested he will let you know. Men dont like head games even though they unknowingly play them themselves. Your giving yourself the chance to find out once and for all, if it doesnt work out then ... (read in full...)
I feel guilty after I'm intimate, what should I do?
Q. I'm 17 now..I'm almost back with my ex.Today i had physical intimacy[not sex,only oral sex and a foreplay] with him..I try to control the intimacy but we cannot..I really want to control it. Because after i'm intimate with him i start feeling gu...
A. 10 June 2010: Dear Anon,
if you dont feel ready for any kind of intimacy dont feel pressurized into doing anything your not ready to do. It is personal choice when your ready to be intimate with a partner. Having intimacy at 17 does not mean you will sudd... (read in full...)
I'm really worried that I am repeatedly destroying my relationship and I can't stop
Q. "OP Own Title" Hi I am 25 and this is my second serious relationship. My first lasted 6 years and this one is just over a year. I love my boyfriend but a few months into the relationship I gave him glandular fever. He’s 31 and got really sick f...
A. 10 June 2010: Dear loulou1900, you should only participate in sex if you feel comfortable and ready for it, never be pressured into doing something you dont want to do. If he cant accept that then he needs to have a think. I suggest that perhaps you go an speak ... (read in full...)
Kissed another girl in a bar and my girl took off, how can I prove to her that I have changed?
Q. So I posted a question a few days ago about how to get back my girlfriend after I stupdly and self destructively kissed another girl in a bar last weekend. She took off for home two days ago to spend time with her family and get away from all of...
A. 10 June 2010: Dear justwantherback, everything you are doing at the moment is all needed to get your life back on track. Well done for that, unfortunately it is only after all of these things are established and working that you should even consider trying t... (read in full...)
What if everything he said was a lie?
Q. Hello, I'm 20 years old and i know that I am young and I know that there is lots of fish in the sea. Someone great told me that you'll know when you first meet someone that they are the right one for you, that you just know. I have talked and dated ...
A. 10 June 2010: Dear Curious89, why are you letting a man, drama and relationships control your life? you need to take control back in your life, this whole situation is getting you down and ill be honest youve got many many years ahead of you to find the right ma... (read in full...)
I really liked this guy , but I made a pass at his friend and now he won't talk to me...
Q. Ok right so the thing is I am in love. I met the guy about 5 years ago, it was a proper bolt out of the blue when i first saw him (never felt before or since) I worked for him and there was always this kind of hot chemistry thing going on (for both ...
A. 10 June 2010: Dear carriecarefree, you have two choices you either run away or take the risk. You need to contact him and ask to meet up for a casual drink and then you need to tell him how you feel. Explain to him that you would like to start dating as you feel... (read in full...)
Concerned about the man she slept with while on a break
Q. I have been married for a little over a month now and very happy. Previously I had dated her for almost 2 years. We are great together although I am significantly older (I’m 41 shes 27) I recently found something out…and I am just trying...
A. 10 June 2010: Dear dannio111, your wife clearly felt that you would react differently to how you have. As an older man you reacted in a mature and reasonable way and she probably was not expecting this, hence why she kept it a secret so long. At the end of the d... (read in full...)
I need help with the aftermath
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, Would you please tell me what I can do next time? I screwed up royally, and all I can do is to learn from my awful mistakes, however painful that may be. Please take time to read my long story. Thank you. I am a twenty year o...
A. 10 June 2010: Dear ohss117,
we all make mistakes from time to time and especially during our first relationship. Yes possibly you should have reacted to her shaved head a little differently but we all handle things in our own way. You say you stayed by her beds... (read in full...)
I want to marry her, but she only wants a "friendship" where I do all the work.
Q. i am very much in love with a girl and i would really like to marry her one day. but for now, we are just "friends" if you could call it that. its a very one-sided friendship with me making the effort to keep it going and her not really caring. if i ...
A. 10 June 2010: Dear Anon,
my question to you is why would you want to be friends with someone who barely passes as a friend let alone consider the idea of marriage? As this is not a relationship i can not advise in this context but she appears to be a selfish frie... (read in full...)
Is he not interested, or doesn't have the guts to tell me?
Q. ive liked this lad for 2years now. he knows how i feel about him and after 15 months of him knowing something happened bewteen us. I didnt have sex with him because i wanted to make sure i wasnt being used. This carried on for a couple of months but ...
A. 10 June 2010: Dear Anon,
you were wise not to have sex with this boy, unfortunately it does not sound as if he likes you in the same way you like him. Two years is a long time to wait for someone who has not commited themselves in a relationship with you. My advi... (read in full...)
How does someone go from caring to feeling hateful?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me in Feb. At the time, I was five months pregnant with our second child. We have a 2 year old who will be three at the end of this year. We have had a rocky relationship. In the beginning things were great...we were the ...
A. 10 June 2010: Dear Alone n Hurt,
please do not go down the route of what did i do wrong. You and he have done nothing wrong, simply miscommunication has resulted in arguements rather then solutions. Firstly you need to sit him down and in an even tone of voic... (read in full...)
First boyfriend is saying he loves me, but is he trying to get back at his ex?
Q. I have never had luck in relationships. What I mean is that before today I had never been asked out. All my friends brag about their boyfriends, and what was I supposed to say? Anyways, a guy I have had a crush on asked me out and I said yes. He ...
A. 10 June 2010: Dear Butterfly_13,
only you know your true feelings for this guy and to be honest at your age love doesnt come into it really. Love takes time to mature and blossom within a relationship, your reply can simply be - thankyou. You should never feel... (read in full...)
I love my bestfriend and now that I'm sure that she feels the same am losing her because she is afraid of something
Q. dear cupid !! i wrote earlier about how much i loved my bestfriend and that she keeps on saying things that get me jelous , we are flirting and everythig and what i wanted to know is how to change my position from bestfriend to a bofriend cause i ...
A. 10 June 2010: Dear Archidude,
you have two options here either you sit her down and talk things through, reassuring her that you love her and would like to try the whole relationship thing with her but slowly. take her on a few dates show her how you can prog... (read in full...)
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