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*utterfly_13
writes:I have never had luck in relationships. What I mean is that before today I had never been asked out. All my friends brag about their boyfriends, and what was I supposed to say? Anyways, a guy I have had a crush on asked me out and I said yes. He keeps on saying he loves me and all that, and I don't know how to reply. I keep on wondering if he just asked me out just to get back at his ex. Who by the way is one of my friends. Not a close one though. She blames it on me that he broke up with her. =( So my questions are;How should I reply to "I 3 u"?What do you think I should do about my friend? or just any feedback you might have. THANK YOU!!! =D I appreciate it.
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reader, Butterfly_13 +, writes (11 June 2010):
Butterfly_13 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your advice. I really appreciate it. I tried to talk to my friend but she ignored me, but oh well. Today my boyfriend and I talked a long time and he told me all the things he likes about me and I did the same with him. I am sure as I can be about how I feel. I really like him and he likes me. We are both looking forward to when we see eachother again. =D
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): I wrote this question and thank you to all the answerers. I really appreciate yourkindness and politeness.. In all seriousnes I was expecting people to be mean and everything but you proved me wrong. Good advice, I'll try it. =D
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): Hello,
Only he has the answers you're seeking. Ask him, talk to him. If you have any doubts that he's with you to get his ex upset its better to talk to him now and find out.
Good luck
;D
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reader, LottieCole  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 Dear Butterfly_13,
only you know your true feelings for this guy and to be honest at your age love doesnt come into it really. Love takes time to mature and blossom within a relationship, your reply can simply be - thankyou. You should never feel pressured into feeling something and saying something you arent fully comfortable with.
If this girl is really your friend she wouldnt be blaming you for their breakup. He chose to leave her you never asked him to, so tell her to put aside her negative attitude and focus on being friends again.
In all honesty you sound like a smart girl who doesnt need to validate who she is with a boyfriend, it is perfectly normal to go through your entire teens without having a boyfriend. You will know when the time is right for you and that person will respect you, rather then try to confuse you and play friends off of each other.
I wish you well and hope your follow your head and not the crowd.
Lottie x
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