G/f lives across the street from her ex and I hate it!
Q. I am in a long distance relationship which has been working out for me and my partner, we had plan to move together next year which my partner will relocate, the only problem i have with my partner is she live directly across the street from her ex, ...
A. 30 January 2011: I am in a relationship with a women that came from a disfuctional/abusive relationship her ex, and her daughter would fight with her daily. Her ex cheated on her several times and now she find it hard to trust... ok my problem is that her past is ... (read in full...)
How do I get this depressed feeling out of my chest?
Q. Hello I'm soo depressed and I feel is killing me inside. Sometimes I wake up feeling ok and others days feeling down and I throw up and I dnt even eat. How can I make or what do I do so I won't think negative. When I think negative is when I get ...
A. 9 May 2010: Hey Luv... I am not sure if anyone on here are train to give any kind of medical advice... so I say to you please go and seek MENTAL MEDICAL ATTENTION you really need to talk to someone... I strongly agree with bigsister83 do this asap... depression ... (read in full...)
How do I stop family members from talking over me?
Q. I have problems with family members because they don't listen to a word I say. I might say something really important, and they just talk over me or change the subject. They treat me with no respect. I'm starting to feel like they're taking m...
A. 9 May 2010: OMG... how old are you? when you start to speak and they talk over you, you put your foot down and say excuse me i was speaking that is very rude of you to speak over top of me, you do this all the time and it need to stop, you may need to put a ... (read in full...)
I didn't get a card for my birthday and now, the GF is upset at me??!
Q. It was bothering me that my GF didn't get me a card for my birthday(2 days later). She noticed that something was on my mind and asked me. I asked her if she got me anything for my birthday and she told me she "didn't know what to get me" (so I got ...
A. 9 May 2010: wow I think I would be a little upset that my partner did not get me anything for my birthday and then to say I brought you a card and misplace it, are you kidding me, how can you tell you partner I didnt know what to get you, hey maybe some perfume ... (read in full...)
Is it fair to ask my handyman boyfriend to paint for free?
Q. My boyfiend of 5 years is a handy man on the side I have asked him to paint my kitchen and he said he would give me an estimate Is it unfair to ask him to do it for free or what is a reasonable labor cost? I dont mind paying but.... ...
A. 7 April 2010: ok now... are you cooking for him not only in the kitchen but in the bedroom lol , but on a seroius note what is going on with our men these days, back in the day when my dad and uncles was coming up they didnt ask for payment it was done because ... (read in full...)
My hubby is a good provider, my ex has nothing to offer. Who do I choose?
Q. i have Been with my husband for 15 years. he did something about three years ago to a friend that he went to school with. pretty much cheated. i can't seem to forget and don't know if i have forgiven him. so heres the other thing. my ex from twenty ...
A. 6 April 2010: Two wrong dont make a right, ex- are ex for a reason so you need to think about what made him an ex before you throw away your marriage, but on the other hand if you can't forgive your hubsand and move on then you need to think about walking, but if ... (read in full...)
Age difference of 19.5 years!
Q. I recently started seeing someone that is 19 1/2 years younger than myself. We used to work together, but she quit. We have a lot in common and share similar interests. We both own our own homes and don't have any previous baggage from other ...
A. 5 April 2010: Hello I really would love to know the exact age different between you, you guys but let me say if she was a good friend to her, she would support the two of you uless there is something going on were we as reader dont know about... I have three ... (read in full...)
How can I track down a police officer I fancy with only his first name?
Q. I am very interested in a neighborhood police officer. He is also interested but is always on duty when we see each other and can't ask me out. I would like to get in touch with him but only have his first name. When we introduced ourselves we ...
A. 4 April 2010: So don't walk with the group, linger behind them, just a few minutes which will give you or him a chance to speak, if there is some interest he will find a way... good luck and keep me inform.... (read in full...)
Controlling/abusive boyfriend!
Q. hey there i don't know what to do i have been with my boyfriend a while now and i lost everything because of him my friends don't want to know me and my family don't want anything to do with me anymore. my boyfriend tells me what to do and what to ...
A. 3 April 2010: Hey look you had enough sense to go online to post ur problem, i think you are an intelligent young lady, you have assess to the internet email mom dad anyone to come get you, if you can get out of that house and go to the nearest police station and ... (read in full...)
Oral sex whilst on my period.
Q. My boyfriend wants to go down on me while I'm on my period. I've never let anyone do this. My only concern is, should I show up with or without a tampon?...
A. 2 April 2010: oh my... you have to be be very careful with that blood, blood can be very toxic... (read in full...)
Why does his family treat me so badly?
Q. i have been in this relation ship for seven years and things still havent changed see lets say mike is a great gye untill he is around his family he don't even act the same and he treats me different,for some reason now his family don't like me ...
A. 2 April 2010: I alway say its three sides to a story his side her side and the right side, i am really trying to understand what's really going on here... i think you have to know that love dont hurt,
If he care or even respect you at all he would not allow hi... (read in full...)
How can I track down a police officer I fancy with only his first name?
Q. I am very interested in a neighborhood police officer. He is also interested but is always on duty when we see each other and can't ask me out. I would like to get in touch with him but only have his first name. When we introduced ourselves we ...
A. 2 April 2010: call the precint where he work and ask for officer... more than likely he wont be available, at that time you will leave your name and number, or write your name and number on business card and hand it to him.
good luck... keep us posted... (read in full...)
Confused about my sexuality.
Q. Ok, you maybe as confused as I am after reading this! . . . I've never wanted a 'boyfriend' or drooled over males and its never bothered me. . . It's Bothered my friends more,coz they couldn't understand WHY I didn't fancy anyone. Few yrs ago tho ...
A. 2 April 2010: At anytime you have to wonder if you are attractive to the same sex, well let me put it to you like this... welcome to the family lol, I think right now you are struggling with your sexuality, go get urself a girlfriend and be happy. ... (read in full...)
I haven't forgiven my mother for grounding me when I was 12!
Q. I am a 23 year old, married, new mom. My mother contacted my husband after the baby was born and is wanting to get together. Now, he is pressing me to have my mom in our lives. I have not been on speaking terms with my mom for years. When I w...
A. 2 April 2010: wow... this is deep, you are a new mom as you know children dont come with instruction so sometime we tend to not make the right choices, maybe you need to sit just the two of you and tell her how you feel, to me i dont feel that the choice she made ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with someone but I'm in a relationship! What should I do?
Q. Ok well i'm in love with another guy. but i'm in a relationship. my now boyfriend is an alcoholic and tends to treat me lik crap when he's buzz. but the sex is great. the other guy is romantic and sweet don't drink an very very sexy. what should i ...
A. 2 April 2010: here's a question for you... do you love yourself if so why would you want to be in a relationship with an alcholic and treat you like crap as time go on its only gonna get worst get out while you can and as far as the sex dont let that keep you in ... (read in full...)
I'm gay, don't know if he is and don't know how to go about finding out if he is!
Q. Hey guys, I really need help, there's this guy at work I really like, he's such a sweet guy, very cute and kind, we talk kinda often and he always gives me mixed signals, here's the problem, I'm gay and I have no idea if he is straight, bi, gay...I ...
A. 2 April 2010: Ok now... do he know that you are gay? if so and he is sending you mix signal he may be curious if not gay, just sit and talk with him if he know that you are gay it would not a surprise to him he may be waiting for you to make the first step... I ... (read in full...)
I don't want my brother to marry this girl!
Q. Hi ! Please help me. Im an orphan and i stay with my brother whom i love and care alot. My bro's girlfriend stays with us....she doesn't help me in the housework neither does she take care of my bro. Stil my bro loves her alot. But i know my bro wil ...
A. 2 April 2010: hey you are of age to move out... your brother seen to be in love with her, if he is taking her side maybe you need to step back and check yourself, we can pick and choose who our family or friends date, dont get to involed you may end up loosing ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend forces me to have sex with him!
Q. i've got problems with my new boyfriend.first time when we meet..everything was consider okey between us.but,one day...he start to talk about sexs.everytime he text me..he always said.."i want you baby"...plss....sometimes i feel fedup with ...
A. 2 April 2010: I am going to keep this short and sweet if he is forcing himself on you or abusing you in any way, girl het the heck out now, it will only get worst you are you and dont let anyone force you to do anything you dont want to this situation is leading ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and want to have a baby and have even saved up the money for it!
Q. helloo please could you help me! i realy want a baby and i'm 13 but i will be 14 if i have a baby all my mates are sick and tired of me going on about it. i have told my boyfriend and he agrees with me 100% he wants a baby and he has s...
A. 2 April 2010: Hi sweety... I sure hope this a joke, Honey first of all you are 13 and your body have not finish developing, to have a baby at such a young age will harm you, please speak to your mom I am sure she will disagree with you having a baby, at this time ... (read in full...)
She's getting attracted to girls again, and is bugging me to let do something with them! I think it's cheating. Help!
Q. Me and my girlfriend 'W' have been together for almost a year and a half. We met at school and liked each other straight away. I was shocked to learn recently that she used to only like girls, and has in the past had girlfriends, but she says it ...
A. 1 April 2010: you have to be honest to urself, I was in a marrigae for so many year I have alway been attractive to women but curve my appitite, I knew that i could not totally love my hubsand i had to get out of the marriage to do what made me happy i did not ... (read in full...)
Will our baby have a birth defect? No judemental answers please.
Q. im having a relationship with my 1st cousin. I love him so much i would die for him and he would for me the thing is we want to have a baby but im afraid it might be born with a birth defect. I know what people are thinking were sick and its gros ...
A. 1 April 2010: morally its not right... but my ex sister in law was marry to her 1st cousin for over tens years, they had two beautiful smart inteligent boys, one in college and the other is in his last year of high school, I am not saying that is believe in ... (read in full...)
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