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writes:Hi ! Please help me. Im an orphan and i stay with my brother whom i love and care alot. My bro's girlfriend stays with us....she doesn't help me in the housework neither does she take care of my bro. Stil my bro loves her alot. But i know my bro wil suffer in future if he'l marry her. Coz of her me and my bro always fight. Now my bro takes her side. When ever i said something rude about her my bro takes her sideand fights with me. Please help me....i don't wana loose my bro but i also dont want my bro to be with this girl. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): Are you sure you're just not jealous of this girl because now you will have to share him with her? Really, who he chooses to marry and be with isn't any of your business. I think you should move out and find a young man you can date and be with. Your brother has to figure things out on his own when it comes to marrying this girl. If he does marry her, and it turns out to be mistake, then their marriage will end in divorce. But I think you need to butt out of their lives and let them live together without the presence of someone who doesn't approve of their relationship. You've heard the old saying, "two's company, three's a crowd." So move out and start living your own life.
Why do you love your brother so much? Is it because he takes care of you? Do you think of him as a father? And how much older is he than you are?
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reader, lonesum dove  +, writes (2 April 2010):
 hey you are of age to move out... your brother seen to be in love with her, if he is taking her side maybe you need to step back and check yourself, we can pick and choose who our family or friends date, dont get to involed you may end up loosing your brother
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (2 April 2010):
Since you are over 18, move out. You cannot choose a partner for him. He has to make his own decision about his love life. If you want to stay with him stop criticising and fighting with her and only do the housework that affects you.
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