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writes:Ok well i'm in love with another guy. but i'm in a relationship. my now boyfriend is an alcoholic and tends to treat me lik crap when he's buzz. but the sex is great. the other guy is romantic and sweet don't drink an very very sexy. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2010): If I were the alcoholic guy, I would definitely want to know that the alcoholism was the problem. Otherwise, I would just drink myself to sleep when I feel sad, and my life would go into that spiral...But there's no motivation if you stay with him. Break up with him for his sake. I think that's how it always should be done.
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (2 April 2010):
 I think you already know the answer. The current BF's drinking is only going to get worse and he crappy to you on top of that! Why are you even asking if you should dump him for a decent guy. This is a now brainer! Go for the good guy. Never let a man treat you like crap. That is now what love feels like.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (2 April 2010):
 Dump the guy who treats you like crap and go with the guy who treats you well.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 April 2010):
Dump the guy who treats you like crap and go with the guy who treats you well.
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reader, lonesum dove +, writes (2 April 2010):
 here's a question for you... do you love yourself if so why would you want to be in a relationship with an alcholic and treat you like crap as time go on its only gonna get worst get out while you can and as far as the sex dont let that keep you in this relationship, you have someone who you loves you and you love him, runnnn
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reader, Traceyann +, writes (2 April 2010):
Follow your heart...love is so precious...if u have found love then grab it with both hands!!
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (2 April 2010):
 Well , you are in a relationship now, but it does not sound like it's such a great relationship, right ? You say your boyfriend is an alcoholic, and he tends to treat you like crap - forgive me but it really does not sound like the kind of relationship you should afraid to lose... OK, sex with him is great and hey, I am not one who underestimates the almost magic power of physical passion- and yet, not only sex is not everything, but it's not everything YOU want and need from a man. Otherwise you would not even have noticed that the other guy is sweet and romantic. Maybe you need some tenderness and romance, beside a great sex life. Which -hopefully-you might also have with someone different from your current abusive boyfriend. Good luck !
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reader, EbonyBlossom +, writes (2 April 2010):
 Why would you wanna be with an alcoholic who doesn't care about you when there is a perfectly decent guy who loves you and you like back? Just for the sex? Sex isn't a priority. Ditch your boyfriend and go out with the other guy, before you miss your chance and get hurt by your boyfriend =]
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