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writes:I am in a long distance relationship which has been working out for me and my partner, we had plan to move together next year which my partner will relocate, the only problem i have with my partner is she live directly across the street from her ex, whom at one time she was so in love with,well recently she went to a birthday party given for her god daughter which is her ex grand daughter i got so upset and jealous that I broke up with my g/f. it bother me daily to know that she lives that closed to her ex, I try not to think about it she know i had a problem with my g/f going to the party she went anyway I luv her and miss her, what would you do? need some suggestion/advice
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reader, lonesum dove +, writes (30 January 2011):
lonesum dove is verified as being by the original poster of the question I am in a relationship with a women that came from a disfuctional/abusive relationship her ex, and her daughter would fight with her daily. Her ex cheated on her several times and now she find it hard to trust... ok my problem is that her past is spilling into our relationship, I cant talk to her because it would turn into an agrument, if I talk on the phone it become a problem, if I go into another room to watch TV she comes and looks for me... I really care about this person but I am not sure how much more I can take of her insecurity... HELP WHAT WOULD YOU DO????
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (2 April 2010):
 Well, you're just need to get over it or stay broken up. Are you asking her to move? Are you asking her to resign being a God Mother? Because it seems like that's what it will take to make you happy, and you have to recognize that that's a pretty unreasonable request. You're telling her not to go to her God Daughter's birthday? If you are asking her to ditch a occasion like that, then you need to wrap your mind around the fact that there will be a lot more birthdays, graduations, weddings and other events that your girlfriend will be attending for the rest of time. There's no avoiding that, not unless she decides to be a horrible God Mother and step out of this childs life.
Do you trust her? Do you have a good relationship? Then you just need to grit your teeth and accept that you're going to need to trust her to make this relationship work. And if you can't trust her, then is it really a good relationship to begin with?
Good luck, sweetness!
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