My boyfriends family is throwing a 'sweet 16th' party on my 30th. I feel neglected and jealous. Should I say something?
Q. Here's the deal..my boyfriend of 12yrs. just told me that on my birthday his family is going to have a sweet 16 birthday party for his niece. I was so hurt this is my 30th birthday and was so excited! Because he had told me that he was going to ...
A. 1 May 2010: They seem out of order to as if they are being nice to face but sniddy behide your back like with this party they could have made it the weekend after yours or something and if i was you i wouldnt go not on my 30th and i think your bf should stay ... (read in full...)
Go back to dating the ex or move on with guy I'm dating?
Q. So,my ex (now at least) have known each other since the beginning of last year...and we've been on and off since the end of last year. If we disagree over something its usually something silly,like last time we broke it off because his friends ...
A. 1 May 2010: well go with the one that you really like the most.
And if you were the one who broke it of with him in the past a few times then you need to stop messing him around and sort stuff out instead of dumping him every time it gets ruff because that it u... (read in full...)
I'm tired of a one sided friendship
Q. this girl and i have been friends for a very long time. up until last year, we were really close. what tore us apart was that we drifted apart due to school and work related schedules not working well with the other -- which was fine. But then ...
A. 1 May 2010: She was out of order telling youre boy mate what she did that shows that she is not a very good friend anyway, when you tell a mate something like that, they should not tell anyone els and if they do it shows there not that much of a good mate and ... (read in full...)
She wants to kick things up a notch and have sex!
Q. ok new problem i have been seen this girl for a while now and its going great. she want to kick things up a notch as she want to have sex. we have done some of the other stuff like kissing and feeling each other but that was about it. i have been ...
A. 9 February 2010: well you are younge soo you should take time to do that and have fun wiv out it being at that age it could ruin stuff like at that age u might feel awaked after but then it might bring u stronger together....
but it seems to me u dnt seem to into... (read in full...)
How can I get boys to be interested in me instead of just slaggy girls?
Q. heya, I am pretty confident and love to have a laugh. Sometimes i feel like im really not popular with boys and if i am, its because they want me as a friend. They seem to love all the slaggy girls who will do anything for them. There is this gi...
A. 9 February 2010: i think eveyone wants that honey wen i was in schoool i was allways the mate to the guys and they liked the gals in make up this stag will soon pass and wen they wnt a real relationship there cum to you i juz left it and gt a bf out of school ...
a... (read in full...)
Has my guy lost interest in me?
Q. ive have been with this guy for over a year now . i live with him we see each other every day . were very involved in each others lives but here lately its like he doesn't want to tuch me. what does that mean, has he lost interest. i love this man ...
A. 5 February 2010: talk to him because there could be loads of reason and without talking to him you will not know them...
however a relationship does go both ways and if its going to work he might have to start working at it to not just you so just have a chat and ... (read in full...)
She is not a virgin but wants me to wait 4 or 5 years for marriage
Q. After dating my girlfriend for over a year, she mentions for the first time at random, that she's not a virgin. Before I heard this, I assumed she was, because of how she acts, how reserved she tends to be. Also, she seems to criticize others...
A. 5 February 2010: that is a long time to ask but maybe she has had bad history with the boy she slept with or something talk to her about it but go easy and see how she feels because at east she told you taht shes not a virgin means shes opening up a lil soo just ... (read in full...)
Please tell me I'm not the only one who thinks he has feelings for me!
Q. I have a problem, I've been in love with my best friend for quite sometime now and i told him i had feelings for him, but he says he's not into dating. we have messed around before and kissed too but i can't tell if he has some hidden feelings. ...
A. 5 February 2010: well your told him how you feel what els can you do ?? don't push it or you might push him away and he sounds like a good mate to you and maybe in the future you might turn into something more ...
he might just not want to addmit he is gay just... (read in full...)
Should I contact my friend or wait for her to reply?
Q. I have a long distance relationship with an incredible lady. She's my best friend and I'd love it if one day we were more. At one time we used to talk everyday, sometimes several times a day. Over the last couple months as her work has increas...
A. 5 February 2010: well it seems that she has a lot on at the mo .... u should prob email sayin how r u hope uu gd and eveything went well and stuff bt then leve it and let her get back to you cuz leveing severl is a bit clingy and no-1 likes osme1 clingy soo just ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a Muslim girl and I'm worried her family wont approve of us having a relationship
Q. Hi, im in love with a muslim girl and she loves me (non muslim) im worried in case her family dont agree with this relationship, even though they appear liberal and welcoming to people... im scared to ask her in case i offend her or cause doubts and ...
A. 5 February 2010: well its got to come up sooner or later so you might as well ask now and then at least you know some muslim's don't mind but some are verry stricked do the parents know you 2 are toghter ?? if soo then they dont seem to mind but if not tread ... (read in full...)
My relationship seems a little one sided...
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half now, things have been going great for the most part. I love her a lot, she loves me, but I feel like she doesn't always take mine or my family's feelings into consideration. We rarely...
A. 5 February 2010: talk to her and tell her how you feel but when you do do it soo it don't look like you'r not on her side or something and make sure she dont feel uncomfortable because taht would make it worse just do it nicely and stuff because your going to have ... (read in full...)
Why did my best friend say all those horrible things to me?
Q. me and my best Friend were talking about a holiday we are going in summer.. shes all going on bout how many guys were going to have sex with..i told her no..am not going to sleep with Random strangers thanx..she said i'd be drunk so i wont know ...
A. 5 February 2010: well it seems to me you didnt give her the answer she wanted soo she got nasty... some mates get like that if you don't do or say what they want you to they become rude...
and she shouldnt even bring other peopel into it those peopel might not have... (read in full...)
How can I stop worrying so much about getting hurt?
Q. hey there well ok i have a huge problem, i have been in a relationship for 6 and a half months...but we have known each other for a year and have been through so much since we have known each other, and im madly in love with him and am deathly ...
A. 5 February 2010: hey...
well i think we are all like that when you love someone what only ends up pushes them away ...
soo play it cool ...
don't ask who he's texting and don't ring him all the time just goo and have a girls night out and have fun and then whe... (read in full...)
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