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writes:hey therewell ok i have a huge problem, i have been in a relationship for 6 and a half months...but we have known each other for a year and have been through so much since we have known each other, and im madly in love with him and am deathly scared of loosing him or getting hurt...which i think thats what makes this relationship kinda bad, because i worry so much on who is he texting is it a girl? or if we arent hanging out what is he doing? i just worry so much about getting hurt. I know im really clingy and i just want to be the girlfriend who can have fun and be outgoing and make him laugh and want to hang with me because im just so much fun to be around...so my question is how can i be that girlfriend? and how can i stop worrying so much about getting hurt?thanks much! :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys you both helped alot now i just need to do that...it just is so hard cuz i dont know what i would do if i got hurt by him, i dont know what i would do with out him also..but thanks!
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reader, lil ladyy  +, writes (5 February 2010):
 hey...
well i think we are all like that when you love someone what only ends up pushes them away ...
soo play it cool ...
don't ask who he's texting and don't ring him all the time just goo and have a girls night out and have fun and then when you see him again relax even if you'r not feeling it inside just don't show him it and you will see he gets more intersted in you when you back of a bit and are not so clingy and show him trust because you dont want to ruin a good relationship let alone a good friendship soo just don't show it so much and it will get easer to feel like it hope i helped x
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reader, answerme  +, writes (5 February 2010):
 i understand how you feel. i've been that kind of feelings before. to be honest that is not healthy. in my opinion,worrying so much will lead sometimes to paranoia and will end to jealousy and will develop argument.. don't worry so much. just believe to him or trust him. because if he is hiding something awful to you, it will open one day..
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