Our relationship just isnt right. The little spark that should be there just isn't
Q. Hi all, I'm in need of some help because my feelings are so messed up I dont know which way to turn. I have been in a relationship for just over 2 years with a lovely girl who treats me really well and is head over heels in love with me. The rel...
A. 21 January 2011: Thank you for advice pjr7719, your last relationship sounds very similar to this one. I also knew from the start that that little spark wasnt quite there, but I kept going hoping it would develop over time. That led to being very close and getting ... (read in full...)
Insecure about my nose - what do I do?
Q. I have a big nose and im really insecure about it! so i have 2 questions: 1. does a big nose generally make a girl look ugly? 2. surgery is way out of the question lol so how can i make my nose appear smaller? thanks :-) x...
A. 24 April 2008: I dont really like my nose too much, I got it from my dad im sure because he's is even worse! I also use to be insecure about it, I felt it made me look ugly.
One day someone gave me great advice and its made a world of difference to me and how ... (read in full...)
I'm gay and in love with one of my best friends - I keep thinking the feeling may be mutual, so should I tell him?
Q. I am a guy and am gay but not out. I have known one of my best friends for about four years now, we are extremely close and just lately I have really been attracted to him but I think he is straight. But I do not know this for sure. He has not had ...
A. 22 April 2008: Its a really awkward situation to be in, I can only imagine. Are your feelings strong enough to risk losing your best friend? I say this because if he is straight, and not interested, then it will be very very awkward for you both to carry on a ... (read in full...)
In my head I know I shold move on but I can't seem to, I still hold on to hope. Any advice??
Q. My heart is broken. I feel lost. My ex bf of 3 yrs broke up with me just over a wk ago and left me for another woman. We had a difficult relationship towards the end but it still didn't prepare me. just before valentines day he told me he wasn't...
A. 22 April 2008: You do not deserve to be treated this way, it seems you only ever tried to please him but it wasnt enough. Thats not your fault, its his.
You sound like a really nice girl and I know its hard going through something like this, I was in the same... (read in full...)
She had a one night stand but claims it meant nothing. What shall I do?
Q. I am very unhappy. I have been going out with my GF for 2 and a half years. A while ago she got a new job - she did not think she had a chance of getting it - was not going to apply - but I encouraged her and helped her and she got the job. She's ...
A. 20 April 2008: Its a really horrible thing to of happened, I really do feel for you. Question is, can you trust that she won't do it again? If you can't then its time to get out now, and find someone else who deserves your love.
If it was me, I'd leave and neve... (read in full...)
Any inspirational words to help me move on guys?
Q. I had a relationship with a girl and I met her in a bad point in her life when she had no one else. Basically long story short is that I did everything for her to turn her life around - got her out of the wrong crowd, beat alcoholism, let her live ...
A. 18 April 2008: You sound like a really nice guy, and I can relate to what you have been trough. I treated my ex gf like an absolute princess, I made her a stronger person, more ambitious, confident, the lot. I made her feel loved and beatiful. I even got her good ... (read in full...)
How do I conquer the feelings of hurt, jealousy and betrayal? How do I forgive his lies? And what are ultimate relationship deal breakers for you?
Q. What are ultimate relationship deal breakers for you? I ask because I am in love with a man, we have been together for 4 years and those years have been full of great joy and tremendous pain because of things that he has done which hurt me. He ...
A. 15 April 2008: I had similar experiences with my ex. She always lied to me, about anything and everything. Big things about talking to her ex at the beginning, to little things like the odd text to a male workmate. She said it was just to say she was going to late ... (read in full...)
Although the relationship was very troublesome, I still feel like I love and want her, help!
Q. Hi all, my girlfriend of 3 and a half years broke up with me 5 weeks ago. We had our fair share of problems. She lied to me quite a bit, once about talking to her ex for a few hours, and then about little, meaningless things throughout the ...
A. 31 March 2008: Thanks for the replies. I feel like I hurt her alot, and she wanted it to work out but I kept knocking her back. I was horrible to her at times, and overly protective and checking up on her etc. But then I ask myself, was that because of the l... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but I'm scared the condom is going to break and I will become pregnant.
Q. My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but I'm scared the condom is going to break and I will become pregnant. What should I do?...
A. 30 March 2008: I agree, there is a very low chance of the comdom breaking. If your still worried and you dont feel comfortable, maybe the pill could ease your mind.
Just relax, and take care x... (read in full...)
How do I handle my first date with him? Is it good to be cautious?
Q. I am 17 and this lad has asked me to go on a "date" with him, I'm not completely sure of how I feel as I tend to be too safe with these situations to stop myself being hurt as has happened before, he is a really nice guy and I have never thought of ...
A. 30 March 2008: Its a toughie!
My advice would be to let go and just enjoy yourself, do what feels right. If its only your first date, there is no pressure on hugging or anything like that. Its all about finding out if you two can have fun together, and if you a... (read in full...)
I need to know if this is cheating. I have been sex camming with this guy, and he has a spouse. She does not know about us...
Q. I need to know if this is cheating. I have been sex camming with this guy, and he has a spouse. She does not know about us. Now he wants to meet in person and he wants me to perform oral sex on him. To me this is cheating on his partner. He tel...
A. 30 March 2008: Is "sex camming" cheating? For me its a yes, plain and simple. Meeting up only confirms that this guy has no loyality and respect for his current partner. Do you really want to get involved with a guy like that?
I think you can do much better t... (read in full...)
I'm really not sure if it's really my fault, or if it's just as much hers as mine, that we broke up. How to deal with the confused feelings?
Q. My girlfriend of just under 3 years broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. She said she just doesn't have "them" feelings for me anymore, she said that she still loves me and cares about me, we were eachothers first loves. We went through something ...
A. 14 March 2008: That is absolutely spot on, I never felt secure either but always reassured her when girls use to come on to me, or text me, i'd sit there telling her how much she means to me etc.. I never felt that reassurance back and I feel that led me to be ... (read in full...)
Worried about size, will I be able to engage in sexual activities?
Q. am 25 years old, i am very worried about my penis size, when erected my penis size is 13 cm, can i lose virginity of my girlfriend whith this size, what size of penis must be to lose virginity of female. thank you.... ...
A. 7 March 2008: Nothing wrong at all with that size. The advice so far has been excellent. Take a look in a mirror next time your aroused and you'll be surprized and probably feel a whole lot better!! I have felt the same as you before (hasn't every guy?) and ... (read in full...)
He kissed another girl at a club! How can I ever trust him again?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me last week in a club by kissing another girl as my friends saw and told me. He, however, claims he was 'too drunk to remember' and therefore he says it means nothing. I love him and don't want to loose him, this was ...
A. 7 March 2008: Its not easy, once that trust is gone its really hard to get it back from my experience. If you feel you are the type of person who can *truly* let it go and forget about it, then give him another chance. But if you think this might come up in ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel so bad? I gave him a blowjob!!!!
Q. I am feeling a bit down coz I did something I don't think I should have but I don't regret it! I went out with my boyfriend (16 + I am 16 too) a day ago and we decided to drink.. I am a lightweight, I don't even have to drink much to get pissed!! ...
A. 7 March 2008: You sound like your both very mature by talking about things and feeling comfortable with it. You probably just feel wierd at it was the first time, and you'd had a drink so I guess looking back at it might feel a little strange.
Remem... (read in full...)
I'm really not sure if it's really my fault, or if it's just as much hers as mine, that we broke up. How to deal with the confused feelings?
Q. My girlfriend of just under 3 years broke up with me a couple of weeks ago. She said she just doesn't have "them" feelings for me anymore, she said that she still loves me and cares about me, we were eachothers first loves. We went through something ...
A. 3 March 2008: Thank you for the reply, although the relationship is over for good, im pretty sure of that unfortunately. I just need to understand why it went the way it did, so I can get over this feeling of guilt, like it was all my fault. I dont feel I can ... (read in full...)
I'm scared I will end up alone...without the family and marriage I want.
Q. hi, I am really worried that no one will ever fall in love with me again and i wont get the family and happy marriage that i have always dreamt of! I have had one successful relationship that lasted two and a half years but we broke up in augu...
A. 2 March 2008: Hey, I am also 21 and feel very similar. I just broke up from a long term relationship of nearly 4 years. It breaks me up inside because I thought we had a future etc together and that she was "the one" and all the usual feelings that you get with ... (read in full...)
It is definitely not over...so why don't I feel bad??
Q. Hi, my ex girlfriend and I had been together for 3 and a half years, and about a year ago we went through a "near breakup" because of the way we treated eachother. Since then it never quite felt the same, even though I did still want to be with her ...
A. 26 February 2008: Thanks for your reply Mandy. I think your right, at the moment im trying to tell myself that it is over rather then the feeling that I want to feel which is that she may realise what we had was special, and want to give it another go. I mean we've ... (read in full...)
It is definitely not over...so why don't I feel bad??
Q. Hi, my ex girlfriend and I had been together for 3 and a half years, and about a year ago we went through a "near breakup" because of the way we treated eachother. Since then it never quite felt the same, even though I did still want to be with her ...
A. 26 February 2008: I didnt write a title, so its not entirely accurate. The general message is it is over, but she didnt completely rule out trying again in the future as she doesnt know how she will feel in the future. She said if she regrets breaking up in a few ... (read in full...)
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