Am I just being silly? Please put my mind at rest!
Q. Hiya, Me and a guy im seeing slept together for the first time yesterday and now for some reason im so worried and nervous. I'm on the pill so i really dont know why? And i've never forgotten any. Am i just being silly? Please someone put m...
A. 26 September 2008: well, not to scare you.... but i know a LOT of ppl that have been on the pill and have still gotten pregnant. Nothing is 100% condoms bust and pills sometimes don't work. ... (read in full...)
Am I weird for not having french kissed someone yet?
Q. Hey Guys :D In need of a little advice. I am 16 and I want to know if its weird that I am a vl and haven't fully kissed a boy. I have pecked someone on the lips but never frenched kissed someone. Am I weird? Thanks for any advice you give...
A. 26 September 2008: NO!!!! not at all! I'm a senior in college and a few of my friends haven't kissed a guy at all yet alone had a boyfriend yet. So please don't feel wierd.... (read in full...)
Fight for him back or just move on without him?
Q. Alright,my boyfriend just left me for another girl.He gave me no reason why he left me. This girl that he is with now is pregnant by his uncle.I told him that i am pregnant and he told me that he dont care to loose his number. I thought by him ...
A. 26 September 2008: Let him go. If he just up and leaves you for no reason and moves in with another girl, he obviously doesn't care or love you at all. I don't really buy that whole ordeal about that girl being pregnant by his uncle either, it's probably his. I know ... (read in full...)
I want to move in with 'my own' family. But my mum hates my girlfriend!
Q. Ok, I'm 22 and my girlfriend is 20. We have a daughter together she is 15 months. I wanna move in with her but my mother hates her guts. How do I tell my mother I wanna move and live with her? Please help...
A. 25 September 2008: MAN UP! if you're old enough to make a child you shouldn't be scared of your mom!... (read in full...)
Please help. I'm too scared to leave him, beacuse we have two beautiful daughters together, and I don't know what he'd do.
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for 3years and we have two kids. he always yells at me, he calls me names like bitch, whore , dumb ass, etc . he hits me and pushes me, but i love him and he says he loves me, but im not to sure. he always calls to see wher...
A. 25 September 2008: You should take up Tisha-1 on her advice on that hot line. You have to remember that it's not just you in this relationship but your children as well. Do you want them to grow up and treat others or get treated the way that you've been treated or ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hasn't said 'I love you' yet... is there something wrong?
Q. I know people say i love you way to much.. but iv'e been with my bf for 2 months and he has never said i love you...i know he likes me a lot cause all his friends tell me how happy he is and how he always talks about me.. but i was wonderin...
A. 25 September 2008: Maybe because it's only been 2 months. some ppl are together for years until they say it. Love are actions, not just a 3 word phrase. Be patient. You're still very young.... (read in full...)
Do you think he is messing with me, or do you think he really wants something more?
Q. Last fall I met this married cop, who is 27. I am still in high school, and only 17, but it feels like he does not really care that im underage. When I am around him, he is very flirty towards me, it almost feels like he does not really care that he ...
A. 25 September 2008: Girl you are getting played! He doesn't care about you! and you should be ashamed that you're messing with a married man! It doesn't matter if he doesn't care about his marraige, you should have enough respect for yourself and the other woman ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 year old with a 17 year old boyfriend. I just want to hang out with him, but my dad doesn't trust us.
Q. im a 14year old girl that has a 17 year old boyfriend that is turning 18 in two days. i really like him but my dad doesnt want me to date him and my mom think that she wouldnt care as long as she meets him. i want my dad to meet him too but i dont ...
A. 25 September 2008: There is no way that an 18 year-old red-blooded boy "just wants to hang out at your house with your parents and be supervised by you sister"! It's not your dad that doesn't get it, it's you. The two of you are at 2 totally different places is your ... (read in full...)
Has he broken up with me?
Q. Did my boyfriend breakup with me???? Me (22) and my boyfriend (25) were together for 1 year. We were really great together we connected in a way that made me fall in love for the first time in my life ( i had few boyfriends before him). He used to...
A. 25 September 2008: Congratulations! you're getting played! For real! he obviously has someone else in his life and he wants to keep you at arms length "just in case" cus he knows that you'll be there . My advice is that you don't return ANY of his txt msgs or ca... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hit me, but the thought of leaving him hurts too much.
Q. My boyfriend hit me, and the thought of me having to leave and star all over with another guy hurts so bad I still love him to death cause we been together for a year and a half. Should I leave him? ...
A. 25 September 2008: GET OUT! GET OUT! GET OUT! that's what I have to say about what you should do! You say that you love him, but the harsh truth is that HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU!
Answer this question.... how can someone love you and hit you at the same time?
He's a ... (read in full...)
The guy I like just asked my friend out... What do I do?
Q. im a freshman in high school. been through a ton of boyfriends, but never felt the way i do about this guy..i am seriously madly in love with him, but the thing is, he just asked out my friend and they are going to a movie....how the heck do i tell ...
A. 25 September 2008: I have to say that I agree with rhythmandblues2. I remeber highschool (I'm a senior in college (21yrs) now so I'm not that old)but trust me you'll get over him. I used to hate it when everyone used to tell me that I was too young to know what love ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my third cousin. How do I tell her?
Q. Hi Im a 18 year old boy from the united kingdom and, i have a question, i have feelings for my cousin who is a third cousin who i met only a few months ago.. but i dont know how to tell her.. because i get along with her alot and i dont...
A. 25 September 2008: My advice would be not to say anything and try to just let those feelings past. You say that you're 18 years old, that probably (most likely) means that she isn't going to be the one that you spend the rest of your life with. So ask yourself this ... (read in full...)
Is there a chance my girlfriend could be pregnant even though she had a normal period?
Q. Hello, i need some help...Ok i am currently 19 yrs old, and my gf and i had sex 4 days before her period, which comes every 28 days...So which means she ovulates two weeks before her period...Well we had sex 4 days before her period, had her period ...
A. 25 September 2008: Ok here it goes........ a girl (being one myself I know) can get pregnant at ANY time! One girl I knew had her period for 4 months into her pregnancy. So pretty much anything is possible. This is in no way to scare you at all! But I wouldn't want to ... (read in full...)
I feel like I have failed at getting over him. Any words of wisdom?
Q. I hope someone can help with a situation which seems hopeless right now. I broke up with my boyfriend in June but we have to keep seeing each other and it is proving to be so hard. We do important work on a committee and he had a soiree for the ...
A. 25 September 2008: I agree with DoubleM. I know that it's hard to accept that maybe you were just 1 of many for him. From what you've said he seems like one of those guys who only cares for himself and how many girls he can get. The best advice is to move on, realize ... (read in full...)
I love him but I can't get turned on to him! Help-any advice?
Q. I use to be very sexually active with my husband but now it just went away. I still find him very attractive and i love him more then anything, but i just cant figure out why i cant get turned on. I've tried role playing, using toys and even ...
A. 25 September 2008: If the main problem that you're having is being too tired, you should try detoxing. I tried it and I got all of my energy back really quickly! There are many detoxes out there some only last for 1 day some for 1 week. That should at least fix any ... (read in full...)
He seems undecided about what he wants from me. Should I keep on waiting or move on?
Q. I have been with this guy for almost a year we both live in different parts of Canada. I tend to have high expectations of men, and he tends to be a workaholic and has a relaxed nature. In the beginning things were great, he called everyday...
A. 8 September 2008: Just learn from the way he is treating you... he says that he can live without you, and reality is that YOU can live without him! I know you feel like you don't want to lose him and that you want him to be a part of your life, but just concentrate ... (read in full...)
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