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My boyfriend hasn't said 'I love you' yet... is there something wrong?

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Question - (25 September 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2008)
A female Germany age 30-35, *ello world writes:

I know people say i love you way to much..

but iv'e been with my bf for 2 months and he has never said i love you...i know he likes me a lot cause all his friends tell me how happy he is and how he always talks about me.. but i was wondering.. is there something wrong if he doesn't say i love you?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008):

i guess maybe he is too scared to say it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008):

I'm sorry to say, two months is not enough to worry about dear! If his actions and talks with his buddies say he cares about you, don't worry about the words... yet!

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A female reader, kle7 United States +, writes (25 September 2008):

Maybe because it's only been 2 months. some ppl are together for years until they say it. Love are actions, not just a 3 word phrase. Be patient. You're still very young.

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A female reader, Tremor Australia +, writes (25 September 2008):

Tremor agony auntTwo months is not very long, as far as relationships go. 'I love you' isn't a phrase most people just throw around, and it takes a while to be certain. I know it took my boyfriend and I something like four, five months to get around to saying it.

There's nothing wrong if he hasn't said it yet - he probably just wants to be sure, which is completely understandable. You know he really likes you, and that he's happy with you, so I don't think you have anything to worry about.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008):

Two months is a long time in dog years, but it is nothing in the realm of dating in the real world. There is nothing wrong with him not telling you he loves you, it is too early to say this or to know this about you....give it some time, give him some space and let him say it to you first. Actions speak louder than words anyway, they always do.

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