He's too attached to his ex, should I break up with him over it?
Q. Hi, Just need some advice on what to do. I've had been in a long distance relationship for about four years. The problem is that my bf had never stopped talking with his ex nor had he talk her that he is in a relationship with me. They are not ...
A. 26 May 2008: you remind me of my sister she's 21. She and her sweetheart from 9th grade all the way to 12th grade broke up becuz she wanted to go to college and he didn't. That was in 2005 they still see each other go out on dates but she has already met ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my cousin I want the sex to stop?
Q. Well i'm going to start off at my cousin's house. One night me and him began doing sexual things to each other, i know it's gross but i was scared to tell him "no". When he comes around like at family get together's - i feel nervous when he even ...
A. 23 April 2008: hi, you guys i have told him what i think and how i feel but he stills tries making a move on me. i told him i have a boyfriend and that made him more mad. so that quite didn't go as planned he continues to feel on me and push me into the bathroom ... (read in full...)
I totally fell for him, but now he's back with his ex and we're on the down low! Will he return to me?
Q. I am 17 year old senior in high school, i have fallen for a 35 year old player...he has such good charisma, good looks, beautiful mesmerizing hazel eyes. I have been talking to him for about a month now. We have had sex about four times and it was ...
A. 22 April 2008: i say he is just using you and OH yeah there is plenty of more great SEX PARTNERS out there gurl!!!!!!... (read in full...)
Did he just use me for sex?
Q. I met this guy 6 months ago unfortunately l let my guard down and had sex with him. We have been comunicating, I have been out of a relationship for close to 3 years. I like him but am worried he is just after sex how can i tell what his up to?...
A. 22 April 2008: well sweetheart have you two been going places together? or doing things like going to the movies or anything. if so you dont have to worry about him just being with you for sex at least you waited 6 months to have sex with him.... (read in full...)
Should I pretend that I like it when he hurts me during sex??
Q. me and a guy that i call my sex partner has sex. Its great and all but when he has sex with me he bagans to go faster and i tell him to STOP bcuz he is hurting me that i began to scream. I think he thought i was liking the feeling but i didnt. He ...
A. 22 April 2008: hi you guys i did have the courage to finally tell him about his self. he didn't take it too well he asked me "why does it hurt when i go fast" baby its supposed to feel good. i told him it didn't so i guess since i told his sex hurts me when he ... (read in full...)
17 with a 25 year old boyfriend. How could he be done for statutory rape?
Q. Okay, I'm a 17 year old girl and I have a 25 year old boyfriend. We slept together and I really want to know how he could end up being charged for statutory rape. What kind of evidence do they need to support that crime. Could he get into trouble if ...
A. 21 April 2008: yes, sweetie you should have waited until you were 18 at least before you tried to sleep with him.... (read in full...)
Our relationship is very friendly and sexual but he is also sleeping with other women. If I tell him I fell for him, will he give up this life of freedom?
Q. I have had a crush on a guy since I was 16. At 25, I told him that I had a thing for him. He did not seem to interested at the time, but I guess I was ignoring the signals, especially when he asked for my number. We spoke a few times, but I was ...
A. 21 April 2008: you should tell him how you feel that is if he isn't currently sleeping with other women.... (read in full...)
He's giving me mixed messages-Should I leave him alone or am I overreacting?
Q. I met this really nice guy at a company party 2 1/2 months ago. We got along very good, and things seemed nice. We went on our first date to a nice restaurant, and after went back to his apartment and ended up having sex. Since then, we have been ...
A. 18 April 2008: i am recently in the same situation you are in i tried losing contact with the guy i was with but i cant seem to. Everytime he calls i jump to the phone, i would just say go with your heart he may just be after you for one thing since you did give ... (read in full...)
Two Q's..Why do people have sex changes?-Why are teacher/pupil relationships against the law?
Q. Just out of interest, I have 2 questions which i'd like answers to; Why do people have sex changes? - I know it isn't exactly common, but why can't a person just accept the gender they are! I thought maybe it's because they have feelings for t...
A. 18 April 2008: when a person has their sex changed it is because they didnt feel the way they were supposed to be for instance, a girl maybe as she was growing up did boy-ish things parents really didnt take much notice of that bcuz they thought she will grow out ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he say the three magic words I want to hear?
Q. Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. We are so loving towards each other......looking into each others eyes......kissing my eye lids........etc...... But, he hasn't said the 3 words.....I love you. I keep wanting to say it s...
A. 18 April 2008: just wait till he feels he needs to tell you "i love you", but in the mean time just tell him how you feel and get everything off your chest and go with the flow. tell him how you really feel one night and say i never felt like this towards anyone ... (read in full...)
I still think of my first love but don't want to hurt my boyfriend, what can I do?
Q. I meet him about 8years ago, it was love at first sight, well for me anyway. We were friend (of a sort), we were never together, not even kissed but there was always something there. I waited and waited for him but nothing ever happened. After a ...
A. 17 April 2008: no you will never get over your first love if you want to move on then just move on it is your choice to keep him or your boyfriend but if you are going to get married to this guy then maybe you should move on and NEVER forget your past love.... (read in full...)
Can you love two people at the same time?
Q. hi Ok well i go out with this amazing boy he means the world to me, and i truly love him and he said he felt the same. We see each other every day at school and we meet at speedway every Thursday. Recently he's been acting really depressed and unh...
A. 17 April 2008: yes this guy is totally confused he is in a state right now of who he wants to choose. During this time sweetie it may be hard but just give him space leave him alone,in piece so he can sort things out but wait till he decides. Move on for a little ... (read in full...)
My new guy is amazing but I think about my ex (who led me on) a lot...
Q. well...bascially I was dating this guy for about 9 months, and it was perfect. I was happy, and head of heels in love. Then, we suddenly started arguin, about the 'future', going to different univerities, he asked for a break, and i couldnt...
A. 17 April 2008: well this is really up to you but if i were you which i am not i would move on to the guy that treats you right not the one who goes behind your back with another girl and in the end begans to tell how much he is sorry and accept my apology.seems to ... (read in full...)
He has a GF but says he only goes out with her because he feels sorry for her!! Should I be getting involved with him?
Q. well theres this guy who i had a crush on months ago. i liked him loads! and i was mad on him but now i dont seem as interested in him as i used to be and have got over him. but i was in ICT the other day and the power went so we were all just sat ...
A. 17 April 2008: yes dear i think you should just leave him alone he may be just trying to see how fast he can get you to take your pants off. Trust me MANY dudes will say anything just to get what they want, you being so young trust me sweetie i am older now and ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend that I have gay fantasies? She's prejudiced. Also, are my fantasies normal when I'm not gay?
Q. ok so me and this girl was talking one day at the mall and me and my friend got into a conversation with her about how nice her shoes were. when we got in the middle of our conversation she said she thought i was sexy (i thought she was too) but my ...
A. 16 April 2008: i think you guys are right but i am still unsure and scared about telling her that i think im bi and i feel she deserves to know bcuz if she dont she will really be mad at me.... (read in full...)
He vacilates between telling me he loves me and telling me he is using me for sex and calling me names. What gives?
Q. Hi I hope you dont mind me writing to you found your site on google and think you may be able to help and any advice is welcome. Thing is I met a bloke ten weeks ago and have found myself falling for him already and much to my delight he told ...
A. 15 April 2008: well i think he is just playing, teasing you just so you can get mad. i really wouldnt pay any attention to him at all when he already loves you. but dont worry about it he's probly just saying stuff like that just so he can test you on your ... (read in full...)
Hes been having a lot of ideas about us having a baby together I don't know if I'm ready for this
Q. Dear cupid.. i been with my boyfriend dan for about 2 years now, we are engaged. but lately hes been having a lot of ideas about us having a baby together i dont know if im ready for this quite yet what shall i do ? ...
A. 14 April 2008: well sweetie just tell your partner that your just not ready and if he really understands and care for you he would respect your wishes. he cant rush you into anything you don't wanna do.... (read in full...)
I told him to get out, and he did. But I want him back now!
Q. Hi My partner and I have been together for 4 years and living together for 2, recently we have been having financial problems and he lost his job. Soon after this I got very angry one weekend and told him to get out 2 days later he left and said he ...
A. 14 April 2008: i would tell him with all the love that you possibly have in your heart to tell him you made a huge mistake and you want no one else but him so pleez come back. when he comes back make sure you never let him go even if you do go off the handles ... (read in full...)
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