Anything I can do to stop these comments??
Q. I have two jobs, one of which is a job at a garage. I work as a consoler (authorising the use of pumps - i'm the one that presses the button to send your fuel down the hose!) and also on the counter in the garage shop. The garage is just a small to...
A. 7 December 2007: Thankyou for your comment Baby Duck I actually feel stronger (i think this is the word) about this situation I am thinking about quitting the job, bcause of this, and also because my dad doesn't like me working there, as the majority of the ... (read in full...)
My husband is a controlling and demanding, he nearly lost his job because of his attitude, should I put up with this , I want to make it work?
Q. I am really lost. I am married at the moment and my husband makes me want to die. I feel like he is constantly trying to change me, and he is so demanding and controlling. i feel like he is the only one who has benefited getting married. i have had ...
A. 5 December 2007: No, you're not wrong.
He needs to remember that there are TWO people in the relationship. He sounds very controlling, and almost as if he overlooks and ignores you and your feelings?
Don't let him. It's YOUR job, so don't let him ruin it for you.... (read in full...)
He's a nice person but I feel like I deserve to be treated better.
Q. I have been dating someone for 7 months. He's a nice person, and I do love him. But I have this constant doubt that I'm being taken advantage of because he wants a companion. At the start of the relationship, I felt he was taking advantage of me fo...
A. 5 December 2007: You've done that already
If when in a relationship you find yourself stressed, unhappy and are finding it hard, then it's really not worth it.
Try remembering that Mr Right that you dreamed off when you were in your teens, wouldn't you want to ... (read in full...)
Am I too big for her? She always complains I go in too deep and it is frustrating for her the idea I cannot climax as easily with these restrictions...
Q. hope you can help me I have a couple of problems 1) I am 28 years old and I am well endowed, all the woman I have gone out with have complained about the size of my member. I am in a steady relationship now and I want to marry my girl friend b...
A. 4 December 2007: Pain isn't fun. If having sex this way hurts her, she won't feel turned on and may avoid sex altogether.
So experiment. You don't always have to have full intercourse so have an exciting and fulfilling sexual relationship. Don't force her to do anyt... (read in full...)
I live with my bf and his mum, but she hates me and even beat me, how can I sort this out?
Q. dear cupid, I have this boyfriend for six months now but at that span of time we always argue. Two months dating we agreed to get marry and stay in his mom's house but his mom told us not to rush and move our marriage for another five months. At ...
A. 4 December 2007: This is disgusting! I cannot believe that anyone would act like this towards anyone, but your boyfriend's mother?! You CANNOT keep going through this, you've done nothing wrong so you shouldn't have to be the one on the recieving end of not only ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing by sending her a letter?
Q. Recently I've developed serious suspicions that my ex-girlfriend is undiagnosed with a mental illness called "Hypomania" a mild Bi-Polar disorder. At times during our relationship she herself has expressed concerns about sudden feelings she can't ...
A. 4 December 2007: I think what you did was EXACTLY the right thing to do. If she gets angry, which she may well do, yes she probably won't speak to you, but this is for the best. This proves that you care for her. It's much harder to be away from someone we love ... (read in full...)
Is her lying a problem, or am I creating a problem?
Q. I have a question that concerns "lies". I want to first explain a few things in our relationship. I have been dating a wonderful woman for 2.5 years. She's a great friend, and a better lover. However, I have a concern that seems to continue to ...
A. 4 December 2007: She may be lying, she may not.
But either way, does it matter?
Trust has been broken on both sides now, and unless something drastically changes, it'll just get worse... (read in full...)
How can I stop my girlfriend taking this job at a strip bar?
Q. My girlfriend took off her top at a strip bar on a dare. The manager there asked her if she’d like to work there. She said she’s thinking about it!! He told her she could make five hundred a night. She works as a waitress now, but thinks she can ...
A. 4 December 2007: I know this must be hard for you. I personally have seriously considered this kind of work. I currently have two jobs which keep me going and they pay ok, but i know that if i had to, i wouldn't be too upset about this kind of work, it would be - ... (read in full...)
He's a nice person but I feel like I deserve to be treated better.
Q. I have been dating someone for 7 months. He's a nice person, and I do love him. But I have this constant doubt that I'm being taken advantage of because he wants a companion. At the start of the relationship, I felt he was taking advantage of me fo...
A. 4 December 2007: You do deserve to be treated better, if you're not happy with the relationship, then something needs to change. Remember - there's two people in your relationship, and he needs to realise this.
You didn't say how you contracted HPV, from your boyf... (read in full...)
Is it really the army or is he lying to me? PLEASE HELP
Q. I never doubted for one second that my boyfriend is not telling me the truth, I always believed in him, in us, I look up to him, I trust him and I respect him. He says we fit together and he is right, we do fit together. He says he loves me, he said ...
A. 3 December 2007: My boyfriend is in the army, but not currently at war, but i can understand how hard it must be. You say you've not seen him this year? And are keeping in touch via emails? Personally, i can't see how this can work. This is just my opinion, but from... (read in full...)
Against my own heart.
Q. I was with this guy who was 3 years younger than me. Dont get me wrong, the age didnt matter to me. Anyways, we were happily together for a very long time. My family didnt seem to like him much though. They did the impossible for me not to be with ...
A. 3 December 2007: You guys need to talk. Arrange to meet him somewhere neutral, like in a cafe or a park, and talk about your feelings. Tell him about the pressure you were under to make that decision, and tell him how you still feel about him. Hopefully, by talking ... (read in full...)
Should I forgive him for his jealous outbursts??
Q. Well I asked a question about my boyfriend not being jealous. Well that all of a sudden has changed and now he's really jealous. Seriously, I can't stand him anymore and like just a minute ago he called me yelling because I hugged my friend w...
A. 2 December 2007: This sounds so similar to me and my boyfriend. I suppose you can only really ask yourself what to do. Do you believe him when he apologises? Does he do it time and time again, even though he says he's sorry? Or is it just once, which can be ... (read in full...)
Is he wrong to say no??
Q. I love to have sex when I have my period but my boyfriend finds it messy and he says he cant feel it as there is no friction. I am not wanting it when I was on fast. I think he should not say no. Please advise....
A. 30 November 2007: Remember there are two people in this relationship. If he doesn't want to, then you must respect his wishes. There are many people both female and male who do enjoy sex whilst on and off the peroid. Don't think that either one of you is wrong in the ... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to 'get it out of his system'?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 years. We are best friends first then boyfriend and girlfriend. The number one rule in the relationship is brutal honesty. We are currently taking a break because he is depressed because of work reasons and ...
A. 29 November 2007: I can understand what you are going through, as i have been through something similar. But ask yourself, would you want to see other people? Do you love him? Do you want him all to yourself? Imagine him with other girls - does this hurt?
If the answ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is a 'Rent Boy' - what should I feel about it?
Q. my boyfriend of 4 months has recently just admitted to me that hes been cheating on me with another man and hes been getting paid for it and now i dont know what to think or feel please help...
A. 29 November 2007: Firstly, you need to make sure that whatever happened was safe - definately get checked out at a health clinic - this is the most important thing, whatever happens it is YOU that you need to look after.
Secondly, speak to him. Ask him why he's done... (read in full...)
Should I leave it alone?
Q. I am 13 and i was wondering what to do I asked out this girl i realy like i mean i love her but she said no and that day i felt like i wanted to die but we get teased for it and i still love her. How or what should i do or should i leave it alone?...
A. 29 November 2007: Was she with her friends when you asked her? Or were your friends present? Maybe she felt pressured into this answer?
Maybe become close friends with her before approaching again, go out to a water park or the cinema for the day?
Alternati... (read in full...)
| *ittenMagic's friends
These are mutual friends, so *ittenMagic has
added them and they have added *ittenMagic!
|
