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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I love to have sex when I have my period but my boyfriend finds it messy and he says he cant feel it as there is no friction. I am not wanting it when I was on fast. I think he should not say no. Please advise.
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reader, KittenMagic +, writes (30 November 2007):
 Remember there are two people in this relationship. If he doesn't want to, then you must respect his wishes. There are many people both female and male who do enjoy sex whilst on and off the peroid. Don't think that either one of you is wrong in the way you feel about this. It's just personal choice. But no one should feel pressured into haing sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): It's wrong to try to force sex with someone. If he says he doesn't want to then you need to accept it. Imagine if he told you that you weren't allowed to say no!
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reader, Norex  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 i agree that usually the problem is the other way around, and i still believe in an article i read a long time ago that sex during the period could make it longer and painfull.although you seem to enjoy it your boyfriend doesn't so try to find something you both could do and enjoy. i suggest anal or oral.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): This 'problem' is usually the other way round - ie. the woman not wanting sex when on her period.
If he finds it off-puuting there's not much you could do about that, but how about if you suggested having a shower together afterwards? He might then consider it.
Personally, it never used to bother me and didn't put me off at all. It's all down to an individual's likes and dislikes.
Having sex is a two-way thing, and if one of you doesn't enjoy any particular aspect of it, then you shouldn't really push it.
Phil
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