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When you love somebody, do you set them free or never leave them?

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Question - (5 April 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 April 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Is it true, if you love somebody, you set them free?

or is it if you love somebody you never leave?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2008):

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I want to add that im not shielding her. Im not even with her. It's just that i was with her, and she wants to be friends, but i still love her. So im not sure if i should just leave her "set her free" because its hard for me to deal with just being friends. Or since i love her, i should just suck it up and be her friend even though it hurts.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

Why do you ask this question? If you love someone you dont keep them a prisoner, you give them space to grow and breath and they should do the same to you. You love someone and you want them to be happy.

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A female reader, KeRrI117 United Kingdom +, writes (5 April 2008):

KeRrI117 agony auntthat depends on weather shes happy with you or does she want someone else if so u let her go but if she loves you and the relationship is good then you keep her

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A female reader, ladywolve United States +, writes (5 April 2008):

ladywolve agony auntBoth. It is true that if you love someone you should let

them go. What that means is you have to let them follow

their heart. You should also try to keep them close to

your heart and get to know each other better, even if just

friends. You can never have to many friends! In that regards, you don't want to leave them. As you become closer you can tell them your true feelings. Chances are

then that they have thought the same and now more deeper

since you have let them sort themselves. If you can talk

openly and that close now. Do it. Just don't expect bells

and whistles. Remember, they have alot going on too and are scared of whats out there. Show them you will be there through thick and thin.

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A male reader, enjoimx United States +, writes (5 April 2008):

enjoimx agony auntThe actual truth is: If you love somebody, you give them space and freedom and respect more so than you impose your will upon them in the name of "love"

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