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I don't get turned on at all, is this normal?

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Question - (27 November 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 November 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I don't get turned on at all...No matter what my boyfriends or myself do, nothing really seems to turn me on..Is this normal?

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2007):

hello1 agony auntDon't worry give it a year or two then your be fine! OR it could be the guy your with, you may not be very attracted to him sexually. Some people don't connect, I broke up with an ex because of this, we just didn't have any chemistry!

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A male reader, TomWilkinson United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2007):

TomWilkinson agony auntIt's just your brain telling your body you aren't ready to be turned on. In time (and I mean years) that'll change don't worry. Either that, or simply, you aren't sexually attracted to your boyfriend

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A male reader, chlez83 Zambia +, writes (28 November 2007):

It's a sign that your body's not ready. Sexual excitement is caused by hormones when released and if these hormones are not released,you won't be "turned on". So don't force yourself and let nature work for you.If your boyfriend finds this hard to accept,tell him to grow up or grow out.If you do try to have sex even though you are not turned on,i can promise you that it won't be enjoyable at all. Please don't rush into having sex,you are still young.

All the best.

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A female reader, BadAsh6705 United States +, writes (28 November 2007):

BadAsh6705 agony auntIt is just because you are still very young and probably don't have much experience to know what you like. Don't force anything...you will know and feel it when it is right!

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A female reader, KeRrI117 United Kingdom +, writes (28 November 2007):

KeRrI117 agony auntYes its perfectly normal you just havent found the right place to make you feel good yet.

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