Boyfriend wants to do sexual things but I am still very shy
Q. So, there's this guy that I've been seeing and we've been having sex for about a month. Everthings great but he keeps wanting to go down on me. I know it would feel really good but I'm just really shy and I don't like the idea of someone seeing my ...
A. 23 August 2011: You trust your boyfriend enough to have sex, trust him to do other things. Tell him you want the lights off, it'll make you relax and enjoy it more. It can make you nervous to try new things but if it is what you want then just do what you can to ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says I'm not loud enough during sex
Q. My boyfriend and I have really good sex but he still asks me if I'm enjoying it. I know it's good that he wants to make sure I feel good but it's his reasoning that gets me. He says he's not sure because I'm not loud enough. I moan like the whole ...
A. 23 August 2011: If you really love your boyfriend and trust him enough to be having sex with him, why not just tell him how good he makes you feel. Even if it is just a whisper in his ear saying: "that feels so good". It'll make him feel better about it and ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends interfering mum is a nightmare!
Q. Well, I've got a little problem. I've been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years now and we have a 7 month old son who we just adore. Everything is going fantastic with us, he's my best friend, I know we are going to be together forever. But the ...
A. 23 August 2011: I understand she has welcomed us into her house, something she didn't have to do, and I very much appreciate it. I do what I can to help when I can and we pay our way. We really do appreciate everything. It just feels like we can't be trusted... (read in full...)
My boyfriend jokes when I want to talk about our future
Q. My bf of 9 months and I live together, are serious, want to get married and have kids etc. He's 35 and I'm 28. Lately we've been having some financial difficulties. Lately when I mention our future he makes a joke, I said I didn't like that and he ...
A. 22 August 2011: If you are having a bit of a hard time financially, just now probably isn't the right time to talk about the future. Your boyfriend is most likely stressed and worried about the situation you are in. I'm sure he still wants all the same things, just ... (read in full...)
I feel like I cant be bothered anymore, has anyone else ever felt like this?
Q. i have just had enough with the struggle that is life. i've had enough of the constant frustrations and disappointments in life. i can't be bothered anymore. has anyone felt like this? how did you deal with it? how did you move on and start ...
A. 16 February 2010: Hey there, guess this isn't so much an answer but more of me understanding how you feel.
I'm going through the same thing, sick of everything going wrong and wonder what the point of it is. Even my boyfriend, who I love dearly seems to be slipp... (read in full...)
Me and my gf are going to have sex...should I shave down there?
Q. Me and my gf are going to have sex. we talked about it before, and i dont know if to shave down there. she said she wouldnt like it if i sis because then it might be prickly and might hurt. or should i just trim really small?...
A. 31 January 2010: Hi
Personally, it doesn't bother me if a guy shaves down there. I like a bit of hair, because then I know I'm having sex with a man.
But that's just me!
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Should I end it now and wait until he is 18?
Q. I am going out with a guy that is a few years younger than me (underage). I really care about him and every day I get emotionally closer to him. I’ve never felt this comfortable with a guy before. We have the confidence to open up to each other and ...
A. 17 December 2009: Hey there.
You seem to really like this guy, so why end it?
You aren't doing anything wrong unless you have sex with him while he is underage.
So let the relationship develop emotionally but save the physical stuff for later.
Don't rui... (read in full...)
Sex with the perfect guy....
Q. Me and the guy I am with have been together for a little over a month now. He is a great guy, he makes me feel good about myself, he's ready and willing to do something with his life, and he has a lot of traits I am personally attracted to, he's ...
A. 17 November 2009: I think you just have to try different things and see what works for you guys.
Try a lot of foreplay before the intercourse, and try different positions where he might penetrate deeper.
Give the relationship time, as your chemistry grows ... (read in full...)
My mum calls me fat, now I'm feeling depressed...
Q. Most days i feel really down and i think i may be depressed, i cry a lot and the smallest things can make me cry. i feel like everyone around me dont love me, i think my family hate me, i think my boyfriend hates me, i think my friends hate me. me ...
A. 17 November 2009: Your mum shouldn't be talking to you like this. At 17, your still young and your body is still changing, it can make you self conscious, the last thing you need is her comments.
Try talking to your mum, and ask her why she does it, and explain ... (read in full...)
Why has he changed his mind after him asking me if I wanted to do it again?
Q. So a few years back, a buddy and I got a little liquored up and ended up messing around. We both consider ourselves straight, but we both enjoyed what happened. We never talked about it. Just wasn't ever brought up. Since then, our friendship really ...
A. 17 November 2009: It sounds to me that your friend is a bit confused about his feelings, and possibly his sexuality. He needs space to relax and have a think about what to do, so give him space, but make sure he knows your there if he needs to chat.
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I am a virgin. Should I sleep with my boyfriend of 5 weeks?
Q. ok, im a virgin, my boyfriend of 5 weeks is not, he wants sex (he's 17). I want it so bad, when im around him i feel safe and happy. (i come from a background with alot of abuse and so does he but he has been drinking and smoking since he was in ...
A. 17 November 2009: I wouldn't give it up for your boyfriend. Not yet. You don't sound convinced that I you can trust him, and giving his history, I don't blame you. If you do decide to have sex, ensure he wears a condom! You don't know what he could have. Just... (read in full...)
My boyfriend loves me but wants sex with other women!
Q. Hey guys so ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. we both love each other very much and weve had a happy time together, but recently an issue has got in our way. He's only admitted it once before and somet...
A. 17 November 2009: Your boyfriend is curious, it is understandable, but something he should of kept to himself. If he really loves you, you'll be enough for him and he wouldn't want anyone else. If you don't want to threesome, then doon't do it. You need to be c... (read in full...)
Should I take the leap and tell my boyfriend I love him?
Q. after alot of ups and downs in my relationship my bf and i made back up things are going really good but i have a problem telling him how i really feel because i am afraid to get hurt.i am thinking like this if i let him know that i love him he ...
A. 17 November 2009: I think you should wait a little, make sure the relationship is going strong.
But when the times right tell him, don't hold back. You'll regret it if you do.... (read in full...)
His girlfriend told him to stop talking to me!
Q. Hello :) Okay so I recently met a guy and his friends. He has a girlfriend, who is a friend of one of my best friends. Me and the guy talk alot, we're good friends. The other day my best friend told me that his girlfriend told him to stop talking ...
A. 17 November 2009: She will see you as a threat. I've been in a similar situation. A lot of my close friends are male, and girls find that a bit threatening.
She should really trust her boyfriend to be friends with you, you've not done anything wrong. Just take a s... (read in full...)
How do I silence my squelching fanny?
Q. when i am having sex with my bf my fanny makes a squelching noise. how can i stop this? help...
A. 15 November 2009: This is a pretty normal experience.
Although can be a little embarrassing.
But its all part of sex.
Try having music on in the background to drown the noise out a little, apart from that, there is nothing much else you can do.... (read in full...)
Should I smoke pot before sex?
Q. Would smoking pot before having sex make it hurt less the first time?...
A. 15 November 2009: There is no need to smoke pot before sex.
Just make sure your first time is with someone you really trust and really care for, and try to relax.
If you can manage that, it won't hurt.
I was worried before my first time, but it didn't hurt. ... (read in full...)
Do boys like large breasts?
Q. heyy...... i am 14 years old and i have larger tits than my friends ... i am 1 38dd and i am still growing will lads like em cuz the are so big ??? ...
A. 15 November 2009: There will be loads of guys who like Big boobs, but make sure they like more than that.
I've got quite big boobs myself, and at first I thought it was great. But it's gotten to the stage where thats the only things guys look at when speaking... (read in full...)
Does my lack of trust isolate me?
Q. Is is plainly just chemistry? I have been single for very long and have yet be able to open my heart to anyone now. There are a few potentials one in my life now but I just cannot open my heart. Is love just based on chemistry or is it that I a...
A. 15 November 2009: Hi there.
I have had a very similar problem. A lot of things that happened while growning up really affected my ability to trust people, not just guys but friends too. It was ruining my life, I just knew I had to get over this.
I recently fel... (read in full...)
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