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writes:I'm only 16, and i used to know everyone at school and love life. I met a boy last summer and liked him right off when we started getting to know each other. We started dating and now its been since 0ctober of last year. i cry every day because of how he treats me and i dont know what to do because i know that i love him. we have been together for a while now and i am with him all the time and we have been through everything together, i need help i have tried to leave him but i cant because i love him too much and i dont know what to do when things arent okay with us :( Now i have barely any friends and i cry all the time, please help:( Reply to this Question
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reader, nelllsooon +, writes (17 July 2010):
nelllsooon is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHello, thanks so much for the support and advice, unfortunately i am still with the same boy and he is stilll the same but i dont know how to not love him still it is so hard, i miss having my own life and my friends but i am still with him and by his side 24/7. its unbeliavable i know, but its hard. :( idk what i can do
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reader, JustMex  +, writes (11 June 2010):
 You need to finish it with him. If he isn't treating you right, then it will never work because he has no respect for you. You may love him, but you need more than love for a relationship to work, and crying all the time is NOT how a relationship should be like. Also, you need to get back in touch with your friends - before you lose them for good. A lot of girls, especially your age, fall into a trap of forgetting about their friends just because they're going out with someone. That is not how it should work, you need to have a healthy balance of seeing your boyfriend, friends and school/work/family. It will hurt but you will get over him and you WILL find someone who treats you how you should be treated.
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reader, raiders  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 You should love yourself more. You should move forward and break up with him and believe me it can be done put your pride first.
Don't allow him to treat you bad walk away from this relationship. How can you expect him to respect you when you are showing him that you come second to his feelings.
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