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30-35,
anonymous
writes:okay so i have been dating this guy for 3 months now. and everything was going great he treated me better than any other guy ever has. but a couple days ago people kept coming up to me and telling me that my boyfriend was planning on breaking up with me. so when i asked him he didnt reply so i got my friend to ask him and he said no. well he ignored me for a coulple days after that and i decided to end it cause i couldnt handle it anymore. after i broke up with him his ex texted me and told me that he cheated on me the entire time with her and that he lied to me about everthing. i was so crused but i still like him and i dont understand how.he didnt even have to nerve to even say sorry or anything. did i do the right thing in breaking up with him? should i try to give him another chance?
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (13 December 2009):
I agree with everyone and to add: make sure he sees you smiling and happy and moving on with your life. Dont let him see you walking around with puffy eyes your head down and stuff. All he will think is "she's pathetic I'm glad its over". Move on he doesnt respect you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): No, at your age I wouldn't even worry about being in a relationship, there is plenty of time for that. Date multiple guys and plan to have fun, not to be posessive of one person. This guy is doing that but not being honest about it....just stick with your original decision, he had his chance and he blew it.
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reader, JustMex  +, writes (13 December 2009):
 Sometimes an ex girlfriend can make up lies, to make you insecure because she is/was bitter about the break up. How ever, she could be telling the truth, for example, if she was cheated on herself. The only way you're going to find out the real truth is if you ask your now ex. If he hasn't tried to get back with you, hasn't apologised - either because he's not sorry or because he's angry that he didn't actually cheat - then doesn't that say something? You need real answers from him, but I'm not sure that he'll give it to you. Only you know if you did the right thing, because it depends on the circumstances, and I don't know either of you or how your relationship was. But one thing you need to have in a relationship is trust, and if you ever got back with him, could you trust him again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): If he can't stand up for himself then it's best to let him go. He doesnt sound like he even cares if people say to you he cheated. So most likely, he did cheat.
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