Should my girlfriend accept all my flaws or should I change for her to prove my love?
Q. Hey there aunts and uncles of Dear Cupid. I have a sort of problem from an argument i had yesterday with my girlfriend. She said that if i really loved her i should/would want to change some aspects of my behaviour to make her happy, but i argued ...
A. 9 September 2008: Well we've been going out for a year and a half now and i go clubbing maybe three times a fortnight. She doesn't see her friends as much as i do though, but i've never given her reason to mistrust me. Apart from when i go clubbing and out with my ... (read in full...)
I'm worried if I tell him exactly how I feel, and he doesn't feel the same, that I'll lose him as a friend.
Q. Me and this guy started having a relationship but we ended it because I couldn't see him very often. We've been friends ever since, but a year on I am completely besotted with him, so much that i'm pretty sure I love him, strong as the word is. Pr...
A. 11 August 2008: If this guy is as good a friend as you believe him to be then you will not lose him if you tell him your feelings. Sure it may be awkward for a day or two but if he is any kind of friend then he will tell you how he feels and if it isn't the same ... (read in full...)
Does he even remotely feel my pain? Do guys hurt like girls in a break up?
Q. I have been a relationship for 2 years with a guy that I thought I would marry. We have been having alot of problems for the past several months. He continued to push the relationship because he wanted a life with me. We tried to work through ...
A. 11 August 2008: It sounds to me that he does. He probably does need time to sort whatever problems he has out, although hve you told him that you can help work through it together? If he says you deserve better he may simply have low self esteem; i have the same ... (read in full...)
What do men really mean when they say they "can't be in a relationship"?
Q. A question for men: What do you realy mean when you tell a woman you cant be in a "relationship"?...
A. 10 August 2008: I'm not going to answer that specifically because you can't generalise what men say to cover all of us. Every man may mean something completley different when they say they can't be in a relationship. However I will hazard a guess at some more ... (read in full...)
Ever left your partner for someone else and had it work out?
Q. I just wanted to ask...if anyone has ever left their partner for another and had it work out fine and been together for a long time? Cos all this gossipping and doubt from other people is making me paranoid. I left my boyfriend (of 3 1/2 years)...
A. 10 August 2008: I wouldn't listen to half the stuff you hear. Several months ago I left my previous girlfriend of 2 months for another girl that I had liked for a long time before the relationship. Things were very confusing as we both gave each other the wrong ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has threatened to upload videos of me on porn sites if I ever leave him...Please help!!
Q. What do i do? My boyfriend has videos of me doing things, and he says if i leave him or don't take naughty pics for him - he's going to upload them to porn sites. If my family ever found out they'd be so mad :( I don't know what to do :( I'm onl...
A. 9 August 2008: Your boyfriend is obviously sick and using you for his own desires. My first question would be how naughty are the videos? If he is threatening to upload them to porn sites, unless your parents look at porn themselves it is unlikely they will find ... (read in full...)
He kept putting his hand up my top! Is he just after sex?
Q. I was making out with my boyfriend, him lying on top of me between my legs, when he put his hand up my top and started slowly putting his hand further up my top. Does it seem to you like sex is all he is interested in? Or was i leading him on? I pu...
A. 9 August 2008: Your boyfriend, if he is the same age as you as i am assuming, is probably extremley horny and his natural instincts are taking over. It might not be that he just wants sex, but maybe just feeling your ore private areas makes him feel horny or more ... (read in full...)
I'm feeling insecure about my boyfriend - please advise!
Q. Hi, I've a question on cheating by text. I am with someone 10 years. Up till now the relationship has been good. He goes away a lot for international sports competitions. At the last one (June) he mentioned he gave advice to a fellow sportsper...
A. 8 August 2008: You should tell him how you feel. It is not right that you feel insecure, although it may just be a case that he doesn't know how you feel. Perhaps he notices you don't trust him and it has made him back away a bit, especially if, from his point of ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but having feelings for someone else, what should I do?
Q. ok i don't know where to start but i'll try my best. i met and fell in love with this guy a couple of years back but we were nothing ever more than friends (who sometimes were intimate... but not sex or anything like that). we started at the s...
A. 8 August 2008: It might be that you are just having trouble letting the 1st guy go. What i think you need to do first is work out whether your feelings for the 1st guy are sexual/physical in any way. Also, try to imagine what it would be like going out with him ... (read in full...)
My girlfriends like a lot of sex but I am getting bored, what can I do?
Q. hi... uhm... i have a problem. I have a girlfriend that... realy likes sex, we do it about every other day. And it gets pretty boring... i mean, in, out, in, out, cum. And afterwards i feel like an idiot that only does what my brain says. Ive tried ...
A. 8 August 2008: If you feel that having sex with your girlfriend is just 'in, out, in, out, cum; as you put it, it doesn't really sound like your into this relationship, and probably shouldn't be having sex with her at all. You seem to be thinking of sex as a job, ... (read in full...)
I'm a teen girl, how can I feel better about my body?
Q. okay so this isnt a relationship question but im a 16 year old, im not exactly slim, im a size 14/16 clothes, im a 38D bra, although i am happy with my body, do get attention from boys etc, im not comfortable with my boobs, they arent small, well ...
A. 8 August 2008: One of my ex girlfriends said she didn't like her boobs and that they were slightly saggy. She always worried that she didn't have a nice cleavage, but she brought some support bras that really held her 'rack', as you put it, very nicely. As a guy i ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has been away for a month and a half, I want to masturbate and look at porn. Is that cheating?
Q. My girlfriend has gone away and i miss her loads. We have a very active sex life and she will be away for a month and a half. I have thought about masturbating but i'm not sure if its okay to or not. Also, if i do and i use porn to help, is that ...
A. 7 August 2008: Thanks for the advice. I can understand your points and I must admit that the pictures would be more of something that helps me imaging me doing those things with her. I just need help to actually imagine and visualize it. Thank you all for ... (read in full...)
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