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writes:I was making out with my boyfriend, him lying on top of me between my legs, when he put his hand up my top and started slowly putting his hand further up my top. Does it seem to you like sex is all he is interested in? Or was i leading him on? I pulled his hand out of my top every time but he kept doing it.. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): Honey, I'm sure he wants sex. All guys do. But, you are leading him on too when you let him get between your legs. It's actually pretty cruel to work a guy up and then cut him off cold. Either quit putting your legs around him, or let him have his way with you. As it is, you are just frustrating the h*** out of him, and that will surely kill your relationship.
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reader, Abcdefghij +, writes (10 August 2008):
Well we have been going out for a few years and took things REALLY slowly but now hes speeding things up maybe too fast for me but he always says he loves me.. Is it illeagle for him to put his hands up my top and touch me until i am 16?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe knows what age iam because he met me at school but he has finished school now and im going to be afraid to visit him when hes in uni as we will probably be in his room alone. I have told him no before but he just says "You love it really" and ignores me.. ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): sweetheart, as you are only 15 and he is 18 legally an adult any sexual activity between you two would be illegal over here. you are still in the eyes of the law 'a minor' if he likes you and respects you he will wait til you are old enough and ready to take the next step. until then its no no no. if you were softly moving his hand to say 'no' and he did not take your soft appraoch he perhaps thinks he can try and get you to go further... i very strongly suggest you dont, if you did you need to be careful and use protection... but i am NOT saying it would be ok!
I hope he has enough respect for you to understand any decisions you decide to make
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell im 15 and hes 18 does this mean he will be more interested in doing stuff?
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (9 August 2008):
 Tell him straight up, NO putting your hand up your top and tell him your not ready for sex right now.
He may be a horny teenage boy thinking you are letting him do it but you cant keep your thoughts to yourself, communicate and tell him your boundries. If he cant handle it, screw him
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reader, justaguy999  +, writes (9 August 2008):
 Your boyfriend, if he is the same age as you as i am assuming, is probably extremley horny and his natural instincts are taking over. It might not be that he just wants sex, but maybe just feeling your ore private areas makes him feel horny or more into you. If you don't like it then your best bet is to tell him to stop. Simply moving his hand might not get the message across, but if you tell him no then he should get the message. If he argues or has a go at you, tries to make you feel bad or just keeps doing it, then he is not respecting your wishes and you probably shouldn't be with him. I am fairly sure, however, that he is just acting on his desires and letting his hand slip up your top now and then is one of them. Good luck :)
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