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writes:hi... uhm... i have a problem. I have a girlfriend that... realy likes sex, we do it about every other day. And it gets pretty boring... i mean, in, out, in, out, cum. And afterwards i feel like an idiot that only does what my brain says. Ive tried oralsex a coupple of times but... it doesnt feel special anymore... what can i do? should i stop having sex for awhile? I dont know what to do... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): thanks a lot everyone! Now i feel a lot better^^
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): take a look at this website.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/sexualpositions.shtml
it has alot of diffrent positions so it wont just be in ot in out cum.
but if this doesnt work then maybe u should try not having sex for a while.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2008): My Dear Love, if sex has become such a chore, then you need to find another to share another with. Sex, or (Making love,) is some thing that is memorable for the rest of your life. It is about making a connection with a other person, on a connection that can't be explained. I am a Christian, and hope and pray that your partner is a partner for life, if not, I promist not to pass judgmeht. But I pray you find a partner that honers you for life. Please let me know.
-The Gabberjack!!
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reader, justaguy999  +, writes (8 August 2008):
 If you feel that having sex with your girlfriend is just 'in, out, in, out, cum; as you put it, it doesn't really sound like your into this relationship, and probably shouldn't be having sex with her at all. You seem to be thinking of sex as a job, which it certainly is not. Sex is an experience you should both enjoy and if you are not, it could mean you aren't as emotionally connected to her as you thought you were.Maybe withholding from sex for a while will get your drive going and make you appreciate the special act more. Either way, i hope everything works out for you :)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 August 2008):
 Well, I guess that doing what your brain says is the exact opposite of being an idiot :-). But I think I understand what you mean: sex has become a routine. The first part would be to talk to her and tell her you're not enjoying it this way, and then come to terms on what you will do. If you feel bored, perhaps stopping for a while would be a good idea.
I have to say, however, that your problem is every other man's dream.
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