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writes:okay so this isnt a relationship question but im a 16 year old, im not exactly slim, im a size 14/16 clothes, im a 38D bra, although i am happy with my body, do get attention from boys etc, im not comfortable with my boobs, they arent small, well they arent big, theyre average id say, but as im 16 they rnt gonna get much bigger r they? well the thing is, they kindaa sag. i know its not normal for girls my age to have 'saggy' boobs, and i wunt exactly call them 'saggy' cos theyre not that bad, although i personally dont feel happy with them. i want a nice cleavage.. i eventually would like a boob job but as im not old enough to get one and not fully fully developed yet, i will wait, but how can i get a nice shaped 'rack' as a male friend of mine says lol. i just want a nice cleavage how can i get this?
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reader, iGirly  +, writes (9 August 2008):
 If you want to be comfortable, a confident sweet bubbly girl is an attractive girl. Don't have such a huge hangup on your breasts. If that isn't your best asset highlight the BEST ones.
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (8 August 2008):
 The best way to get a great cleavage is to get a great bra.
The reason why your boobs are sagging is becase your bra is not fitting you right. Go to a store where they sell good bras (I recommend Victoria Secret, but there are many other places) and ask them for a bra fitting. 80% of women out there are wearing their wrong bra size and you may be one of them. Once you know your true bra size, buy a good fitting bra and please DON'T CARE OF THE COST! The bra will pay off eventually when you see how good it fits and how good your boobs will look like.
And oh, just so you know, average size for women it's 34C, so you're way above average in the boob area.
Please listen to justaguy999's male's perspective of your situation. It's great advise on how to look your body and how others persieve it. And by the way, the great guy for you will love your body because it's YOURS and not because it looks awesome or big.
Good luck
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reader, justaguy999 +, writes (8 August 2008):
 One of my ex girlfriends said she didn't like her boobs and that they were slightly saggy. She always worried that she didn't have a nice cleavage, but she brought some support bras that really held her 'rack', as you put it, very nicely. As a guy i can say there is something mighty pleasurable about a nice cleavage, but it isn't something you should let rule your life. You might be surprised to know that not all guys like enormous breasts. I know plenty of my mates who like smaller breasted women, and most are indifferent to breast size. And beleive me, many guys prefer real breasts to fake ones, so you should consider getting a boob job very carefully.
I hope my advice has been of some use, if any, but i hope you come to a decision that lets you feel better about your body, although i am sure you have no reason to feel bad in the first place. :)
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