I don't want to go through a break up, but ...
Q. I'm getting kind of bored with my bf of more than four years. We really don't have anything in common and it's so hard for me to find something to say to him or have a conversation with him. So I keep to myself and it's making me resent him a ...
A. 26 April 2014: Okay. I know going through a break up is very difficult, but it might make you happier in the long run. You shouldn't stay with someone who isn't interested and isn't making you happy because you are scared it will hurt.
You really need to talk ... (read in full...)
Does he like me as more than a friend?
Q. Does he like me more than a fren? Well, i did make the first move already. I invited him to go with me to movies and even go have a dinner in a hotel... Of course, i invited but then he paid for it.. We actually talked a whole lot, he shared his ...
A. 12 April 2011: I am in exactly the same position. I'd been round his and second time it was just us. It had been me that suggested going there. Then we had convo about how much we liked eachother he tld me he liked me so much and I always make him feel better. ... (read in full...)
What's the best way to tell him "I love you"?
Q. hey ive been with my partner for about a year unoffically and about 5 months offically and i think im ready now to tell him that i love him but we havent said it to each other before... we have both said it in a jokey way or said it and then real...
A. 8 September 2008: just say it. when you feel the moments right just say it.... (read in full...)
Cheating boyfriend drama! Should I attempt to trust him or take him back?
Q. Hello all. CHEATING BF DRAMA I have the same story of so many young ladies. My bf cheated and it hurt. We have been together for 3 years now. Our first year together, we were college freshmen. He transferred from his school to m...
A. 8 September 2008: god this really is chaos. you should just tell this girl that if your boyfriend really is as bad as she is saying why doesnt she just leave him alone. you should also say to your boyfriend that with her around it is all getting too much and if she ... (read in full...)
Why do you think young teens have sex? Shouldn't you wait for the right person?
Q. I cannot understand why people have sex at such a young age. There're many posts on dearcupid coming from 13-15 year olds saying "I want to have sex with my boyfriend" or "Could I be pregnant?". What's the rush??? I'm 16 and haven't even had a ...
A. 13 June 2008: maby they feel like they want to. what is the point in not waiting if it is pleasurable and the want is there?... (read in full...)
Should I ask my msn friend out?
Q. im 15 years old im incredibly shy and i really like this girl.i met her through myspace and ive metup with only once im not sure how she feels about me though.we talk alot on msn and text alot too.how can i tell if she likes me?and should i ask her...
A. 6 June 2008: Fair enuf if you are a shy person the you may not wanna ask her but surely if she does like you and you do end up going out what are you going to be like when you come to kiss her.
my advice to you is just ask her. im sure she probalbly does lik... (read in full...)
I would love to have another try, but every time he has embarrassed me by dumping me one day later!
Q. Basically, i really like this guy and have had a very on off relasionship with him. we have "gone out" a few times but it has only ever lasted a day or two befor he dumps me. Whenever that happens before we "go out" we are flirting loads and both...
A. 6 June 2008: heres what happened.
i wailted a bit, and thn we got together while he was on holiday, it really seemed like he had changed. he once even went as far as to say that he loved me. and then... we got to school and guess what happend! he ditched ... (read in full...)
How do I make my boobs bigger, and will that attract a boyfriend?
Q. I have tiny boobs and i have no boyfriend, how do i make my boobs bigger, and will that attract a boyfriend?...
A. 22 May 2008: you are still pretty young. you will grow. trust me when i was your age i was the same. i really wanted a boyfriend and i really wanted bigger boobs because i thought that would get me one. i know that this advice is probably annoying but 1) if a ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend broke up with me cause she said I might be a distraction to her studies. I need help.
Q. My girlfriend left for college about 4 months ago. We have been having a great relationship. Even after she left we still talked everyday. Then after about 1 month, she told me she was confused bout her feelings and wanted a break. She even fell for ...
A. 22 May 2008: i could be completely wrong but from what it sounds like i think there may another guy who she likes a lot but doesn't have the courage to tell you. it seems to me that the distraction thing is just an excuse. be careful because she is obviousely ... (read in full...)
I can't stop crying my heart out. All I hear are my own words, my own visions of hell. Please help.
Q. Dear ones, I can't take it anymore, this situation, I can't stop crying my heart out. I know everyone have problems I agree, and most of them maybe are most difficult than mine, but I truly can't take it anymore. I have boyfriend 3 years I lov...
A. 22 May 2008: i don't know your boyfriend so i don't know how he would react but if you love him and he loves you, try explaining your feeling to him. if he see's that you are really upset then i am sur he would listen.
Another piece of maby unhelpful advice i... (read in full...)
What should I say to my ex girlfreind?
Q. My girlfriend has dumped me and it's because of my ex. She is going out with my friend, well ex friend now, and she split us up by spreading rumours. I threatened to kill her boyfreind. What should I say to my ex girlfreind?...
A. 22 May 2008: Threataning to kill her boyfriend definately wasn't a good move. this probabley encouraged her even more. try to not let it show that she is getting to you. if you retaliate it is giving her exactly what she wants. maby try sayin somthing nice i ... (read in full...)
My daughter's friend keeps showing up at my office for help, seems like she developed a crush for me! How should I handle this?
Q. Hey, I'm having a problem with one of my daughter's friends and I'm unsure of what to do about it... so any advice is much appreciated. I work at my kid's school as I.T. support staff and one of my 13-year-old daughter's friends keeps showing up...
A. 22 May 2008: I can see your problem.
If i was you i would talk to her iwhen another adult is in the room with you. Preferably a woman but it doesnt really matter. But you do need to be carful. She might just get really embarresed and back off or she could ac... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity?
Q. i am 14 along with my boyfriend of 4 weeks. My boyfriend is not a virgin and lost it with a girlfriend of 5 months. i know that he had it very young and i have told him that i dont really mind. (he was worried that i would) i am still a virgin and i ...
A. 9 January 2008: thanks guys. i will definatley take your advice!!!! i really wasnt sure but as 4 of you have said pretty much the same thing i now know that i will regret it later!! i din't think i believe in waiting for marriage until sex but i will definately ... (read in full...)
What should I say to him when I see him?
Q. My ex split up with me out of the blue. Everything was fine. All went wrong from am-pm the same day. I sent an e-mail about him cancelling plans with me (the first time in 7 months)which he told me has made him feel he doesn't treat me like he ...
A. 8 January 2008: just ask him!!!!!!!
tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels.if he says he isnt sure try just kissing him. then see what he does and act accordingly. i know that might be difficult but try to do it!!!! try and be as open as possible... (read in full...)
I like him, he likes me, what can I do to make him come around and date me?
Q. Basically, i really like this guy and have liked him for ages im 14 and so is he and we are in the same form. we did start seein eachother but he dumped me after a day. now he knows i like him still and he has said that he still likes me. my friends ...
A. 15 November 2007: here what happened. the right moment came when we were alone in da form room. BUT...he asked me wether i wanted get off with him at da weekend. wierd i know. i was taken by suprise and just kinda mumbled summit. and he went bright red. den i said, ... (read in full...)
I like him, he likes me, what can I do to make him come around and date me?
Q. Basically, i really like this guy and have liked him for ages im 14 and so is he and we are in the same form. we did start seein eachother but he dumped me after a day. now he knows i like him still and he has said that he still likes me. my friends ...
A. 11 November 2007: Thanks that is really great advice. I will definatly try it but what is the best way to ask if he wants to see a movie or somthing??... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is 15 and I'm 12. his mum found out and went mad!!! I think I'm going to lose him what can I do?
Q. I have a boyfriend who i really really like and hes 15 and i'm only 12. He is my first real boyfriend and i met him at school. We go on the same school bus and that is how it started. We got to talking and then after a few days we kissed. The school ...
A. 11 November 2007: hey. i am not going to tell you that you should try and forget him because i know that is realy hard. you say that you think you are goin to lose him but if he still wants to carry on seeing you he probably will. you cant change how he feels and i ... (read in full...)
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