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*ules22
writes:Basically, i really like this guy and have had a very on off relasionship with him. we have "gone out" a few times but it has only ever lasted a day or two befor he dumps me. Whenever that happens before we "go out" we are flirting loads and both know that the other likes the other and then when we "go out" the other lads tease him and he dumps me. everyone tells me that he is a dickhead and i know that he is quite immature. he is the typical teenaged boy and asks me stupid things like "Do you feel yourself" and stuff on that subject. he also often tries to feel my boobs. i don't really mind because i really fancy him. i know he is an idiot but i really can't help having a huge soft spot for him. He isn't really the coolest kid around and although in with the crowd, he isn't really one of the ring leaders. anyway! my big problem is that the whole year are going on a school trip together tomorrow and he told me today that he fancies me. I am pretty certain he is gonna try it on tomorrow and although i would love to have another try. EVERY other time he has embarresed me by dumping me one day later. I really dunno what to do!!!! PLEASE HELP
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): So Sorry. Stay away from this guy now. It's not fair that he keeps hurting you and embarrasing you. You'll get over him, don't let him keep on playing games with your emotions.
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reader, Jules22 +, writes (6 June 2008):
Jules22 is verified as being by the original poster of the question heres what happened.
i wailted a bit, and thn we got together while he was on holiday, it really seemed like he had changed. he once even went as far as to say that he loved me. and then... we got to school and guess what happend! he ditched me!
NOB!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): He's very young and so are you. It sounds like he really likes you but is too young to get serious with you. He's ashamed to be your boyfriend, because everyone else is single and out having the fun that's appropriate for their age.
I believe he wants to be with you, but then again he wants to be with his friends. Having a girlfriend is a drag and a burden when you just want to hang out with the guys.
I know you like him, but you have to let this one go. He likes you, but he's not interested in having a relationship with you or being your boyfriend. For this I think he's very sensible. You need to stop thinking about boyfriends as well and find something more interesting to do with your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): He's very young and so are you. It sounds like he really likes you but is too young to get serious with you. He's ashamed to be your boyfriend, because everyone else is single and out having the fun that's appropriate for their age.
I believe he wants to be with you, but then again he wants to be with his friends. Having a girlfriend is a drag and a burden when you just want to hang out with the guys.
I know you like him, but you have to let this one go. He likes you, but he's not interested in having a relationship with you or being your boyfriend. For this I think he's very sensible. You need to stop thinking about boyfriends as well and find something more interesting to do with your time.
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reader, kirsty_123us +, writes (22 May 2008):
hello
sorry your feeling so let down
the guy you are describing sounds very immature and seems he just wants fun if you know what i mean.
you are young too i believe you fall in love at any age but please be carefull, people can be very nesty infront of there friends and you shouldnt take it!
you should maybe make him wait a little longer and see if hes serious this time before you jump in
:)
hope this helps
good luck
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