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writes:My ex split up with me out of the blue. Everything was fine. All went wrong from am-pm the same day. I sent an e-mail about him cancelling plans with me (the first time in 7 months)which he told me has made him feel he doesn't treat me like he feels he should and that I deserve better. We had the best time together so don't understand where it has come from. Apart from his friend who he always goes out with has just split from his gf....they are 28 and 29 though, thought would have grown out of it by now. I'm meeting him tonight but don't know what to say. Have gone over it 1000 times in my head. Just want the truth as all he said was how much he likes me, cares about me, loves spending time with me etc etc. Deep down I think it is not what he wants but how do I get him to open up. I really don't want to lose him. I saw him in a bar at the weekend, first time since we split, and I found it so hard. He was cuddling me saying how nice it was to see me. All I wanted to do was kiss him.
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reader, Jules22 +, writes (8 January 2008):
 just ask him!!!!!!!
tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels.if he says he isnt sure try just kissing him. then see what he does and act accordingly. i know that might be difficult but try to do it!!!! try and be as open as possible.
i know i am younger that you (14) but i still think that you shud do that.
Keep me informed on how it goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): I am sorry to say this, but you cannot make someone love you, as painful as it sounds.
Next time you see him, walk up to him and say "who's the other girl then?". This will embarrass him into telling you what the hell is going on.
Good Luck, love comes when it does
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