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Is what I'm doing normal?

Q.   hey i'm 15 and i'd like to know if what i'm doing is normal. I work in a dojo/school with my sensei/teacher to help pay off lesson costs. And because my school messed up my time table i'm going to work there in some of my free periods(which i ...

A.   13 August 2010: tell him the truth. he'll understand and let you. ... (read in full...)

Love or Fantasy

Q.   Hi there guys I just got back off an amazing holiday where i met this american girl that i now cant get over. Basically at first we sort of talked a bit and i thought she was really pretty and found out she was easy and fun to talk to. We were...

A.   9 August 2010: man, what girl doesnt like a guy with a British accent xD my opinion on this is that you should at least try when you see her again but if that dude is around her a lot then that might be your competition. long distance relationships arent that... (read in full...)

Why is she so nervous around me.?

Q.   There's this girl I like in school who is very nervous when we happen to be alone together. When I talk to her she smiles, she doesn't say much and her voice changes.It's a lot softer and more reserved than when she talks to other people. She laughs ...

A.   9 August 2010: she totally likes you. the only problem is her shyness. i suggest you get to know her or hang out with her a little more so she can get use to your presence. ah innocent love, it's just too cute. ... (read in full...)

One mistake

Q.   i am trapped by my own mistake.my best friend's boyfriend approached me to do sex.he is really handsome and i have heard my friend mourning through doors.i always fantasize them.when he approached i was thrilled to get that same exp. i first denied ...

A.   9 August 2010: i suggest you move away. i dont know what else you can do other than telling a cop or something.... (read in full...)

A little Facebook situation

Q.   Hey everyone, im having a little problem. Well, just yesterday, my gf's family had a bbq and she had to help set up, i was fine with it and we said our goodbyes. That was around around 1 in the afternoon. Long story short, i havent heard from her ...

A.   8 August 2010: girls who let guys in their room when they have a boyfriend are up to something. i suggest you talk to her face to face and see whats going on cuz thats not a good sign... (read in full...)

I'm 14, but my bf is 25, is it legal/wrong? Should I break up with him?

Q.   [OP original title] I'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 25. I really liked him before we were going out and he liked me too, he even dumped his girlfriend because he says he can't be with her when he loves me. I love him too but I'm soo scared abou...

A.   8 August 2010: it's really really illegal. well, in america i dont know about where you live but it's usually not normal. and i suggest you wait to have sex at 18 because then you'll know what your doing and you wont have hormones blasting out your rear end. ... (read in full...)

How does she know you're "The One?"

Q.   [OP original title] How does your girlfriend decide you are the one she wants to marry?What factors does she base it on.What makes you marriage material for a woman?What makes her want to spend forever with you? Would be interesting to know from the ...

A.   8 August 2010: there are a lot of factors to being "the one" for a woman. and for each woman it's different. it all depends on what the person is attracted to like for instance: the bad boy type, the nerdy type, the good personality type. so you cant really pin ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure if I'm gay or straight?

Q.   I am a 13 year old boy and i find guys attractive. but i dont want to. i want to be straight. though i cant figure out whether im gay or straight because one day i feel like im gay. then another i feel straight and then like im thinking am i bi? ): ...

A.   8 August 2010: it could be a stage. a lot of people have a stage like that. the question lies with whether or not you can see yourself doing it with a guy. being bi isnt as bad as you think. many girls like the thought i dudes making out and stuff. you live in a... (read in full...)

Will sex be awkward for me?

Q.   I'm 14, and have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. We are very close, he knows everything about me, and we even talk about things that I'd usually talk to my girlfriends about. Sometimes we have our moments where we talk about...sex... ...

A.   8 August 2010: at your age sex should not be done only because you dont know your body as well as you think you do. i'm not trying to act like those old ladies telling younger people not to do it but from experience sex is not something you should do without ... (read in full...)

I think my relationship to my boyfriends mother is ruined?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months. His mother is really strict (she's indian...I'm white..soo..) but she finally accepted that we were together. She actually would talk to me and liked me. Then today, we were in the guest room ...

A.   8 August 2010: man, so close and yet so far now. :( well at least your not the only one she's focusing her anger at. indian women are very strict in ways of relationships. have you tried learning some of their culture? try their dance, it's really awesome ... (read in full...)

I want so much to have sex with b/f but there now a mental block and its just too painful!

Q.   Hi everyone, I want to ask you about a very sensitive topic for me. I've been with my boyfriend for many years now and we've never really had a sexlife. For the first two years we were together, we constantly tried to have sex, but it was alwa...

A.   8 August 2010: like the person who said before me, warm yourself up to it. maybe use a blindfold so you dont know when he'll enter you. or try sex toys. start with smaller ones and work your way up so you can do it with him. from what you tell me, "thick layer of ... (read in full...)

I resent my boyfriend for not being ready to start a family with me!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years living together for 2, he has a child from a previous relationship. I had an unplanned pregnancy 2 years ago which resulted in an early miscarriage, since then I have been desperate to have a baby, and have ...

A.   8 August 2010: this is your body telling you you need a baby. it's hormonal and a stage. your bf is thinking logically for you. you two arent married yet and he knows what it's like to have a kid. but if this gets worse to the point where your sabotaging cond... (read in full...)

What is going on in her head?

Q.   Theres this one girl... We have been talking for about 10 months now. Shes was in a relationship when we first started talking... I didnt care, although it came to bite me in the ass later. 4 months into that "friendship" we had.. we spent alot of ...

A.   8 August 2010: she's prolly really confused as to what to do with herself and her body. maybe her boyfriend isnt filling her enough sexually. i suggest you stop with the sexual stuff and go back to friends cuz thats only going to hurt you. it will especially be a ... (read in full...)

Is there a way I can make myself taller?

Q.   Hello. I'm Emily. My height is 153cm or 5'1 and I weigh 40 kilograms. In a few months I'll be 18. I have always worried about my height. I have heard that we stop growing taller at 18. Is it so? If no, then what should I do to get taller? ...

A.   8 August 2010: 18 is your last growth spurt from what i hear. drink lots of milk and eat lots of healthy food if your worried. there is no affective way of getting taller but usually if you dont drink as much caffine then you will be taller than average. unless ... (read in full...)

How can I do this without going behind my parents' backs?

Q.   ok I'm a 14 year old girl and just like every other teen we all fall in love eventually right? well me and my boy friend started dating close to 6 months ago, but the thing is that I'm not allowed to have a bf till I'm 15. when we first started ...

A.   8 August 2010: it is somewhat common for parents in america (and i guess in other places too) to have a set plan for their daughters. there are two real good reasons parents do that- 1: they dont want their daughter to end up doing things at an inappropriate age. ... (read in full...)

How do I avoid conflict and enjoy the trip?

Q.   when I started middle school I was bullied by my "friends" because I didn't want to follow people and wanted to be myself. Since starting high school I haven't been in any of their classes and it's been better as we haven't had much contact so ...

A.   8 August 2010: be yourself in every way possible. show them that you love the way you are, who you are, and who you will become b/c you didnt listen to the crowd like they did. everyone has something like this happening to them in their lives and it's hard to get ... (read in full...)

Unworthy of love...???

Q.   So I know it might be common here, but even despite the similar situation I feel lost. Well it appears I am almost 21 and I have never been in a relationship, even worse I've never been kissed. I've come into terms that I am gay and all. I've even ...

A.   8 August 2010: first thing you should do is be positive and accept every little thing about yourself. many people who think that there is something wrong with them dont last long in relationships. if your a trust worthy person and good at heart than you've uped a ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's friends laughed at me and my boyfriend doesn't care

Q.   hi everyone i have 15 years old and i am dating a boy who has 19 years old. i'm still in middle school but he is going to the university. i have some problems with him. he say that he loves me and all that stuff but i don't really believe him beca...

A.   8 August 2010: i suggest you get over that dude and move on. your still living your life to the fullest, making mistakes as you go along and finding out new things you've never known. older guys dont usually date girls your age, especially when they could be doing ... (read in full...)

Should I keep talking to her even although there's an age gap?

Q.   On a recent holiday I saw this girl who I thought looked nice, she soon then spoke to me shortly after I saw her. We got on really well and I arranged to meet her the following day. My initial thoughts of her age lead me to believe she was about 17 ...

A.   8 August 2010: right now i dont think it would be a good to date a 15 year old girl when your 18. although it will not matter much when you two are in your twenties. right now would be too soon and could possibly lead you into trouble. so dont make rash decisions ... (read in full...)

Terrible University experience...

Q.   I am having a terrible university experience! All the people i know that go to university are having a great time and love it. I find myself very lonely and sometimes not enjoying what im taking either. I'm a music student and though i love music, ...

A.   8 August 2010: dont be shy, get out there and talk to people who have the same interests that you do. sometimes changing environments do help you to let loose (even for a little bit). try to take as many clubs and other such things as you can. ... (read in full...)

We got drunk wound up together and now he won't talk to me!

Q.   MOD NOTE: Poster 14, not 24. Hi, i'm a 14 year old boy and i'm having trouble because recently at a party, me and my best guy mate got drunk and i confessed to him that i loved him. we ended up having sex. but when we woke up the next morning,...

A.   7 August 2010: aw you poor soul. best thing to do is let him calm down a bit. tons of time is needed! guys like him are senstive to these types of things. try saying hi every once in awhile to him to see if he'll talk back. and if he's still not talking to you ... (read in full...)

I'm really, really scared and I don't know what to do?

Q.   Umm I've been talking to this guy online on off for about 2 years, no relationship or flirting or anything, well there is but it's one sided from him. Anyway, he's really "strange" in that one minute he's nice and the next if you don't give him a...

A.   7 August 2010: you need to tell your parents or someone that can help you. the cops for example would be nice.cyber bullying and any like that he just sent you is against the law and they can track him. i suggest if he knows where you live to never go alone ... (read in full...)

What can I wear that will make her think sex?

Q.   Ladies, what can a guy do physically or wear to get his wife or girl/friend sexually excited. The reverse is so easy to figure out. A girl can wear longerie, nothing at all, or my fav: sexy panties and a tight wife beater. But what can a guy wear ...

A.   6 August 2010: find out what your woman likes. fetishes or the smell of something certain. every woman has their quirks. sometimes the really fresh i just got out of the shower smell works.... (read in full...)

Women desire to fondle testicles?

Q.   How do girls feel about men's balls? Do women find the sexually exciting? Disgusting? Or, do they not factor at all? My last girlfriend was alwYs playing with them, and once I started shaving them ( at her request) would often take them in her ...

A.   6 August 2010: this might sound really immature but i find them halrious. when i see them i laugh. my poor bf. but if the girl is ok with bj then i dont see a differance in helping you out in that area too. hey, it's just another part of your goods. ... (read in full...)

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