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writes:Umm I've been talking to this guy online on off for about 2 years, no relationship or flirting or anything, well there is but it's one sided from him.Anyway, he's really "strange" in that one minute he's nice and the next if you don't give him attention he is hostile.Anyhow, the other night i was showing him drawings I'd done and accidently clicked the wrong picture via msn, which was a picture of the sunset from my back window he then started saying "I know where that is, i'm coming to get you, are you scared?" Then tonight he randomly starts cussing at me and then said this... (I'll put "swear" whenever he's swearing.) I closed the window before this part of the conversation but he started calling me vulgar names and said i would be in for a shock :(HIM says:*who the SWEAR said i as trying to be funny or creepy*all i know is ur in for a big shock*keep tryin got be clever and u will just make it worst for urselfME says:*see what are you talking about?*you say that*but dont tell me why*why dont you tell me?*since you knowHIM says:*you really wanna knowME says:*yeah*kind of since it involves me? :SHIM says:*you really wanna SWEAR know whats goin to happen?!?ME says:*yeah...HIM says:*well u will SWEAR find out soon*i promiseME says:*are you going to kill me?HIM says:*?*no*..*why the SWEAR would i risk life in prison*but ur goin to wish u was dead *trust meME says:*i was kidding..*why? :SHIM says:*i told u*u will find outME says:*but i asked you*and you wont tell meHIM says:*obviously?ME says:*why is it obviously?*why do you suddenly hate me? HIM says:*you SWEAR know why and you will get whats coming to youME says:*what the hell?HIM says:*you think this is a SWEAR game*you think this is a SWEAR joke*lets see whos laughing in a weekThis is COMPLETELY random, he was nice earlier so I don't know what the hell is going on but I'm REALLY scared because of a certain website on the internet full of people who can trace you and such (I won't say it's name) but he knows about it and I'm so scared. Is he talking nonsense? what should I do? :'(I'm also not sure if I should block him? that could make it worse I don't know :(Please please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): Hey, Question poster here!
1. Yes, he is older than me, I am 16, almost 17, he is 21-ish? D:
Also, my parents don't know I use msn and such because I know they would freak out for exactly this reason, I can't tell them because this would only make it worse for them.
I've began to realise a few things
By the way he speaks and from other conversations, it's becoming clear that he isn't smart enough to do anything to me.
He knows the country I live in, but not whereabouts, he lives in another country down the very bottom, he lives about 11 hours car drive away. (UK)
He doesn't know my second name, my address, any telephone numbers, my Facebook, my school or ANYTHING like that, just my msn and my name on the online game I met him on (which he doesn't play anymore) I also changed my name on it.
If he was going to use said website to trace me, it's unlikely to work as they only target people that are popular on the internet and have possibly posted revealing pictures and are annoying/attention seeking, I'm neither of these 3 and a picture of a landscape wont particularly convince anyone to trace me as i'm a nobody when talking about the internet and the amount of easier targets I suppose :)It also makes no sense that it would be a week before anything happened, anything related to this site would happen immediately.
He also threatened me before by saying he could hack into my computer and he was going too break my computer, he clearly can't so yeah.. :P
I'm not gonna worry about it, he's just a really nasty person with no life, He's blocked AND deleted, it was stupid of me to continue talking to him based on his "good" side. I've definitely learned my lesson, thanks for all the help and reassurance, especially you Reginal 12 xD xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): Okay, so now you know there are psychos out there roaming the internet. You need to stop talking to this guy and block him! Tell your parents what's going on, especially if he knows what you look like, where you live, or where you go to school. I don't know if the police can do anything at this point, but your parents will. I would hope he was just trying to scare you, but you need to take this seriously, just in case.
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reader, jrunlucky  +, writes (7 August 2010):
 you need to tell your parents or someone that can help you. the cops for example would be nice.cyber bullying and any like that he just sent you is against the law and they can track him. i suggest if he knows where you live to never go alone anywhere out of your house and get a good alarm system.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): first of all i just have to mention that you shouldnt have carried on talking to him AT ALL!!! the first thing you need to do is tell a close relative or a friend that you can trust and show them the messages just so someone else knows... and if you have only been talking online and hopefully not given anydetails about where you live or anything then block and when it askes why put him as a abuse user....do not talk to this person ever again!!!!
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reader, Regina12 +, writes (7 August 2010):
Wow, this guy sounds like a real creep! :lhonestly though, Theres no reason to be scared of him.. I know it's natural to be scared if someone says all this crap to you but, I gotta ask, is he older than you? The same exact thing happened to me a while back. I'm only 16 myself and I met this guy online who claimed to be 23, he was so lovely at first, I thought it was amazing how I could have someone to talk to and he understood me but then he started asking for pictures of me in my underwear and ect. I kept firmly telling him that I didn't feel comfortable in doing that and he clearly just said "okay no worries" at first but then he started asking me again and I again, I said no and it all started to get really horrible.. He started saying things exactly like that guy said to you, saying that he was going to find me and hurt me, he said that he was goin to come in the next week and that he knew whereabouts I lived.. It scared the hell outta me, every night I sat there scared to death because I thought he was at my house, I blocked him and 2 month later, surprisingly he didn't find me haha :') he's just saying all this stuff too scare you! Probably to get some kinda thrill in his sad life :L honestly, i'd block or delete him.. You don't need some guy you met on the Internet, don't let him worry you, there's no way he can know where you live!! Ecspecially not from just a picture! There's no need to worrysorry for this being long :D xx
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