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writes:Ladies, what can a guy do physically or wear to get his wife or girl/friend sexually excited. The reverse is so easy to figure out. A girl can wear longerie, nothing at all, or my fav: sexy panties and a tight wife beater. But what can a guy wear to spark that same sort of immediate sexual response from his girl?
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reader, jrunlucky +, writes (6 August 2010):
 find out what your woman likes. fetishes or the smell of something certain. every woman has their quirks. sometimes the really fresh i just got out of the shower smell works.
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reader, Anonny  +, writes (6 August 2010):
What a man wears doesn't really bother me and certainly wouldn't turn me on or off to him - unless he was wearing something absolutely hideous!
Mind you - having said that - I always like to see a man in a hat or cap!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): Hi,
I find that 2 things work in my experience
1) A DJ (Tux if you are from the USA!) and a Formal Shirt..doesnt matter on yr body shape as long as the DJ
2) A pair of shorts/boxers/towel if you have a good physic..women love this!!
I agree that you have to smell good..doesnt mean loads of aftershave...many women like a guy to smell " Like a man" ..whatever that means..lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): A tight white t-shirt and dark, well fitting jeans that show off your ass.
A collared long sleeve shirt with the sleeves rolled up and nice dress pants- even better if I can kind of make out the outline of your package through the fabric.
Basically anything that shows off biceps, pecs, the ass, or the abs if you've got them.
Of course wearing nothing but some tight boxer-briefs (preferably grey or black) is guaranteed to get me excited.
It's different for every girl though. I like men in uniform of course... who doesn't. I think that's a universal visual cue.
There's loads of things you can do to get your girl visually aroused. Ask her what she likes... ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): I agree with the other women and their answers. One word of advice, smell good. Not in the over cologned way, but as in clean, nice smelling after shave.. That is a huge turn on, and just look nice, but comment most on how beautiful she looks.
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reader, Odds +, writes (6 August 2010):
 Try smells instead. Some women really dig the scent of their man after he works out, or mows the lawn; others love the scent of sparingly-applied aftershave or cologne. I knew one girl who loved the way my breath smelled after a glass of whiskey. Experiment! Find out what smells she likes, and take advantage of them at every opportunity.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (6 August 2010):
My girlfriend isn't so bothered by what I wear. She's more interested in what I say and do. So I'm guessing your girlfriend will be turned on more you doing something she likes, or saying something she likes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): Funny thing. My girlfriend just told me the other day that she finds it really exciting - to the point that she gets very wet - if I act real sweet, primarily with words. I'll call her pretty names and what not, that I love only her and that I want to take good care of her forever. This sort of stuff really gets her going. For me, of course, being a man, she just needs to put on something sexy (or nothing at all), and that gets me fired up... telling her that she's really sexy when she wears your favorite outfit is also likely to heat her up.
So basically you need to heat her up with words and emotions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): Cricket whites. Classy and sporty.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): Collared shirt with sleeves rolled up is my favourite, with some good fitting trousers. But for me it's the shirt sleeves. It helps that I'm engaged to a dr. But, looking at the replies here, I guess it goes to show that there isn't a single answer to your question, it all depends on the girl.
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reader, angelxxx +, writes (6 August 2010):
definatley a suit!
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (6 August 2010):
There is no easy answer for me.
I just like it when a guy looks like he feels good in his own skin. Simple things like good fitting jeans, a hugging turtleneck plus a beat up leather jacket can make me drool.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): Girls don't really get that visual spark in the same way we guys do.
Of course a naked aroused man is appealing and sexually exciting but I find women are more sexually excited by emotion.
I mean there is no such thing as lingerie for men, is there? We don't have any male version for lingerie because women aren't really wired that way. Of course you could always try role play costumes, like fireman, policeman etc. but again these illicit emotional responses to authority and dominance. Any kind of clothing that shows masculine strength seems to work.
Nothing is more visually appealing to my girlfriend than a sexy smile or a look of 'I want you and I'm gonna take you right now' in my eyes. She is far more excited by by my touch and what I say than anything I can do visually though.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (6 August 2010):
 What makes my tick is im loading the dishwasher and my husband walks past me with nothing on, on his way to the shower, and all of a sudden im feeling rather dirty need to go get clean. Thats if u dont do it often. Another one is if he's wandering around in the house in just a towel bc he's on a mission to find something. For most girls, its the shirt off thing, so she can admire those muscles, or in nothing but boxers, bc theyre just so darn cute...for girls sometimes its just that but other times its like u gotta make a move in order for us to know ok thats what he wants. Lil kissing of the neck etc..you get the point
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): We're not as visual as men. Its not what we see, its what we hear! STart talking about wanting to take care of her, loving her, her being the most beautiful girl in the world, you only have eyes for her because she is so stunning....then help out with things around the house and do the extra little things (make her a coffee without her asking, or cover her up when she is lying on the couch, etc)...before you know it she will want you madly.
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