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... Send *ohnnyboy03 a private message | | | *ohnnyboy03's profile:I recently turned 26. I love to help people. I've always been told that I am very perceptive. I try to always be unbiased with people that want an honest answer. I try to give them my full attention, and look at things from all angles. I realize some people are also just looking for comfort, or don't really want your honest opinion, and to those, I always just try to listen. I realize I don't know everything, and I make mistakes.
I live on the west coast. I'm single, and I actually enjoy being single. I prefer friendships to relationships unless I really feel like there is something there. I hate leading women on, and it always makes me feel guilty.
I love to work out. I enjoy MMA and martial arts, along with weights. I also love to read. I love history, and fantasy. I eventually want to write my own books. I love my family and friends, and enjoy spending time with them, and that is pretty much everything I can think of! |
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Am I right to tell my wife to drop this stupid idea?
Q. I have a situation which could have serious ramifications for other people, not just my wife and I. My wife and I are married for 7 years now, have 2 great kids, and are timing out having a 3rd child. The issue is, when I was younger (18-19),...
A. 28 March 2009: Just because some of them had advice you don't agree with or didn't want to hear doesn't mean they should re-think it. If you only wanted people to agree with you, then you should have stated as much. What you do is, obviously, your own deci... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a co-worker who has a "player" reputation, does he just want fun??
Q. Some thoughts or advice would be great. I have fancied this guy for some time (coming up 2 years), we work in the same building, different departments ,we always chat but he has a bit of a reputation for being a bit of a player, which I never re...
A. 20 March 2009: Two options, Either go along with it and just have the benefits side of it. A sexual fling if you will, or tell him you aren't interested in that type of a relationship. There is no secret strategy to make him your boyfriend. He isn't interested ... (read in full...)
I came on too strong and freaked a guy out..Help?
Q. I recently got a car and am now able to get around town a lot easier and do things my own way for once in my life. Well, I've been single for just under four months now after a two-year relationship that wasn't very good for my mental stability but ...
A. 20 March 2009: Four months isn't that long to be single. You will meet someone else. As for this current guy, just move on. First impressions matter. You don't get over them. Just like if your first impression of the guy was clingy/unstable or whatever you ... (read in full...)
Do I hope the girl that I knew comes back?
Q. My Gf and I had been going out for over two years and everything was great, we did everything together. Shortly before our second anniversary her friends all went single all at the same time and it began to put a lot of stress on our relationship ...
A. 20 March 2009: To be honest, it sounds like you were being a bit too jealous of her spending time with her friends. If you wanted to give her all the happiness in the world you should have encouraged her to hang out with her friends, and also went with her. Like ... (read in full...)
She's emotionally taking advantage of me
Q. OK, i love my girlfriend. but i have an ongoing source of frustration. background: we've been dating for 2 years, she moved to my state to be with me, we talk about marriage maybe next year....issue: if i express a need, it becomes a "complex" for ...
A. 16 March 2009: Complex, complex situation. This is no fun. I feel for you a ton. I actually had a similar situation. It was all give. She had issues, and even if they were uncomfortable, we worked through them together, meanwhile I had to keep my mouth shut about ... (read in full...)
Break up for school and having feelings for someone else.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now and it's been a good relationship but the problem is he wants to break-up because school is coming up and he wants to focus on it so he wants to have a break till his school is finished which is ...
A. 16 March 2009: Just tell him if he breaks up with you, then you won't be coming back to him. That you aren't going to sit around and wait for him, and you will see other people.
If he agrees to that, then you have your answer. Go date the other guy. It's not... (read in full...)
I seriously have no idea what my heart wants
Q. I seriously have no idea what my heart wants. Its confusing for me. I know this guy who i'm currently really close with. Or maybe, I was really close to him. He's my senior in school and is one year older then i am. He asked me to be his sworn sist...
A. 16 March 2009: I'm afraid nobody can tell you what to do. You have to make up your mind first. :) Just take your life one step at a time. I wouldn't try to force any feelings, you are still young.... (read in full...)
What is he thinking? What should I do?
Q. Ok so I am new to this site but I love the idea of it, I would love to do something like this for people my own age but professionally. Anyway I have a pretty confusing question... I am a woman who tends to cling to men and love too easily, ...
A. 15 March 2009: I think, if nothing else, he is interested in your friendship. Using you for company is kind of a strong word, since, in a way, we could all say we use each other for company.
You really haven't given much to go on. I'm sure he has given some hin... (read in full...)
What he's done has just shattered my soul!!!
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend at the end of january. It was sort of getting distant in the end there and I realized he'd been sort of confused about things. I kinda was trying to end it because of how he was treating me.. our relationship didn't last ...
A. 15 March 2009: It's hard when a significant other moves on quickly. There is really nothing you can do about it. Just know it has nothing to do with you. Some people just aren't good at being alone. I'm sure he did care about you when you were together. Someti... (read in full...)
I want him to know I want more than friendship without scaring him away.
Q. I dated a guy for a few weeks last year but he felt it was too soon for us to begin a relationship so soon after the break up of our long-term relationships with other people. His decision not to move forward with our relationship really hurt me as ...
A. 15 March 2009: You have put yourself in a sticky situation. That is one of the problems with dating friends.
I wouldn't come right out and tell him you want more then friendship at this point. Your best bet is just to just meet up with him sometime. Like ask... (read in full...)
What kind of moves do guys use if they want sex?
Q. This guy invited me to his house the next time I'll be home (which will be around Easter). He hasn't said what we'd be doing; he just said perhaps the next time I'm home we can just meet at his house. I'm hoping we watch a movie or have dinner or ...
A. 15 March 2009: haha, well keep me updated on how it goes. Feel free to send me a personal message. If he starts to get too touchy to soon, you will just have to tell him you like him, but you don't want to move that quickly. I hope everything works out for yo... (read in full...)
I feel wrongfully accused of being a "tease"
Q. I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now but we have known each other for about 2 months. We we first got together, he pressed himself against me and I said that I don't do that without a commitment and asked if he wanted to try dating ...
A. 15 March 2009: It's one thing to take it slow. It's another to act like he is acting. It is perfectly ok for you to want commitment before taking your relationship to the next level. You guys have been seeing each other long enough that he should have had time to ... (read in full...)
She in my head and I want to chill and maybe look else where'
Q. I'm 22 and in my first year at University studying Fine Art. My best friend is a girl called 'Sally'. We hit it off from the start of term (September 2008). She is in a relationship with this guy who lives somewhere else in England. She i...
A. 15 March 2009: You have totally given her all the power. Yes, she is cheating on her boyfriend, and you are the other guy. You are allowing it to happen. It doesn't seem like you are cool being the "other guy," though. You want more out of it, but that's not going ... (read in full...)
What kind of moves do guys use if they want sex?
Q. This guy invited me to his house the next time I'll be home (which will be around Easter). He hasn't said what we'd be doing; he just said perhaps the next time I'm home we can just meet at his house. I'm hoping we watch a movie or have dinner or ...
A. 15 March 2009: I'm actually the anon below. I answered this before I created my account. I'm fairly certain he likes you. The balls in your court to how receptive you are. Don't be afraid to touch and tease him back if you are interested. That will let him know ... (read in full...)
She wants to break up but I just cant?
Q. I got a relationship for over 7 months now, but now my girl wants to breakup with me because she said she didnt felt anything for me for quite a while now.. I begged her to give me 1 week to make her fall in love with me again, but she said it woul...
A. 15 March 2009: This may hurt a little, but your relationship is over. She is humoring you because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
You have to let go and move on. It will be hard at first. Trying to win her back when she has already decided to move on is i... (read in full...)
How can I make her happy again?
Q. ok, me and my girlfriend have been dating for over 3 months. and for about the first 2 months we were smiling, kissing, laughing ALL the time. but now we dont really do that as much. she doesnt seem that happy anymore, and i really want her to be ...
A. 15 March 2009: You can't make someone else happy. Her happiness is her own, and although you can influence her feelings, only she can be happy or not.
What you see happening is the end of the "honeymoon" period of your relationship. This tends to happen, ... (read in full...)
Why does he protect the malicious ex?
Q. I've been dating my new blooke for 8 weeks, things are going very well, we get on amazingly well and for the first time in quite a while I really feel something for this guy. Now, as most guys do, he has An Ex. One of the kinda pain in the a** ...
A. 15 March 2009: I think he's just a big push-over to be honest. I doubt he has any romantic interest in her. I could be wrong, of course, but from what you say it seems like they were just really good friends at one point, and he's a big push-over.
Hopef... (read in full...)
My friend and my b/f don't get along and now he's refusing to see me
Q. hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now.. him and my friend don't get on at all, they really hate each other and are always at each others necks..! on friday at school we were sat in the hall talking and my friend came and sat ...
A. 15 March 2009: Your friend is jealous of your boyfriend. Probably because he gets your time. You need to tell her to leave him alone. Put yourself in his shoes. You are hanging out with him and his best friend or whatever is always insulting you when you guys are ... (read in full...)
We met, had sex, and now he doesn't call
Q. hi i met this guy and we talked on the fone all the time 4 a couple of months before we met, then we met up he came 2 mine we had sex. then we met up the other nite i went 2 his, its jus he dosent call or text me that often like he used 2, does he ...
A. 15 March 2009: I hate to say it, but its probably just a booty call thing. He may or may not call again, but he's not serious about a relationship.... (read in full...)
How do I trust her when I know this guy wants her?
Q. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 4 years. Recently she has made friends with a guy who I think just wants to get into her pants. She wants to go and hang out with him. She says she won't let anything happen and I do trust her but she ...
A. 15 March 2009: You'll get insulted and called controlling by many girls for this question. Honestly though, if she wants to always go hang out with this guy solo, you have cause to worry. Once in awhile isn't a big deal, but it if becomes like an every week type ... (read in full...)
My online guy wants me to fly out to his state and met him
Q. I have been talking to this guy online for almost a year now. We talk daily and seems like a great guy. He wants me to fly out to his state and meet him. I really want to but im a little nervous. I'm 21 and he is a bit older he is 30 and is divor...
A. 15 March 2009: He really should fly to meet you the first time. I would bring it up with him that you would feel more comfortable if he came to visit you.... (read in full...)
I find it a turn off that he's pushy about sex!
Q. I have been going out with this guy now for 9 months, in the beginning things were great, it was so good I thought he was 'the one' until I started to get more tired as was suffering from a lot of stress in work. I told him I can't have sex cos I ...
A. 15 March 2009: The dude has problems. Everybody has a different libido, and he should be respectful of yours. Especially since you guys already do have sex so much. It's not like you refuse to ever have sex with him.
He just seems kind of selfish to be honest. ... (read in full...)
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