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23 March 2010: I don't know if anyone else has noticed, but nowadays it seems like it has become completely acceptable (and inevitable) that if you are in a relationship your partner is deffinately going to cheat. You see all these poor humilliated women in the m...
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I've fallen for one of my students
Q. I'm a 24 year male teacher. I work in a college I have been looking for love for quite some time. The problem is that I always end up with the wrong person. I know that I'm a good person. Nothing in the world hurts me more than injustice or seeing ...
A. 25 June 2013: Firstly, you are not a pervert. You can't help who you fall for and to be honest, 6 years isn't that big a gap, there are married couples with more than 10 years between them! The big issue here is, HE IS YOUR STUDENT. if anyone were to find out... (read in full...)
How can you tell someone theyre being unfair without it descending into a massive argument.
Q. Im going through a custody battle right now and I have court on friday so this whole time is quite stressful for me. Well my boyfriends been going out on weekends staying out all night and I dont know where he is. He keeps talking to is ex who h...
A. 25 June 2013: Nora B is right, the custody battle is the most important thing right now.
You need to concentrate on you and not worry about this guy, he seems quite immature and hung up on his ex and comparing your relationships isn't fair.
A good boyfrien... (read in full...)
Could this mean we both want to get back together?
Q. My ex and I broke up 3 years ago. We are both in high school. She just broke up with her boyfriend of two-three years. She is really shy, as am I. We never talked much until recently, only over text.. The other day, she "accidentally" texted me. She ...
A. 25 June 2013: Maybe she is testing the water to see if you are interested in speaking to her thus the ''accidental'' message I wouldn't rush anything right now though, she's only just broken up with someone after a long term relationship. How long were you gu... (read in full...)
Is it ok to cheat?
Q. I don't know if anyone else has noticed, but nowadays it seems like it has become completely acceptable (and inevitable) that if you are in a relationship your partner is deffinately going to cheat. You see all these poor humilliated women in the m...
A. 28 February 2011: woah, only just read the responses! thanks for all your insights guys, you all have a fair point. The reason i posted this was due to personal issues myself, so again thank you x... (read in full...)
Feelings for first love flooded back when he contacted me
Q. I am not married but with my boyfriend of over three year.( Who I have a one year old child with.) And my first love just contacted me after three Years of no contact. Well all the feeling came rushing back to me and on top of that my current ...
A. 27 March 2010: There was obviously a reason why you two broke up in the first place but of course your old feelings will come back, you cared strongly for this person.
Firstly, he might just want a friendly chat, maybe he was feeling nostalgic so looked you up. ... (read in full...)
I want him to want me for more than fun
Q. I went out with this lad a week ago, i wne tout lastnight and bumped in to him and i asked him out right what he was looking for, as in a relationship or just a bit of fun just so i knew where i stand. he said he doesnt want a relationship because ...
A. 27 March 2010: It's completely dependant on the person.
Do you have things in common? is there a friendship aswel as just seeing eachother?
i think you should just have fun at the moment, but if you do really like him just tell him but try not to pressure... (read in full...)
My family doesn't approve of my boyfriend and I fear I will be all alone if we break up!
Q. I feel so alone! I've been with my bf for just one year and we're quite happy. Lately though we've quarreled more and more. Nothing too serious though, and he's always very sad afterwards and we make up quick. Anyways, this quarreling is making me ...
A. 26 March 2010: Have you spoken to your family about it? if not you should, why do they not like him? maybe they took something he said/did the wrong way and you need to set them straight.
Or maybe you should try and see if they will get to know him, if they wont... (read in full...)
Being needy scaring him off?
Q. met what i thought was the perfect guy (im assuming im talking on behalf of a lot of girls lol) he was meeting me all the time texting, ringing then i went and blew things by being a little needy i hadnt heard from him for like 16 hrs so being ...
A. 25 March 2010: i think you may be over-thinking things a little bit, if he wasn't interested in you he wouldn't be coming into your work just to see you.
maybe you should ease off abit, you don't want to end up pushing him away.
Just keep doing what you're d... (read in full...)
Does this brother - sister relationship seem strange to you?
Q. My girlfriend (21) seems unhealthily too close to her 13 year old brother. She calls him sweetie all the time and seems obsessively interested in his life particulary any girlfriends/relationships. She has him round her house every Thursday night ...
A. 25 March 2010: It's fine for a brother and sister to be close, but if you feel that uncomfortable about it or it seems a little to close maybe you should say something, do it in a calm way like you're just having a conversation rather than start an uneccesary ... (read in full...)
He said he loved me, but had commitment issues to work on. Help!
Q. Me And My Ex Bf Have Been Together A Year And A Bit, We Fight All The Time, Due To The Fact He Lives 15 Hours Away From Me, But Comes And Stays With Me Often, His Family Hate My Guts, Even Tho I've Never Spoken To Them Really, And They Are All Close ...
A. 23 March 2010: It sounds like his family are quite controlling and if they hate you for no reason that's a bit unfair and he should stick up for you.
He treated you terribly when you stayed with him, you must have been scared meeting his family and he wasn't ther... (read in full...)
What are some symptoms of pregnancy, and how soon can I take a pregnancy test?
Q. Hi there.. I'm in a bit of add situation last time I had my period was 10 feb, 3 weeks ago I my bf and I had sex after that last week we did again. Problem is I can't remember when last I have had my period since the 10th of feb, I actually don't ...
A. 23 March 2010: you can take a test whenever you like, the sooner the better really so you can start planning if you are.... (read in full...)
I'm scared if he find out I have 2 kids, he'll run. Help!
Q. I'm a 23 year old female and I have 2 kids. A girl aged 4 and a boy aged 15 months. My daughter's father passed away when she was just a year old and I broke up with my son's father when he was still a baby because of his infidelity. I stayed singl...
A. 23 March 2010: You need to tell him, if you don't and then he finds out it will deffinately cause problems.
He is a father himself and wants to be involved in your sons life, so he obviously likes kids therefore your other child wont be a problem.
And if it is th... (read in full...)
Her importance to him bothers me, but he says I'm just jealous. Please help!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. We also live together. We have a great relationship, but there is one big issue. His female friend Suzy. Suzy is his old roomate who screwed him over on about $5000 worth of household bills. ...
A. 23 March 2010: You're not crazy, there is deffinately something not right about this situation.
It's fine for your boyfriend to have friends obviously but it's a little excessive.
you say they talk for hours on the phone and text throughout the day and he drops... (read in full...)
Did he really mean it when he said he loved me?
Q. Hey, I'm 16 (female) and would really appreciate some help. right so the thing is ive been best friends with this guy for about a year and a half now, he's gay and we both had relationships with boys in the past. we do everything together school,...
A. 23 March 2010: To be honest, it sounds like he's a bit confused/ was quite drunk (like you said he's known for turning straight when drunk)
At the end of the day he is actually gay so even if he did like you, would it ever work?
And would you really want to ruin ... (read in full...)
She wont answer my calls, is she still angry with me?
Q. i have got married to the girl of my dreams and lost her 1.5 months after wedding, the reason was our repeated arguments and i was tough enough with her although i love her more than myself. she left three weeks ago, she is not answering my calls, ...
A. 23 March 2010: To be honest, maybe you should just leave her to it for a bit. She's obviously in a difficult place at the moment and doesn't want to talk.
Just let her know you're waiting and you love her and she can contact you when she's ready.
In the mean tim... (read in full...)
Is he really attracted to me? Or does he still like girls what are a size 0?
Q. I just started dating this guy a couple weeks ago and he has been bringing up his x girlfriends all the time. He always says he likes me and stuff but he still ALWAYS brings them up. It didn't really bug me until I decided to be a facebook creeper ...
A. 23 March 2010: firstly, just because you're not size zero doesn't mean you can't be attractive!
Also, if you do genuinely like him, tell him you don't really appreciate him bringing up all these girls all the time.
What you need to think about though is if that'... (read in full...)
I'm jealous and it eats me up inside, how can I get over that?
Q. Hey i am a very jelous person but i only am when it comes to my boyfriend. I dont let it afect our relationship cuz i keep most of my jelousy inside. Cuz most of it is stuff that he cant help like girls liking him an stuff like that. But it eats me ...
A. 22 March 2010: You need to stop worrying so much, you're the one he is with and he obviously isn't interested in anyone else.
You don't want to end up pushing him away which is what might happen if the situation gets any worse.
Also just make sure you communic... (read in full...)
Is she into me or does she just see me as a 'mate from the club'?
Q. SO heres the thing, I was out with my mate and his work mates, i met one of his girl co-workers and we was chatting for a bit in this club and that was that for a while. Little later on in the night we met back up and we was talking for a bit, then ...
A. 22 March 2010: It seems like she is deffinately into you, especially if she left her mates to chat with you. The reason she was proabably a bit funny after you hadn't spoken for a while is because she probably wanted you to chase her a bit more/playing hard to ... (read in full...)
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