A woman came to my door telling me she was through seeing him, and he claims he doesn't even know her?
Q. Boy Friend trouble....Need help figuring it all out...Is he cheating? OK I have posted before asking questions and I have to add more details. I am currently 28 years with a 9 year old little girl and my boy friend is 48. He has kids himself ...
A. 18 June 2009: Sounds to me like he is cheating and he got caught, so he is trying his damnest to cover his tracks. Of course you want to believe him...you love him...but that still doesn't change the fact that he is cheating. Another woman showed up at your ... (read in full...)
Is 22in waist reasonable for a 5ft 4in, 110 pound girl?
Q. I'm 5'4" and I weigh about 110-115 on average. My measurements are 34-25-35. My butt is kind of average to flat so most of my hip measurement comes from my actual hips, not my butt. I've always had kind of big hips in comparison to the rest of my ...
A. 17 June 2009: I actually work as a director for a modeling agency. I can assure you that your measurements are perfect for your build. Your chest and hips should be the same size or very close. Your waist should be no more than 10" smaller. So if you are ... (read in full...)
He's great in all aspects except he never contacts me, and I feel I'm doing all the work!
Q. Hi guys I've been with my boyfriend for a couple of weeks. Im 21 and he's 28. We live 30miles from each other. We've known each other for years and after breaking up from my horrible ex, we've made a go of things. He is amazing....when ...
A. 11 June 2009: You just need to let him breathe a little. Guys LOVE the chase...so let him chase you. Don't be the first to call or send a text. Let him do it. And you don't have to answer every call or every text. He will come around when he thinks you may be ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my married man dilemma?
Q. Hi, Im desperately in need of some advice on my situation which I know may be a familiar one. I met a married man, who's 12 yrs older than me (I'm 35) just over 2 years ago, we clicked straight away and have fallen in love and our relationshi...
A. 11 June 2009: Please don't subject yourself to this. If this man has been married for 20 years and has had 3 affairs with women other than you, then that should be some indication as to what he is looking to get out of your relationship. I know he is telling ... (read in full...)
Is the grass really greener on the other side? Or not?
Q. I met my girlfriend when i was 16, we are now both 20 now and have been together for four years. Over the last four years both of our personalities have changed, mainly that I now enjoy going out drinking and clubbing whilst I am young wheras her ...
A. 11 June 2009: This is a tough one. No matter what you choose you will always wonder what if. You really need to sit her down and talk to her about what you are thinking. Sometime apart maybe what is best for the both of you, and allow you to enjoy your youth. ... (read in full...)
A mother's advice needed - I'm a father who needs help understanding women.
Q. I truly feel I have to explain a little background. I just got out of a seven year rocky relationship with the mother of beautiful baby girl who is the true holder of my heart. I was in no way inocent in all our problems but definatly not the only ...
A. 5 June 2009: I am a single mother of two who divorced and in a relationship, so I understand the dynamics. I am assuming that the texts to your ex were about you and her maybe getting back together. I know that you want to be with your daughter all the time ... (read in full...)
Should I follow my head or my heart?
Q. I felt that my new relationship (4 months) was progressing great. I was taken aback by how it ended. Saturday night we had a nice romantic time together. Sunday we had what I consider being a small argument and she told me on the spot that that ...
A. 2 June 2009: I could not agree more...follow your heart. Women analyze a relationship while it is happening...men (not all, but some)wait until it is over to figure out what the problem is.
It sounds to me like maybe she just didn't know where she stood wi... (read in full...)
Sex with the ex used to be amazing and the new boyfriend doesn't quite match up!
Q. Hello ladies out there, I have a strange situation and want to see if anyone else has faced this. About six years ago, I ended two year relationship with a guy. We were not compatible, no abuse, cheating, etc. The issue is that the guy had a ...
A. 1 June 2009: Sorry to just now be getting back to you fungirl169. I never discussed the size issue with him. I just did my research. I found positions that made it SO MUCH BETTER for me. He would get so excited when I would want to try something new. He ... (read in full...)
Sex with the ex used to be amazing and the new boyfriend doesn't quite match up!
Q. Hello ladies out there, I have a strange situation and want to see if anyone else has faced this. About six years ago, I ended two year relationship with a guy. We were not compatible, no abuse, cheating, etc. The issue is that the guy had a ...
A. 1 June 2009: Sorry to just now be getting back to you fungirl169. I never discussed the size issue with him. I just did my research. I found positions that made it SO MUCH BETTER for me. He would get so excited when I would want to try something new. He ... (read in full...)
When I get drunk I turn into a different person and I'm so cruel to her
Q. I'm so scared of losing my girlfriend, but i can't stop hurting her! It's like i've got the bad guy on one shoulder, and the good guy on the other! We've been for almost 2 years now and both at college, and going to the same uni in october....
A. 21 May 2009: I was married to someone who did this to me for 10 years. Notice I said WAS MARRIED. While my ex claimed to love and adore me...when he drank...it got ugly. I literally dropped him off on the doorstep of a rehab facility once. It worked for a ... (read in full...)
How can I force my girlfriend into dropping some weight?
Q. Ive been dating my girlfriend off and on for two years. We are both in our 40's and she is a couple of years older than me and has two grown up kids. We get on really great and spend a lot of time together, although we don't live together. She is a...
A. 21 May 2009: I can't help but agree with all of the responses that have been posted! 10 pounds...REALLY!!! And I am sure that you are just PERFECT. Have you ever thought that maybe...just maybe...there is something about YOU that she is disgusted by? You ... (read in full...)
Staring at me and acting like a "panicked rat" WHY?
Q. A few weeks ago, I finally told him that I liked him. Straight up. Face to face. Honestly. I didn't ask him how he felt about me though, I was too scared. So instead, I asked him if we could be friends, and he said that yes, cause he loved me very...
A. 21 May 2009: You can never really tell what is going on in a guys head. It could be that he felt there was some type of pressure from you and your friends and that may be what's causing him to react the way he does. Guys don't like to feel pressured into ... (read in full...)
We're both married, were once married to each other..feelings still there
Q. In 1973 I was 17 and my boyfriend was 18 we married in 1975 and divorced in 1980. we both grew up in the same small town so our parents keept us informed through out the years. we both have remarried and have long marriages mine 25 his 23 both with ...
A. 20 May 2009: As someone who is also divorced, I think it is only natural to have those feelings toward your ex. I am very good friends with my ex-husband with whom I have 2 children. He was a big part of my life, just as your ex is a part of yours and that ... (read in full...)
Sex with the ex used to be amazing and the new boyfriend doesn't quite match up!
Q. Hello ladies out there, I have a strange situation and want to see if anyone else has faced this. About six years ago, I ended two year relationship with a guy. We were not compatible, no abuse, cheating, etc. The issue is that the guy had a ...
A. 20 May 2009: I started my current relationship in a similar situation. My BF is not as large as my ex. However, we learned to make it work and the sex is earth shaking. My suggestion is that you take matters into your own hands. Like Britt492 said, do ... (read in full...)
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