BF took money from daughter's room. I am not sure what to do about this relationship. Please help.
Q. here is my dilema...my boyfriend of 5 years is lazy , has lied a lot in the past, I found out last year that he got oral from another man when he was in his teens .. i have been thru a lot with this guy.. but i am the kind of person that sees the ...
A. 9 April 2011: he drinks, he stole and invaded your daughters privacy he gave you flowers and a bla bla letter and stank of booze when he gave them to you which was bought from your daughters money he stole. just a few highlights from what you wrote. Get rid o... (read in full...)
He's with someone new but still calling. Why?
Q. Question: My boyfriend, now my ex-boyfriend said during our relationship that i "scare the sh*t out of him." He said that he's not ready to settle down. But neither am i. I'm a nice girl, sweet, smart, and I've got my stuff together (good job, etc). ...
A. 7 April 2011: I think cupidus has said it all, pay particular attention to this part of what cupidus wrote (Also if all falls through with his NOW GF he's certainly set you up for a rebound. That little hook he keeps poking you with from time to time. )
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He says it's just "friendly banter." How should I handle this?
Q. Do you think I'm over-reacting? 2 am today my bf's mobile rang. I thought it was his alarm, which he'd asked me to set the night before, and got up to re-set it for the right time, but it was a text from a girl. I know I shouldn't have, but I read ...
A. 3 April 2011: there are a few things that are needed in a relationship, trust, loyalty, love, and it looks like from what you have written your trust in him has diminished, unless you can bring yourself to trust him again then Im afraid the relationship is not ... (read in full...)
Meeting a guy from Facebook... How do I remain calm?
Q. So, there's a guy ive been talking to through facebook, and we've been talking for several months now... We text/chat/call each other all the time, and have soooo much in common, and we seem to click very well. I really like him, and I think I love ...
A. 1 April 2011: this all sound great but there is just one thing to keep in mind, is he really a 13 year old kid... im saying this because there are a lot of people out there who say they are young and the pics are not theres but of someone elses kid and there ... (read in full...)
I get turned on too easily and sometimes say things I don't mean to men
Q. Dear Cupid, I have a question... It's kind of an awkward question, so I'll just get to the chase. Since I am maturing both mentally and bodily, I have also been experiencing sexuality. Yes, I'm still a virgin and so on, but I feel I get turned o...
A. 1 April 2011: thiers is nothing wrong with the feelings you are having, its all part of growing up an body changes. if your mum is easily approachable talk to her or if you have an older sister talk to her or go and see your doctor for advice on your hormone ... (read in full...)
I'm sending him this breakup note. Am I doing the right thing?
Q. I need some external advice because i am a mess and i do not want to do anything i regret later. I used to go out with this guy and we were really in love. Then he just pulled back and we decided to stay friends. The problem is even that he liv...
A. 31 March 2011: to be loved is to be hugged and not bugged and from what you have written this guy is not huging you he is bugging you.
forget him and move on, your just wasting your time with him, and remember time is precious when it comes to living so use the ... (read in full...)
I don't feel attraction for anyone
Q. Basically my problem is that I don't feel attraction for anyone. I've dated quite a few men but when I considered having sex or doing anything intimate with them I felt really turned off, repulsed even. I assumed it was because I hadn't met the ...
A. 31 March 2011: I aint no expert in this but here is a site they may be of some help to you http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/sex_relationships/facts/lackingsexdrive.htm sorry i cant be more help .
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Why does he only want me for sex?
Q. He talks about my boobs and how I should come and stay the night at his. He said he misses me and keeps talking about what we used to do in bed. Sad part is, I like him but when he was single I gave him the chance to be with me and he didn't want ...
A. 31 March 2011: this guy obviously only has one intention with you and thats sex, give him the elbow, your worth a lot more, to be honest from what you have written i dont see anything about him to like and that he sees you only as someone to have sex with.
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I want to join the team but I am insecure about my homosexuality.
Q. Dear cupid, I have recently been wanting to join rugby practice for my local team since I have an interest in rugby but I don't have confidence to go :S also I'm not certain but I think some people from my school go there aswel and I don't really ...
A. 31 March 2011: Dont let it stop you from doing what you want, I dont know anything about rugby but you could try this site i just googled http://international-gay-rugby-association-and-board.co.tv/. hope this helps you with making the dicision to stop thinking ... (read in full...)
I'm growing up and feeling sexual and I'm worried about how far I will go.
Q. i am getting these strange attractions to practically all the boys.. i feel very sexually attracted to them, and to be honest, im quite worried about how far i would go if they took advantage. the summer is coming up and there is always a harmless ...
A. 31 March 2011: you are just exsperiencing the natrual feelings of a human, as to how far you go is your choice, all i can advise is that you think before you act. your young and you have your whole life ahead of you. I have a 14 year old daughter and it is a worry ... (read in full...)
No one knows how unhappy I am. I'd appreciate some advice.
Q. I have been feeling very lonely and upset lately. I have a boyfriend of 6 years and everything is fine with him, but in the last while I have become really self conscious about how I look and I feel really awkward around people. I think that people ...
A. 30 March 2011: This may not work for everyone but it worked for me and maybe if you give it a go it may help you to. for many years i secluded myself from the social scene, always telling myself I dont fit in anywhere, my health went to a low, I wasnt eating ... (read in full...)
Porn and hurtful google searches found on my boyfriend's computer......I need advice!
Q. Hey everyone, so I need some advice, I recently found some things on my boyfriends computer that really confused/upset me. Some background: ~We met at University and have been dating for 21/2 years now. ~I am his 1st girlfriend although I ha...
A. 30 March 2011: take a step back and look and read wot you have written. this guy is not going to make you happy and from your letter he really isnt making you happy. you say you love him, ask yourself what is it about him that causes you to love him. he is l... (read in full...)
I had sex with someone else while we were on a break and now he says I am 'dirty' to him, what can I do?
Q. My boyfriend who I love more that anything else told me we should take a break so he could deal with some issues. A week later I saw he was taking someone to prom and I knew he liked her. Out of jealousy and a need for security, I had sex with a ...
A. 30 March 2011: your young and still learning about life, what you did doesnt make you dirty. my suggestion is that due to the fact of how he feels towards you now will only make life hard for you both. he wont trust you and you will be using up too much energy ... (read in full...)
I hate my course and I am homesick, but my family have invested a lot of money into this! What should I do?
Q. i came to new zealand for my higher studies. My aim was to study while doing a part time job so that i can find next year's tuition fee. Yet things are worse than i thought than it would be. I could not find a job yet. goods are very costly here and ...
A. 30 March 2011: stick with the course, even though you hate it now but at the end of the course you will have achieved a skill and qualification that in turn will give you a much better chance at getting a job in graphic design and you can then progress to becoming ... (read in full...)
40 year age gap, is it worth the envitable heartache?
Q. Hi, I'm 27 and dating a man who is 68. We have been together almost a year and some of our friends and family know but I do often question my sanity for dating someone so much older. Before starting this relationship I had a few longer ones with men ...
A. 30 March 2011: Its your choice, stay with him if you are truly in love with him, but if you are not then you should consider finding someone younger. from what you wrote you have doubts so what you need to do is think of the doubts you have and look at what you ... (read in full...)
I'm ashamed of my cutting scars
Q. I've got a couple scars on my body from cutting/injuring myself when I was younger. I'm ashamed of it and when I know I will be intimate with a man, I always put on makeup to cover them up. If he does notice them and asks me about them, I li...
A. 30 March 2011: dont be ashamed, if the guy you are with is a decent genuine guy with a heart he will accept you as and for who you are, for you to have gone through the thorns of life and come out the other end still standing is an achivment and victory for you ... (read in full...)
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