I am attracted to my cousin, she hasn't given me an answer but she hasn't said no either....where do I take it from here?
Q. I have been attracted to my cousin for years now and have actually talked to her about it. She says i am a good looking guy and would date me in a heartbeat but since we are cousins we cant. She said she would think about sex but has never given me ...
A. 15 July 2011: As far as being legal or illegal it depends where you live. There are some states in the USA that allow it including the state of Maine. It is not just something for the south in the USA. Love is love and you should do what makes both of you happy. ... (read in full...)
Does my cousin love me or not?
Q. i had a crush on my cousin.since then i got into another relationship but in between there was a problem and i went to him for advice but he advised me to break up.but anyways me and my boyfriend spoke and solved the problem but he said to stay ...
A. 31 May 2011: He is in love with you and he is terrified about what the family might think. There such a thing as genetic attraction where cousins and siblings fall in love with each other. A person can not help who they fall in love with and if you two truely ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend talks about sex but when the opportunity arises he backs out!
Q. me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 1 year and 4 months (whos counting :P) and i am really beginning to think that i love him. the problem im having is that we are always talking about having sex, but when an opportunity comes up, he ...
A. 29 May 2011: Some guys are emotional stimulated more than the physical. When he starts emotional fore play like that follow through and start the action and see what happens. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend always makes me initiate sex!
Q. when me + my boyriend got together we were both virgins . we have been together for 8 months + have been having safe sex for just 1 month. i enjoy having sex with him, but it always seems to be the same. he will innitiate it, + then lie back + e...
A. 29 May 2011: Some guys like an agressive woman and like it when they take control it makes them feel she really likes him. The next time he starts out and then just lay back, tell it is his turn to be on top mister. You are still in control and you are giving ... (read in full...)
Can I stop myself from being so wet?
Q. Hey, I'd love some advice from guys and girls about whether I am getting too wet to pleasure my guy during sexual intercourse. We've been together 7 months and everything is great :) He's the most well-endowed guy I've ever been with, and when we ...
A. 23 May 2011: I think the wetter it is the better it feels and it bettter to get an orgasm. You say he watches porn, hmm maybe he is ejaculating before he has sex with you and the need to have an orgasm is no longer there. Some guys if they ejaculate will not do ... (read in full...)
I feel like a crazy person. It's as if I won't allow anyone to love me, but I WANT somebody to love me.
Q. Why am I so picky when it comes to men? I'll like a guy and the minute he starts to get interested in me it's like I completely go off him, infact I can't stand him to be around me or touch me. And even liking a guy is a rare occurance, I never ...
A. 23 May 2011: It sounds to me like you have some emotional scars that are causing the trap. Almost like your scars have created a web of prtection and when anyone gets close to you they get caught in it and then you want to put it into a cacoon to protect ... (read in full...)
I think I've done everything wrong that women aren't supposed to do!
Q. My boyfriend and I haven't been dating for very long, only four months but i feel we have a very good strong relationship. My boyfriend tells me how much he loves me and has even spoken about marrige or spending his life with me, im his first love ...
A. 23 May 2011: Do not change anything about who you are, he will pickup on the fact that something is different and start wondering what is wrong. If he had a hard time with fsmily it is possible there may be something he is dealing with in his past. Guys are not ... (read in full...)
If you believe its true love, how do you not let them get away?
Q. if you believe its true love? how do you not let him get away? the man im so in love with, with everything i have says that he still means everything he used to say to me like he can't wait to have children etc, that he's lost me once and never will ...
A. 23 May 2011: If you have to try and hold someone down then it is not true love for both only a one sided love. The best way to test true love is to let them go and if they return then it was meant to be. I know it is one of the most painful things to do. However ... (read in full...)
Bigger boyfriend has made me looser?
Q. Super quick question! Recently I've been having sex with my boyfriend who is very very well endowed. He's the biggest I've ever had in me and sometimes it's even very painful. But, a couple minutes ago I was fingering myself and it just felt looser. ...
A. 23 May 2011: I have heard about this happening, it is normal.... (read in full...)
People tell me I'll find someone else but I want HIM!
Q. It would be wonderful to get some insight into this situation. The short version is this: I've met someone that I felt this brotherly love for, as a friend, but recently I had an epiphany and realized I had feelings for him. The trouble is,...
A. 22 May 2011: You have so many questions that it is hard to remember them all. You should ask more questions and keep it simple, I think you'll get more answers. First have you told him your real feelings, you will never know what might happen unless you try. He ... (read in full...)
What does her behaviour mean?
Q. During last semester a girl of my class started gazing at me which I noticed two or three times but I just turned my attention to some other work because initially I wasn't interested. Then I and my friend were talking about our group assignment...
A. 22 May 2011: I think that if she does not have the interest to continue talking to you and just wants to be freinds on facebook but she will hang out with other guys. There is something very odd about that. You have approched her with your interest, if she is ... (read in full...)
She cheated, I forgave her, but I still hurt inside. Will this ever go away?
Q. My girlfriend and i have been together for two years. We've been through a lot together and i love her very much. Our relationship is far from perfect, but we work very hard on our flaws together. One thing, though, that's really difficult for me, ...
A. 21 May 2011: People like to say forgive and forget but it is not always that easy. To forgive is to not to act upon your anger and to give a second chance. Time heals all wounds if she does not mess up again, then your love will renew.... (read in full...)
What does her behaviour mean?
Q. During last semester a girl of my class started gazing at me which I noticed two or three times but I just turned my attention to some other work because initially I wasn't interested. Then I and my friend were talking about our group assignment...
A. 20 May 2011: Some girls are really shy, does she have other boys she hangs out with? If so then she is avoiding you, if not you need to be persistant and paitient. Sometimes love is not easy... (read in full...)
Should we keep it as step bro and sis or do we explore what could be?
Q. ive recently become reacquainted w my "stepbrother" we havent seen each other in over 20 yrs. my mom married his dad and his dad adopted me and my sister. he has since past away. i didn't know my step brother growing up we only lived together about ...
A. 18 May 2011: The real issue here is how does your mom think about you two hooking up. I would ask you mom about your feelings and see if she is with you two having a relationship. If she is ok with it and you two fall in love their is not a biological ques... (read in full...)
Is it possible to go from love to friendship so soon?
Q. I've always been highly skeptical of the love at first sight discussions. Or the 'when you met the one, you'll know' theories. And then it happened to me, a few months before I am leaving the country. At first it was a whirlwind of coincide abou...
A. 18 May 2011: Men are logical creatures, we think with our heads first and then let our hearts take control. He is terrified about a long distant relationship and does not want to get hurt. If you really want him think about how you can make the commitment to h... (read in full...)
What does her behaviour mean?
Q. During last semester a girl of my class started gazing at me which I noticed two or three times but I just turned my attention to some other work because initially I wasn't interested. Then I and my friend were talking about our group assignment...
A. 18 May 2011: She is shy and she thinks you're really hot. When a girl stares at you it is their way of letting you know they want you. I think it is a good idea to ask her out and start a relationship with her.... (read in full...)
What are the rules about second cousins getting married?
Q. So my 2nd cousin and I finally admitted our feelings for each other. I fell completely for him. we both love each other and we plan on getting married here soon in the next couple years. I truly love him but I'm afaird what other people will say i ...
A. 18 May 2011: Every state is different, check at the court house.... (read in full...)
I need advice to get over my ex lover & focus on my family...
Q. I had an affair w/a married man that lasted 2 years. He is my co-worker and was my husbands best friend, what makes it worse is that his wife was also my best friend. We were "soulmates" and very much in love. I got pregnant and asked him to ...
A. 17 May 2011: The heart is a fickle instrument of emotion, as long as you dwell upon him he will be the thorn between your marriage. Find some activity that will keep your mind busy. Your heart has a large hole that has ripped it open from infedellity, but it is ... (read in full...)
Teenage friends, recently back in touch, how can I ignite a flame between us?
Q. Can you rekindle a lost love??? We were teenage friends, nothing more just a chaste kiss now and then. Both of us moved away 35 years ago and have now got back in touch, we are both divorced. We seem to be total opposites, he sporty and ...
A. 15 May 2011: Ask him out for dinner and see if there is still a spark, go for it you will never know unless you try.... (read in full...)
I know he likes me, I just don't understand whats going on.......
Q. hi, well this is kind of long, first of all, I feel ashamed to be this confused because i am 27 years old and should not be feeling like this. truth is up until a year a go, i was doing very good when it came to men. my two most relationships, w...
A. 14 May 2011: Sounds like he has lost interest or got scared for some reason. If you two get back together ask him if you have been smothering him?. I do not think so but some people are sensative. Find out if he was in a bad relationship maybe he got cold feet... (read in full...)
Falling in love with my sister
Q. My sister and I seem to have feelings for each other. She has a boyfriend and I also have a girlfriend. I feel like I should tell her that we can submit our feelings to each other. Can I give a try incest and what it feels like?...
A. 12 May 2011: Falling in love with your sister is so complicated. It is not really about wrong or right when I look at it because there is such a thing as genetic atraction. However remember it is illegal in the UAS and the UK. If you have feelings for your ... (read in full...)
I have fallen in love with my brother--help!
Q. I fell for my brother. My brother and I have been close since I was born. When I was 6, I was taken away from my mom and brothers, through a custody trial. Last summer I was able to reconnect with my brother, Tim. We now live together. We wer...
A. 12 May 2011: Having moved from the situation gets you away from but if you still love him you take the chance of continuing in emotional incest toward him. This would be bad for a marriage if you get hitched. Moving really is just running from the problem and it ... (read in full...)
Will committing incest emotionally scar my brother?
Q. Last night my brother and I (I'm a male) got pretty drunk just hanging out. We both started watching some porn, and discussing things, and, well....we ended up partially having sex. We were both consenting adults, although once we realized what was ...
A. 12 May 2011: The scarring emotional takes place I think when the incest continues for a lpng period of time. Like if it seemed that he were to fall in love with you and then the two of you were to stop talking. Just a drunkin binge can be chalked up as a mistake ... (read in full...)
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